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Posted: 9 years ago
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what exactly is bothering Ishwari ???

1. She thinks Sona is trapping her Bhola son ? she always says mera beta hai hi itna accha...
2. She knows that Dev and Sona are equally invested in this relationship and they kept it a secret ? if so
(a) Should she be angry at Dev for not discussing it with her ?
(b) Should she be angry at Sona -- is she expecting Sona to tell her abt the relationship ??

3. She knows both are in love and just cant bear to share her Dev with anyone ?? if so
(a) She wants to keep Dev unmarried for life ??
(b) or is she in Denial that Dev can love some girl with out getting Ish's permission ??

4. Is she worried about her future ??? does she think that DIL will send her away to village ??? like in the flashback

5. Is she worried that she will not be the only important person in Dev's life ??

what is the problem ??? why so angry at Sona ?? atleast I saw she was a bit upset with Dev also today...

What sadhbudhi is she talking about ??? Does she think Dev made a wrong decision in chosing Sona ???
or
does she mean he needs sadhbuddi to understand that he needs to share this new with his mom ??




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ishwari is someone that I've always liked but today I could not understand her and she been angry at Sonakshi she should actually be angry first at Dev but it seems like Ishwari uses her sweetness in front of Dev and soon she will send him on some guilt trip for falling in love
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Going by the incidents, Ishwari is seeing dev who discusses important issues only with her is discussing with someone else too. Ishwari doesn't like that frankly saying ,she wants her to be the only most important person of dev's life , she kind of feeling that's getting shared and not able to take it and bursting on Sona for obvious reason that she is baharwali and uski beta hai hi itna acha..by precap seems she is emotionally manipulating Dev 👎🏼 😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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'All of the above' reasons true for Ishwari.
She is hurt that Dev hid everything from her, Dev has someone more important than her in his life, fear of being left alone, fear that Dev will forget his responsibilities for his family.

Today she was angry at Dev as well but her final outburst at Sona was totally uncalled for. Everytime Ishwari or GKB will taunt Sona about rituals and customs, and today she refused taking prasad. She should be happy that Dev attended the puja for her after 20yrs but she is more bothered did it bcoz Sona told him to. She shud actually be thankful to Sona for this positive change but she is too obsessed with her son.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: randommusings

'All of the above' reasons true for Ishwari.

She is hurt that Dev hid everything from her, Dev has someone more important than her in his life, fear of being left alone, fear that Dev will forget his responsibilities for his family.

Today she was angry at Dev as well but her final outburst at Sona was totally uncalled for. Everytime Ishwari or GKB will taunt Sona about rituals and customs, and today she refused taking prasad. She should be happy that Dev attended the puja for her after 20yrs but she is more bothered did it bcoz Sona told him to. She shud actually be thankful to Sona for this positive change but she is too obsessed with her son.



what I am interested to know is setting all the other insecurities aside. Does Ishwari think Sona is not the right girl for Dev ??? if so why ??

what is the Sadhbuddi aashirwad for ??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya



what I am interested to know is setting all the other insecurities aside. Does Ishwari think Sona is not the right girl for Dev ??? if so why ??

what is the Sadhbuddi aashirwad for ??


Well I feel its not about Sona completely. Had there been any other girl, Ishwari's reaction wud have been same. In Saloni's case, she sent Dev for a failed trip to avoid Dev n Saloni's interaction. She did not even ask Dev if he wanted to marry Saloni or not. In Natasha's case also she was insecured n prayed to god to help her face d situation.

But Natasha had no influence over Dev and the proposal came via Ishwari, so her insecurities were still under control.

Dev listens to Sona, share his family issues with her, values her opinion, spends time with her alone, lie to Ishwari for Sona, attended puja for Sona, etc. Dev is highly influenced by Sona n Ishwari sees her as a competition.

Well Saddbudhi ashirvaad is for Dev to stop giving so much importance to this random girl, not seek Sona's advise on family matters, rembr his loyalities lie with his mother n family, stay away from Sona
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hmmm...may be any one or all of them!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ishwari does not (did never) want Dev to ever get married, period. He belongs to her n her only.

A mother who has lost her man (husband), wants Dev to be her man (as son) always. Weird but that's what we see now.

Weird weird weird...too much too handle emotionally.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ishwaris mind is filld with devilish thoughts

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