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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lovely and very well said.👏
Though i want to add, knowing the complexity of Dev's character. He's someone who is not aware what love is... He is only aware of his responsibilities and business... He doesn't think much about his feelings as he's always occupied with his worries for his family and the business... He's still too much into his troubled childhood... He never ever think of himself, his life or his comfort.

With Sona, he has developed a special friendship bond, where he can comfortably share all his feelings to her, which he has never done before. He's over protective and concerned about her. Though he thinks that its because she's his employee and he would have done the same for anyone else. But i can take this explanation in the case of Sona's accident... But he's always concerned about her. On the special dinner with Gujral, he was suppose to sign a 100 crore deal, which is of utmost importance to him and his business. Still he went to check on Sona. There was no need. He could have called her or messaged her. He could have waited for a night and went to her home in the morning. But he didn't think of it for even once.

These all small concerns towards Sona is love. But he doesn't understand it. And one of the main reasons for this is Sona works at his home and he get to see and talk to her everyday. For him to realize what he feels for Sona whether it is friendship or love, they need to be away from eachother for some time. If he'll miss her and will start finding reasons to have her in his office as a nutritionist or make excuses to meet her. Then may be he'll realize that she's special... But still i feel he will need someone to tell him what this special bond is. Or someone will be needed to tell him what love exactly is. And slowly he can figure out whether what he feels for Sona is friendship or love.

I know its a long post. But its my POV.😊
Edited by JyotiBThakur - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

Lovely and very well said.👏

Though i want to add, knowing the complexity of Dev's character. He's someone who is not aware what love is... He is only aware of his responsibilities and business... He doesn't think much about his feelings as he's always occupied with his worries for his family and the business... He's still too much into his troubled childhood... He never ever think of himself, his life or his comfort.

With Sona, he has developed a special friendship bond, where he can comfortably share all his feelings to her, which he has never done before. He's over protective and concerned about her. Though he thinks that its because she's his employee and he would have done the same for anyone else. But i can take this explanation in the case of Sona's accident... But he's always concerned about her. On the special dinner with Gujral, he was suppose to sing a 100 crore deal, which is of utmost importance to him and his business. Still he went to check on Sona. There was no need. He could have called her or messaged her. He could have waited for a night and went to her home in the morning. But he didn't think of it for even once.

These all small concerns towards Sona is love. But he doesn't understand it. And one of the main reasons for this is Sona works at his home and he get to see and talk to her everyday. For him to realize what he feels for Sona whether it is friendship or love, they need to be away from eachother for some time. If he'll miss her and will start finding reasons to have her in his office as a nutritionist or make excuses to meet her. Them may be he'll realize that she's special... But still i feel he will need someone to tell him what this special bond is. Or someone will be needed to tell him what love exactly is. And slowly he can figure out whether what he feels for Sona is friendship or love.

I know its a long post. But its my POV.😊


Your long post just addressed and explained pretty much all my issues and questions. So thank you.

Beautifully put.👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice Post..n very well written.

I feel Dev has something for Sona...n Cvs r playing with our minds and when the right time comes the Confession of Dev's feelings will come as a shock for all of us...I mean they may have planned a level of intensity wich we'll see once Dev's POV comes out.

Few points I want to mention here are:

1- Dev Calls her Ms.Bose instead of Dr.Bose most of d times n Sona always corrects him.

So may b He thinks she's not just a nutritionist of his mom.

2- we can't ignore "SONAKSHI TO SONA " Transformation during accident...
He could have called her Just Sonakshi...

but calling sona definitely means in his mind she is "SONA"


Rest we can wait n Watch. :-)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: KhatamKahani



I agree with you that Sona's falling in love with is real. I don't have any big issue with that though it could have taken a bit more time but Elena was there to rush and encourage the acceptance. I do think Elena's love doctor advice is annoying most times and would hate to see all her stupid advice validated.

But Elena's development too is hot and cold. For example she should have been angrier at what he did with Kushal but that was erased with a dance. Yeah she was not upset over Kushal so that helps but still...



I thnk as sona said I fell in love but its not dev's responsibility to fall in love wth her.so dev is not at fault as ppl r saying enough is enough and sona should move on. But it is very clear sona is special to him nahi koi itna care nahi Karta.he is in love wth sona just dnt know it.he just needs to realise his dat. Now coming to sona falling in love.we cnt decide wen nd where to fall in love.it just happens.nd I agree gals r more emotional nd expressive.nd da way dev was dere for sona thru thick nd thin falling for him was not something unreal.now Elena.ppl r finding irritating.but I think she is not
Bcoz we all hve a bst frnd or sister who is always dere to tease u about ur love crush.give some advises which may not work out always but dat does not make Dem wrong.we need Dem dere silly advisises bcoz Dey r da ones wth whom we can share things dat we cnt do wth others.so I thnk cvs r doing get job
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: KhatamKahani


Your long post just addressed and explained pretty much all my issues and questions. So thank you.

Beautifully put.👏


Glad, you find answers to your questions in my post. Thank you for the appreciation.😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well said...totally agree with you..👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashi345678

Nice Post..n very well written.

