Someone pls assure me...

K guys, couldn't hold back anymore. Can anyone pls assure me with their different point of view (if there's any) that this is actually how a possessive mother behaves because it honestly doesn't look like the possessiveness of a mother anymore to me. . I absolutely understand when a mother gets hurt at the fact that her son is not taking care of her properly but doing everything to keep his girlfriend happy, I'd understand if it was like Dev is avoiding/ignoring his mother because of his girlfriend. but that's not the case whatsoever! Dev is taking care of his mother just the way he used to, the best way possible. He's not even ignoring/avoiding Ishwari. It is absolutely normal to get get somewhat possessive over her son. BUT this level of possessiveness?! that she doesn't want her son to get married? be independent? be happy for his own self instead of being happy for others? what does she want? maa ka achal pakad ke chale even at the age of 27? take care of his mom and not have anyone to take care of him who he can call his own only? Take her permission before falling in love? "Maa, I think i kinda like Ms Bose and I'm developing some feelings for her. May I fall in love with her pls?" .. does she want THIS to happen? Like, she honestly behaves like the sautans, i'm not even kidding.

Hahaha your post cracked me up,specially the permission wala part

I totally agree...and i am about to get married in 8 month time plus my fiancee is totally mumma's boy!!!...and i am getting a bit scared to see Ishwari maa's attitude!!! I know it is silly but who will want such kind of insecure mom in law 😔

Originally posted by: khushirani

I totally agree...and i am about to get married in 8 month time plus my fiancee is totally mumma's boy!!!...and i am getting a bit scared to see Ishwari maa's attitude!!! I know it is silly but who will want such kind of insecure mom in law 😔

Originally posted by: Devakshilover

Hahaha your post cracked me up,specially the permission wala part

Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

This is not just possessiveness, but over possessiveness... She's getting insecure and the major reason behind it is that now she has started thinking Dev is listening to all what Sona says and not to her. She is thinking what she couldn't do for all these years, Sona did in just few days. Like she said "Meri baat nahi maanta to dil itna nahi dukhta hai, par jab kisi aur ki maanta hai to di toot sa jaata hai".

She is so busy in her insecurities that she didn't even notice why Dev is doing all these things for her happiness.

Originally posted by: Mushfika

K guys, couldn't hold back anymore. Can anyone pls assure me with their different point of view (if there's any) that this is actually how a possessive mother behaves because it honestly doesn't look like the possessiveness of a mother anymore to me. . I absolutely understand when a mother gets hurt at the fact that her son is not taking care of her properly but doing everything to keep his girlfriend happy, I'd understand if it was like Dev is avoiding/ignoring his mother because of his girlfriend. but that's not the case whatsoever! Dev is taking care of his mother just the way he used to, the best way possible. He's not even ignoring/avoiding Ishwari. It is absolutely normal to get get somewhat possessive over her son. BUT this level of possessiveness?! that she doesn't want her son to get married? be independent? be happy for his own self instead of being happy for others? what does she want? maa ka achal pakad ke chale even at the age of 27? take care of his mom and not have anyone to take care of him who he can call his own only? Take her permission before falling in love? "Maa, I think i kinda like Ms Bose and I'm developing some feelings for her. May I fall in love with her pls?" .. does she want THIS to happen? Like, she honestly behaves like the sautans, i'm not even kidding.

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-Mushfika

Originally posted by: khushirani

I totally agree...and i am about to get married in 8 month time plus my fiancee is totally mumma's boy!!!...and i am getting a bit scared to see Ishwari maa's attitude!!! I know it is silly but who will want such kind of insecure mom in law 😔

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Hey Hey ! Thats not a right way to think lady...cheer up...have a positive approach. Think like the way Sonakshi thought you are not going there to compete with his mom, you are going to complete his family. Once you are clear of this even if she competes it wont hurt you. Most of these things happen is because son's lack the capacity to have a balanced approach.

One suggestion from a person who married a single child 😉. Dont try to change things at their house in the beginning itself. Just go with the flow that was followed...with time slowly you can change things. It helps... trust me it does !!

All the best for a fabulous and fantastic married life!!