Sonakshi is herself responsible...

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I feel sonakshi herself is responsible for her degraded position in the dixit household... No offense meant,but the way she is acting these days makes her look like a household help than a nutritionist... She has not once been shown doing what she is meant to do - Make a Diet chart for "Auntyji"... She has been doing everything else - aata goond doon, nikki ko padha diya, kapde utha diye... What irks me most is - and what I find totally unacceptable is - her romancing in the name of her job... I really dont know why they need to show this... The initial days it was such a lovely portrayal of their blossoming love when Dev used to drive midnight to her house, call her up in the middle of night, go out on a joint date with her supposed bf & natasha... When she is massaging his head and serving nimbu paani in his bedroom - that too when auntyji is not in the house - it is dishonoring her job... That is one reason her character which was so well drafted earlier has gone for a toss... It is so irritating to see her act Mrs Dixit and not Miss Bose... Had she stuck to her job firm, even GKB would not have much reason to confront her... Now the dixits are keeping a pooja, I dont know what she has got to do with it and be dressed traditional bengali - ready & up for the pooja... I dont know if Ishwari asked her or Dev... If Dev did, she shud have the brains to say it wouldnt look good - what will auntyji and others think! If Ishwari did, fine - but even then better wud have been to politely refuse & maintain your self esteem... It could still be understandable had she been casually dressed as usual and sat in the pooja out of faith... To come specially prepared for it looks so odd... Why cant she understand she is not family yet... Its like she is forcing herself into the family for those who dont know (and no one does) of their relationship... I hope she returns to her initial self and stop hallucinating... For her good either they should reveal their relationship - although the damage is already done, or she should quit her job...

Sorry if I offended anyone, not meant to - just my opinion...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: smallwonder

I feel sonakshi herself is responsible for her degraded position in the dixit household... No offense meant,but the way she is acting these days makes her look like a household help than a nutritionist... She has not once been shown doing what she is meant to do - Make a Diet chart for "Auntyji"... She has been doing everything else - aata goond doon, nikki ko padha diya, kapde utha diye... What irks me most is - and what I find totally unacceptable is - her romancing in the name of her job... I really dont know why they need to show this... The initial days it was such a lovely portrayal of their blossoming love when Dev used to drive midnight to her house, call her up in the middle of night, go out on a joint date with her supposed bf & natasha... When she is massaging his head and serving nimbu paani in his bedroom - that too when auntyji is not in the house - it is dishonoring her job... That is one reason her character which was so well drafted earlier has gone for a toss... It is so irritating to see her act Mrs Dixit and not Miss Bose... Had she stuck to her job firm, even GKB would not have much reason to confront her... Now the dixits are keeping a pooja, I dont know what she has got to do with it and be dressed traditional bengali - ready & up for the pooja... I dont know if Ishwari asked her or Dev... If Dev did, she shud have the brains to say it wouldnt look good - what will auntyji and others think! If Ishwari did, fine - but even then better wud have been to politely refuse & maintain your self esteem... It could still be understandable had she been casually dressed as usual and sat in the pooja out of faith... To come specially prepared for it looks so odd... Why cant she understand she is not family yet... Its like she is forcing herself into the family for those who dont know (and no one does) of their relationship... I hope she returns to her initial self and stop hallucinating... For her good either they should reveal their relationship - although the damage is already done, or she should quit her job...

Sorry if I offended anyone, not meant to - just my opinion...


Thank you for reading my mind and saving me the trouble of saying all these things. :) :)
Posted: 9 years ago
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Wait plz.. Am thinking what to write!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: smallwonder

I feel sonakshi herself is responsible for her degraded position in the dixit household... No offense meant,but the way she is acting these days makes her look like a household help than a nutritionist... She has not once been shown doing what she is meant to do - Make a Diet chart for "Auntyji"... She has been doing everything else - aata goond doon, nikki ko padha diya, kapde utha diye... What irks me most is - and what I find totally unacceptable is - her romancing in the name of her job... I really dont know why they need to show this... The initial days it was such a lovely portrayal of their blossoming love when Dev used to drive midnight to her house, call her up in the middle of night, go out on a joint date with her supposed bf & natasha... When she is massaging his head and serving nimbu paani in his bedroom - that too when auntyji is not in the house - it is dishonoring her job... That is one reason her character which was so well drafted earlier has gone for a toss... It is so irritating to see her act Mrs Dixit and not Miss Bose... Had she stuck to her job firm, even GKB would not have much reason to confront her... Now the dixits are keeping a pooja, I dont know what she has got to do with it and be dressed traditional bengali - ready & up for the pooja... I dont know if Ishwari asked her or Dev... If Dev did, she shud have the brains to say it wouldnt look good - what will auntyji and others think! If Ishwari did, fine - but even then better wud have been to politely refuse & maintain your self esteem... It could still be understandable had she been casually dressed as usual and sat in the pooja out of faith... To come specially prepared for it looks so odd... Why cant she understand she is not family yet... Its like she is forcing herself into the family for those who dont know (and no one does) of their relationship... I hope she returns to her initial self and stop hallucinating... For her good either they should reveal their relationship - although the damage is already done, or she should quit her job...

