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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ria_h85

Hello Friends,

Synopsis:
Just one word "Excellent"! High on content, emotions and has Karan's replying to Kritika's performance of yesterday! Both of them are damn good actors and these two episodes are enough to prove that! Creatives have tackled things extremely well and they have opened doors in the precap which only point to a more interesting track!

Arjun: A Beautiful Character!
Well I have to say this😊...I could understand his viewpoint yesterday and I can realize his feelings today better! He is a common man....you find those around you...he has these shades in him that pull you towards him...I said once on the Cafe "The absence of flaw in beauty is itself a flaw"....and I just love this quote....It reminds me of Arjun...He has flaws but still has this beauty deep down inside him which attracts you towards him...and it could only be Arjun who has the ability of earning back his love with dignity even after he stooped so low in the eyes of his love....He will rise and if the creatives follow the path they are on right now...i have no doubt that he will do so with dignity! well i thought that he alwayss wated to hear her say I LOVE YOU i don't think so he pushed her for sayin all that what she said yesterday ...

Arjun with Arohi:
Its another trait of Arjun's personality...since he has had an insecure childhood he always needs verbal communication...Whether it is asking Arohi to confess, or the confirmation of if she missed him or today when he says "O comeon Arohi...mujhe congratulate nahin karo gi tum"... here i thought he acually wanted to see her if she was k or not but as soon as he sees her he starts his act .....

Someone said at the Adda yesterday (do let me know who it was...I will put up the name) and I would take that further....where Arohi kept Mum...barely talked...Arjun kept talking..blurting out things from left right center everywhere...Why? This was his internal turmoil that was bubbling out of his mouth..he wanted her to scream, to react...In his opinion Arohi was acting all the way...and if one is in the acting mode you overact in situations like this where you are humiliated...just to make a bigger fuss out of it...she could have screamed at him, slapped him, run away, cried, sobbed....questioned holding on to his collar...called him names...Did she do anything like that...No...Why? Cuz her emotions had died...so there was no more room for her to say anything..and it was this SILENCE that haunted Arjun...that gave him the same odd feeling yet once again of something being very wrong!

I asked this question yesterday as to whether he pushed her to the limits or he just could not stop her from saying all that...I get the answer today...He did not push her to limits yesterday...infact he did not expect her to confess her love at that point in time AND in this way (yet again there is a difference in confessing when you are acting)...BUT today he pushed her...he said everything that will make her break the silence...the silence which was deafening for him...But what she does in response only deepens his wounds...her "aur kuch sir" was enough of a scream so loud that it was enough to tore him apart...her tears were as real as the fact that he was alive at that point in time...

The dialogue which starts at "Meri Mom se kehna"...and ends at "aana zaroor ditch mat karna" I can just stand and clap for Arjun👏...what attitude, what punch, excellent performance..... what was that they talk about regarding to elevator...

Arjun with Dad:

This sequence marked the quality of the show! which in my POV today was quite high...The same room...two characters.....about 20 minutes of screen time...you could get bored easily....but no it hooked you to the screen! the dialogues were apt, the execution just perfect....A Father , A Son... Their Broken relationships...it was all there in that room...and we as viewers were part of it....Excellent performance...Both Karan and Satyajeet raised their own benchmarks and gave us another powerful viewing experience! i don' get what kind of father is he can't he see the pain DARD in his son's eyes...

I so wanted to watch Arjun's first reaction once he is alone by himself, post this confession-humiliation sequence and I am grateful the creatives gave us that....

Another trait of his personality..he is expressive...so the first chance he gets he expresses his feelings he does so in the most expressive manner...When you are broken from inside...you tend to do three things...Its natural...I have done the first two so often and even the third one to some extent!
1. You try to distract yourself (Arjun opens the window....does something on the cell phone) well i thought he wanted to call arohi n ask her how she's holding upp wanted to share what he felt
2. You break things around you to symbolize your internal destruction (he breaks his cell phone, the lamp)
3. You physically hurt yourself...as the last resort when neither 1 and 2 give you relief (he drinks excessively, punches on the walls, tables...) he is in love with her so deeply cazz its usually like that u always cover up ur real feelings with ur anger butt deep inside u can't figure out what to do with ur feeling

Arjun is in shock and denial (Thanks Anjana for making us understand and analyze this)..."I am perfectly fine Dad"...I just could not hold back my emotions when he says "main nai kia tora hai Dad"...yet again symbolic but so apparent...his internal guilt reflected so beautifully in these 4-5 words...He is guilty and the natural reaction is that one becomes defensive...and in doing so cannot listen to anything negative about him...his defense reflex was fully active during this initial part of the their talk....So for me it was Denial and Defense that he was going through....

and in defending him how he tries to justify it all...asking for that acceptance from his Dad that what he did was actually the best thing to do....But than he knows himself deep down that he has done it all wrong...he has broken that single thread that held the relationship with Arohi...The colors of the elevator would never be the same again! he knows that....and the eyes that were rock solid in front of the redness in Arohi's eyes a few minutes ago...were now filled with a pain more than hers....cuz they not only reflected Arohi's pain but also his own! Where Arohi will only have to cry on her fate.....her humiliation...Arjun has to cry for the pain he gave and the pain he feels! he deserves that....but than is it his fault? i think its his father's fault ccaz in precap he tells mohan "solah saal ke baad bhi mujah mein arjun ko such batane ki himmat nahin haii" so arjun of course doesn't know the truth that his father is the one not his mom ...