I feel Dev has something for Sona...n Cvs r playing with our minds and when the right time comes the Confession of Dev's feelings will come as a shock for all of us...I mean they may have planned a level of intensity wich we'll see once Dev's POV comes out.

Few points I want to mention here are:

1- Dev Calls her Ms.Bose instead of Dr.Bose most of d times n Sona always corrects him.

So may b He thinks she's not just a nutritionist of his mom.

2- we can't ignore "SONAKSHI TO SONA " Transformation during accident...
He could have called her Just Sonakshi...

but calling sona definitely means in his mind she is "SONA"


Rest we can wait n Watch. :-)


Now that I think about it. I think all this can be viewed as him being comfortable with jer as a friend and viewing her as a friend. This explains my earlier western of why he suddenly called her Sonakshi with the teacher when he was just earlier frustrated, telling her she is a nutritionist to his mom not to him. Because he became more comfortable and relaxed with the teacher and he said it without realizing.

However the one thing that hints to him being aware is Tina. It was mentioned by Ria and the sisters on how well she understands him. Even if they just did it purposely and jokingly to try to ride up Ishwari, it was mentioned how well she understands his moods, etc.

So I think it is possible that he is not unaware completely. But the thing is, just because he may be a bit aware of how he reacts to her, that doesn't mean he needs to 1) act on it to fall in love with her, 2) that he is in love with her. You can like someone a bit, have an easy time being yourself with them, be affected by them a bit--still that doesn't mean you are wrong if you wish to not take it further and want to keep it non-romantic.
Edited by KhatamKahani - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: golusona



I thnk as sona said I fell in love but its not dev's responsibility to fall in love wth her.so dev is not at fault as ppl r saying enough is enough and sona should move on. But it is very clear sona is special to him nahi koi itna care nahi Karta.he is in love wth sona just dnt know it.he just needs to realise his dat. Now coming to sona falling in love.we cnt decide wen nd where to fall in love.it just happens.nd I agree gals r more emotional nd expressive.nd da way dev was dere for sona thru thick nd thin falling for him was not something unreal.now Elena.ppl r finding irritating.but I think she is not
Bcoz we all hve a bst frnd or sister who is always dere to tease u about ur love crush.give some advises which may not work out always but dat does not make Dem wrong.we need Dem dere silly advisises bcoz Dey r da ones wth whom we can share things dat we cnt do wth others.so I thnk cvs r doing get job


Sorry. I meant Sona's falling in love either Dev. Not Elena. I made this topic and replies in middle of.night when I should have been sleeping. Elena, I don't hate her but sometimes her advice should be acknowledged as a teenager, college student's advice.

My point was that that the user who mentioned about her letting go of his interference and controlling aspects much too quickly. They have shown multiple times he's done it, and she has gotten over it quickly. Sure it is believable as girls do fall in love like that and quickly forgive. But before accident there were constant instances and that combined with some of the stuff that went on with the two women at the house, it does give the feeling of Sona the character reduced to this.

That being said, I believe in their first two interactions it was Sona who was rude to Dev. (And she was also wrong for silencing the phone). However his actions exceeded all of that.
Edited by KhatamKahani - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: saumiee

Beautifully written!😊

I disagree with the last point though that Dev's shade are moulded acc. to episodic needs. He least expected this to happen at this point because one, the deal was so important for him and he least expected this to involve emotions like love and second, marriage is a big thing. He knows it will severly affect his life and deal too which was his biggest dream.


I think the OP was referring to the way Dev quickly assessed the situation during the dance scene and immediately grabbed Sona. Sona even said her job is to take care of his mother, not potential girlfriends.

You cant have a character both be naive and smart at the same time in similar situation. I am all for sliding that under the carpet for the dance scene but that aspect of Dev remains inconsistent with his usual self.
Edited by spacenoxx - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spacenoxx


I think the OP was referring to the way Dev quickly assessed the situation during the dance scene and immediately grabbed Sona. Sona even said her job is to take care of his mother, not potential girlfriends.

You cant have a character both be naive and smart at the same time in similar situation. I am all for sliding that under the carpet for the dance scene but that aspect of Dev remains inconsistent with his usual self.


Yes. In fact Dev has been shown smart more times than he's shown naive. He is not some naive innocent bachcha who is unaware of females or female attention for him. He gels along very well. He knows how to navigate but without getting into anything.

He knew exactly what he was doing with Kushal. He said all the exact 'wrong' things, and he was not least bit surprised when Sona said he gave impression that he was her boyfriend. He was cunningly smart in how he answered Sona because he didn't just meet Kushal at the restaurant, he really did purposefully go there knowing Kushal was there and for the purpose of running into him.

Same goes with how his friend was encouraging about Saloni but he just was polite and charming enough, but wasn't interested. But that doesn't mean he wasn't aware.

Dev is like some of us in high school and college and work. Conservative parents who still gave us freedom to still hang out, stay out, go places, and trusted us. Not everyone keeps to that trust and some will find boyfriends and girlfriends. Others will stick to their parents' expectations.

That is connected to how I think he is not exactly unaware about his dynamic about Sona. There are still people you may find attractive and gel along with or have a friendship that started out with more arguments than agreements. Still, that doesn't mean you are in love with them or even will consider taking that step to start something with them.
Edited by KhatamKahani - 9 years ago

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