Sonakshi is herself responsible... - Page 3

I am new here, but lemme get in on this conversation here..
I gotta agree wit @dlavanya and @vandyt1602 .
Individuality I think for any person in a relationship is a bit of stretch, because individuals are always looking for people who complete them. And these two have openly agreed that they think they complete each other. There is no individuality without the other just like how there is no relationship without the individuals. So here when Sona who now is a relationship with Dev, though secretive is only doing his part (which has now become her part) in the household. Whether the relationship is a secret from others do not matter when it comes to plain commitment. As for the Romance at work, there has been n number of shows over the years where OTPs have romanced at work, and I have only ever heard shoutouts for more romance. Just because Sona's workplace is Dev's house i see no reason for it to be 'untouched by a tinge of their love' lol. And by tinge I mean really 'itna' sa hi toh romance karte hai woh dono mahatma... And on about the scene in his room, she did go there with an ulterior motive, trying to do a good thing in auntyji's eyes, to compensate for all the mishaps (though unfortunately for her it's going to backfire *ouch*)

And yes about her attire, that's definitely on point - OVERDONE! I really hoped that attire was only for the ad until I saw the precap and knew NOT! Gosh that's I donno what Shona was thinking or should I just blame the CVs / costume designer? The necklace does look god awful :( hope they give some sane explanation...

Thanks
Ress~

Her helping Nikki or Ishwari is perfectly ok as she has developed a personal rapport with them which goes beyond the scope of the job. She wasn't acting as a maid but helping her boyfriend's ailing mother. There is a difference between self respect and unnecessary ego.

Originally posted by: mi7chimes

I am new here, but lemme get in on this conversation here..
I gotta agree wit @dlavanya and @vandyt1602 .
Individuality I think for any person in a relationship is a bit of stretch, because individuals are always looking for people who complete them. And these two have openly agreed that they think they complete each other. There is no individuality without the other just like how there is no relationship without the individuals. So here when Sona who now is a relationship with Dev, though secretive is only doing his part (which has now become her part) in the household. Whether the relationship is a secret from others do not matter when it comes to plain commitment. As for the Romance at work, there has been n number of shows over the years where OTPs have romanced at work, and I have only ever heard shoutouts for more romance. Just because Sona's workplace is Dev's house i see no reason for it to be 'untouched by a tinge of their love' lol. And by tinge I mean really 'itna' sa hi toh romance karte hai woh dono mahatma... And on about the scene in his room, she did go there with an ulterior motive, trying to do a good thing in auntyji's eyes, to compensate for all the mishaps (though unfortunately for her it's going to backfire *ouch*)

And yes about her attire, that's definitely on point - OVERDONE! I really hoped that attire was only for the ad until I saw the precap and knew NOT! Gosh that's I donno what Shona was thinking or should I just blame the CVs / costume designer? The necklace does look god awful :( hope they give some sane explanation...

Thanks
Ress~

I agree wid u except nikki and ishwari matter she is close to thm so she helped thm out.bt the rest of things i agree.Even i didn't like whn she accepted diamond necklace gift from dev,accepting costly gifts frm bf don't go wid sonakshi's personality.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

If sonakshi did not fall i. Love with dev then i agreee to all you have said. Sona knows what work she is expexted to do but also knows that preparing diet chart and giving food to ishwari doesnt take much time and she made some friends in nikki . She is not making bikki study becuase she is working in dixit house but because she wanted nikki to do better as she madr new relationships in dixit house apart from being thier nutritionist. Dixit sisters initially used to call her dr bose but now they call her sona di. Once sona fell for dev and dev reciprocated she is acting exactly how a fiance or dil would act.

Not sure if u remember when natasha was truing to gel with dixits family, she asked everyone to sit and serve the dessert herself to everone. Thats doesnt mean she is demeaning herself . Its just that she made an effort to show them that she is intrested and compassionate about being a part of this family.

Now coming back to gkb scene yesterday . Sona was expecting more shwari to stop . Sona doeosnt want to get in conflict with gkb. Byt ishwari was curious herself to find out if it is dev whonis calling her and she allowed it.

I think it is very natural for a girl or boy to bear with the circumstances and go beyond thier self respect limit to show ppl that they want to be accepted.

Yesterday if it was gkb mixing aata then sona would not have come to take up the chore. Itnis only because ishwari whonis her patient and future mil she said ahe would do it.
I am sure anyone would do it

Originally posted by: shruti.

I agree wid u except nikki and ishwari matter she is close to thm so she helped thm out.bt the rest of things i agree.Even i didn't like whn she accepted diamond necklace gift from dev,accepting costly gifts frm bf don't go wid sonakshi's personality.

Nice point just giving it benefit of doubt that she thought it willhurt devs feelings as that is the first gift he brought for her.
But i am glad she said NO to the designer watch and explained it cery well to dev what she needs.

I want to see her returning that necklace during the separation track

Originally posted by: smallwonder

I feel sonakshi herself is responsible for her degraded position in the dixit household... No offense meant,but the way she is acting these days makes her look like a household help than a nutritionist... She has not once been shown doing what she is meant to do - Make a Diet chart for "Auntyji"... She has been doing everything else - aata goond doon, nikki ko padha diya, kapde utha diye... What irks me most is - and what I find totally unacceptable is - her romancing in the name of her job... I really dont know why they need to show this... The initial days it was such a lovely portrayal of their blossoming love when Dev used to drive midnight to her house, call her up in the middle of night, go out on a joint date with her supposed bf & natasha... When she is massaging his head and serving nimbu paani in his bedroom - that too when auntyji is not in the house - it is dishonoring her job... That is one reason her character which was so well drafted earlier has gone for a toss... It is so irritating to see her act Mrs Dixit and not Miss Bose... Had she stuck to her job firm, even GKB would not have much reason to confront her... Now the dixits are keeping a pooja, I dont know what she has got to do with it and be dressed traditional bengali - ready & up for the pooja... I dont know if Ishwari asked her or Dev... If Dev did, she shud have the brains to say it wouldnt look good - what will auntyji and others think! If Ishwari did, fine - but even then better wud have been to politely refuse & maintain your self esteem... It could still be understandable had she been casually dressed as usual and sat in the pooja out of faith... To come specially prepared for it looks so odd... Why cant she understand she is not family yet... Its like she is forcing herself into the family for those who dont know (and no one does) of their relationship... I hope she returns to her initial self and stop hallucinating... For her good either they should reveal their relationship - although the damage is already done, or she should quit her job...

Sorry if I offended anyone, not meant to - just my opinion...

Originally posted by: Jade0001

I agree with your post to some extend but is it not when a girl falls in love she automatically takes the guys family as her own especially if she knows that her relationship will travel to the marriage phase .

well said shaun