Ishwari is reacting too much - Page 3

Originally posted by: AnuPurva

so agree with you..

We need to understand her situation too..

she was eagerly waiting for this moment on her birthday that her son spends special time with her on her birthday.. and that didnt happen..

Originally posted by: OmNaMaSteOm

Both are right today Dev and Ishwari. Just that their methods are not approved by each other.

I found Ishwari's reaction very odd too, but keeping her insecurity and biases in mind its normal for her character to react that way.

Originally posted by: Sharica

My point is just that she should have acted with maturity. If she was missing the time that she used to spend with Dev, she would have said straight away and could have asked Dev that shs is happy with the surprise but what is more important for her is to spend that time with him. Mother's do have right to ask for this.

Today i found that being in such a strong relationship for years, both mom and son are yet to understand each other. They are emotionally attached and know each others sufferings,but when it come to expectations..they both need to work on that.

Originally posted by: tvbug2011

It was an interesting episode. And I am left with a comment Sona made yesterday about Dev being a 'gadha' (donkey).

Is it possible that Dev has been taking his mom out saree shopping every birthday for the last maybe 4-5 years at least and does not realise that it's the whole v experience and not yet the gift that matters!! Really mr. Dixit!!

So ok. Let's say he doesn't get it. So it's not his fault. But it's not Ishwari's either. She has every right to be disappointed. Imagine you're anticipating it from the night before at least. You get up, hurry to get ready an bf stand waiting for someone to take you out to the movie, and they buy you the DVD!! It s not the same is it?!

Similarly, Ishwari's disappointed. And to add to her let down Dev tells her he didn't buy it on his own. If he had it would have made a difference, because anything her previous soon had bought for h err would have had to be perfect. But here to add insult to injury, he openly admitted hed bought it with Sona! So this had to have vein Sonas choice.

Hence Ishwari's displeasure. I completely understand why she would not want to wear another woman's choice, especially in these circumstances.

I understand Dev's pov as well, but all this secrecy - was there really any need for it. If Dev can break his engagement at the 11th hour and expect his mum to understand, why couldn't he have trusted her with his reason for it - after the first flush had passed. We're doing have a reason yet for this secrecy. And it's precariously close to bad taste imo.