Sorry if I offended anyone, not meant to - just my opinion...


I totally agreed. Specially in yesterday episode the way they show GKB checking her mobile phone was disgusting. I mean now a days if you keep any maid servant they will not except this kind of behavior. and I am sure Nikki and Ria will not except that, then why Shona who is a nutritionist excepting this kind of treatment. Following love is not becoming someones slave, and completely forget about self respect. In that way she is not only degrading herself also her parents and her family value. Her parents are not some kind of beggar who will be very honored if Dev dixit marry her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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If sonakshi did not fall i. Love with dev then i agreee to all you have said. Sona knows what work she is expexted to do but also knows that preparing diet chart and giving food to ishwari doesnt take much time and she made some friends in nikki . She is not making bikki study becuase she is working in dixit house but because she wanted nikki to do better as she madr new relationships in dixit house apart from being thier nutritionist. Dixit sisters initially used to call her dr bose but now they call her sona di. Once sona fell for dev and dev reciprocated she is acting exactly how a fiance or dil would act.

Not sure if u remember when natasha was truing to gel with dixits family, she asked everyone to sit and serve the dessert herself to everone. Thats doesnt mean she is demeaning herself . Its just that she made an effort to show them that she is intrested and compassionate about being a part of this family.

Now coming back to gkb scene yesterday . Sona was expecting more shwari to stop . Sona doeosnt want to get in conflict with gkb. Byt ishwari was curious herself to find out if it is dev whonis calling her and she allowed it.

I think it is very natural for a girl or boy to bear with the circumstances and go beyond thier self respect limit to show ppl that they want to be accepted.

Yesterday if it was gkb mixing aata then sona would not have come to take up the chore. Itnis only because ishwari whonis her patient and future mil she said ahe would do it.
I am sure anyone would do it
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with your post to some extend but is it not when a girl falls in love she automatically takes the guys family as her own especially if she knows that her relationship will travel to the marriage phase .

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jade0001

I agree with your post to some extend but is it not when a girl falls in love she automatically takes the guys family as her own especially if she knows that her relationship will travel to the marriage phase .




I feel girls are more persistent and eager that the boy introduces her to his family and vice versa... And all my discussion is based only on one point - to the family they are not in a relationship... That makes the whole difference... If she had been there as Dev's future wife, all her actions would be justified... She is there as an employee...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aban1


I totally agreed. Specially in yesterday episode the way they show GKB checking her mobile phone was disgusting. I mean now a days if you keep any maid servant they will not except this kind of behavior. and I am sure Nikki and Ria will not except that, then why Shona who is a nutritionist excepting this kind of treatment. Following love is not becoming someones slave, and completely forget about self respect. In that way she is not only degrading herself also her parents and her family value. Her parents are not some kind of beggar who will be very honored if Dev dixit marry her.



Totally agree with you... 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya

If sonakshi did not fall i. Love with dev then i agreee to all you have said. Sona knows what work she is expexted to do but also knows that preparing diet chart and giving food to ishwari doesnt take much time and she made some friends in nikki . She is not making bikki study becuase she is working in dixit house but because she wanted nikki to do better as she madr new relationships in dixit house apart from being thier nutritionist. Dixit sisters initially used to call her dr bose but now they call her sona di. Once sona fell for dev and dev reciprocated she is acting exactly how a fiance or dil would act.

Not sure if u remember when natasha was truing to gel with dixits family, she asked everyone to sit and serve the dessert herself to everone. Thats doesnt mean she is demeaning herself . Its just that she made an effort to show them that she is intrested and compassionate about being a part of this family.

Now coming back to gkb scene yesterday . Sona was expecting more shwari to stop . Sona doeosnt want to get in conflict with gkb. Byt ishwari was curious herself to find out if it is dev whonis calling her and she allowed it.

I think it is very natural for a girl or boy to bear with the circumstances and go beyond thier self respect limit to show ppl that they want to be accepted.

Yesterday if it was gkb mixing aata then sona would not have come to take up the chore. Itnis only because ishwari whonis her patient and future mil she said ahe would do it.
I am sure anyone would do it



I would agree with all you said had they disclosed their relation... And my main point is not that she is helping out Ishwari or Nikki... But my main point was her romancing in the name of her job... That just doesnt look correct to me...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: smallwonder



I feel girls are more persistent and eager that the boy introduces her to his family and vice versa... And all my discussion is based only on one point - to the family they are not in a relationship... That makes the whole difference... If she had been there as Dev's future wife, all her actions would be justified... She is there as an employee...


Yes you are right because we as viewers are seeing all sides while the Dixit family only knows Sonakshi as an employee but she in her mind and heart have already accepted them and probably that's her reason for doing all other chores but yes I would really like to see her grow as an individual instead of been all the time at Dixit house I mean see her back at hospital involved in her career

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