An over-indulgence of anything, even as pure as water, can intoxicate.

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Okay! After watching the precap I almost lost my cool. I gave up to understand the character Ishwari. Till now what her actions said I always tried to decipher it in or another way. But today I failed terribly. What was it?


I wish there was a word more than love' itself to convey what Ishwari feels for Dev.
Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate hope. She is acting in just this way. ...an obsession is a way for damaged people to damage themselves more.


More than a mother she is now acting like an obsessed lover who does not get back her unrequited love. (Please forgive me for using harsh language but I need to purge my frustration.). She needs to talk to him istead of whining and trying to trap him in the 'guilt' game.


Repentance is the renewal of life. This means we must free ourselves from all our negative traits and turn toward absolute good. No sin is unforgivable except the sin of unrepentance. But there is no repentance for Ishwari when she said Dev did not leave her even when she had to take a bath! Really you are telling your son this instead of asking anything to him and you are treating Sonakshi like she is your maid or something? Both are in love remember. Dev is not a child anymore that anyone can mislead him. God ! I am so angry!


Thanks for reading. Sorry for a super frustrating post.


Love 🤗
Swapno


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Jade0001 thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Its almost as if Ishwari has to compete with Sona for Dev
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: swapno

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<font size="2">I wish there was a word more than love' itself to convey what Ishwari feels for Dev.</font>
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<font color="#181818" size="2">More than a mother she is now acting like an obsessed lover who does not get back herunrequitedlove. (Please forgive me for using harsh language but I need to purge my frustration.). She needs to talk to him istead ofwhiningand trying to trap him in the 'guilt' game.</font>
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<font color="#181818" size="2">Thanks for reading. Sorry for a super frustrating post.</font>
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<font color="#181818" size="2">Love🤗
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Haha! This brought a smile to my face amidst the frustration.
I share the feeling...

Makers; Please don't give Ishwari dialogues & a character sketch that becomes total embarrassment. Imagine when Dev realises what his Mother is going through and tunes back to things she's saying & actions, he would be embarrassed. At least that would be the feeling in real life...

Ishwari; the kid has grown up!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Amazing post, so true! Every word is absolutely true.
Ishwari is making me so angry (even more than RR) now a days. Her affection is not a "mother's love" it's basically a very unhealthy and obsessive thing- I wouldn't even call it love. I use to think that it's okay for a parent to be insecure, but she's being straight up selfish and that too for no reason. Instead of thanking Sona for bringing a smile on her face, she's obssessing over the fact that he came because of Sona. I CAN NOT WITH THAT LADY!!!!!!!😡😡😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The episode has messed up my head real bad. Seeing today's episode I can say onething for sure. If Dev has to back out from his relationship with Sona then its gonna break him real bad and that will be because of his mom's emotional manipulation and how... She does it so effectively... How will a child not respond to this kind of stimulation..he will never come to know what she is actually doing...
How will he decide fairly then...
. Where the parent is hell bent on making the child feel guilty if he is taking out sometime for himself...how do u escape this... Dev is not trying to replace her as her position in his one is different... The relation is different... He has made a new position for Sona and it's a different relation... He is not displacing Ishwari and putting sona there however this is exactly what Ishwari is making it out to be!!! I am already sorry for him... HE will. Have no choice in front of such a manipulative parent... U would not want him to denounce his mom... Would u!!!! What a messy situation... Sona suffers due to no fault of hers... MlMl 😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post as always👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Tell me about it.

I thought of making a post but decided otherwise. I was upset, real upset yesterday. Ishwari like many of us predicted is behaving as If Dev is her partner n not her son, shit man. Even her language, choice of her words are pointing towards this horrendous behaviour. Someone has to be really deluded to even think like that, disgusting. She is the most vile character in the show presently. Trust me I felt GKB is a saint compared to Ishwari. GKB is only super greedy n she speaks out whatever is on her mind but Ishwari is mad or should I say madly in love with Dev. She manipulates her own child, one who is not so young anymore.

Feel real bad for Dev n Sona right now.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ishwari reminded me of Beyhadh's promo. Too much of anything, even love, can be destructive.
And very true, dnt take this obsession to a point of no return. Still show us Ishwari who is battling her inner turmoil, not this Ma who thinks her son and herself as one. Dev wud b so heartbroken when he understands wat really goes on in his mother's mind.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The precap was a cringefest, really!! Which mother tells her son that she and him are one entity?!! Are you serious? I have always loved the dialogues of this show.. But this was too much.. They are going towards a point of no return.. the entire episode had me nervous except the kitchen scene with Devakshi and Sona warning vicky.. it was nice to see the fire back in her eyes, even if it was only for a minute! My sympathies lie with Dev today, you can't even blame the poor guy, his mom is an expert manipulator.. she is really turning out to be worse than the conniving saas they show in other serials.. I don't know how the hell Sonakshi is going to deal with this
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree on each wrd... awsm post

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