His confusion comes across in his dialogues...I loved it when he says "woh toot gayee Dad" and than a while later says "I am sure woh ghar jaa kar theek ho gayee ho gy".....The former reflecting the guilt...the later the defense....I am bowled over by the creatives and Arjun's act today! yet again he is concern about arohi that is she k or not...

Moment of the day:
"Arjun tu ro kion raha hai"....the realization...the truth which he tried to hide...is punched right there on his face! and that marks the intensity of his love....No No its not infatuation...its love...and pure love...and the irony of the situation is as I always say both of them know the depth of their feelings but fail to realise the depth of feelings the other has for them! The "Haalaath".....
i know i mean arjun didn't kno him self that he had tears in his eyes.. woh kehte hain naa dil ki baat aansu bankar beh gaii..
Dilaogue of the Day:
"Pata nahin Dad...I dont know....Jub zindagi main aap ko koi hurt karta hai to aap badle main ussi ko hurt karte hain haina...But I dont know why Dad...aaj jub main nai usse hurt kia....usse dard pohnchaya to....Dad ulta main hurt ho raha hoon....Dad....mujhe bura lag raha hai Dad...main effect ho raha hoon....Why" its because of the LOVE
He does not hate her......He hates himself! and that is because they are not any more two different entities at the emotional level...*sigh* Anu I could almost see the tears lingering around your eyes!

And finally as he listens to DK's monologue...he is numb....The fourth stage of grief...depression, reflection...loneliness which finally continues to the end of the show!

DK: The concerned Father!

I appreciate the way they showed DK worrying for his son....so no matter what has been there, he really loves his son and is hurt at seeing him in this state...Satyajeet did a fabulous job as he tries to calm down Arjun not only emotionally but also holds him and hugs him to give him that sense of security which is soo needed when a child is broken by the harsh realities of life...Parents who have gone through most of them, can not only understand the pain but than act as the best resort for us to subdue the pain.... Today I would not throw any shoes at him cuz whatever, he atleast gave him that shoulder which Arjun needed the most right now! I loved the way he calmed down Arjun....
and this gives me another perspective about his character... ohhh please i mean yeahhh some what he cares about arjun but he also wants him to do whatever he wants. its like arjun is not his son he is some kind of pet or somethin ... i mean if u really love ur son n are worried about him then tell him the truth n let him be happy with arohi cazz i m damn suree Dk knows arohi is a great girl just like her father HP the only problem is she is from middle class ... n i think he should be happy that arohi is raised by savita after her mother died ...


A final comment...even in this beautifully done episode...BT ka flavour was not to be missed! The lamp was back and fully working in the last scene! Moreover the last scene although nice with the background score and everything but is the unwanted gift of the 45 min duration...soon these long eyelocks, earlocks, realizations, would become unbearable! if you dont have content just reduce the time limit....cuz what you have is enough to grab the viewer attention! Please Cut Arjun's hair....I am loosing my patience!

Oh my...I never thought I would type in this much...but this was an episode I loved so much I could not stop myself from writing my heart out! Kritika, Karan and Satyajeet just made it a fabulous watch! Thanks to the KMH team for this!

Your comments!

~Ria


P.S: Yesterday I just loved the Adda...so many people writing so beautifully despite feeling down! I love you all for putting in so much effort and always raising the bar! I welcome the new additions to the Adda...and I also thanku all for taking out time ti press the ThankYou button...

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Posted: 16 years ago
#42

DK apparently thinks he only lied twice in his WHOLE entire life....is this supposed to be some joke...DK is soo🤬 .....hate him!!!! DAKU DADDY!!

DK's Lies....matlabi

1) getting arohi job at P&M

2)antara out of jail

3) salil and Purvi's engagement

4) lies about arohi

5) lies about savita

6) land papers

Im sure there is more.....

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^👏👏👏

The most touching scene for me was when arjun tells DK .....how he tortured and made arohi cry ....but he didn't even realize that at the same time when he was saying all this his eyes were teary too...

Arjun don't be sad .......i can also be your new baggage or package lol but anu probably watched this episode like 5 times by now sooo i will go with her say ''baggage''😆😆😉

I liked the episode but i can't stand DK anymore....how can a father do this to his own son :S.....when he is the only "family" he has....

things i wonder

1) why does all happen ONLY when purvi and salil are gone....but i am sure even if purvi was here she probably wouldn't have said anything because ML

2) arjasha's engagement in 2days hmmmm....i hope savita comes says something....please dont disappear

3) paddy thinks this shaddi wont last....bichara arjun no nutasha or arohi...😕


Edited by sweetassuger16 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: latamehra


Minnie, I agree with you and Lovely that DK does actually love his son; but I don't think it's the right kind of love. He is manipulating his son's emotions and not seeing the bigger picture at all. As far as the question of DK and Savita's separation is concerned; DK really needs to come out of denial, realise his own mistakes and learn from them. It's obvious that the distance of 16 years has not given him the perspective that was
much needed.



That is perhaps the biggest mistake DK ever made.. Arjun's upbringing was marred with Savita walking out on them.. And DK who cannot cope for nuts, misdirected his anger for Savita into creating a fear and hatred in Arjun's mind about his mother. I doubt his intentions were anymore than making sure that Arjun never deserts him like his wife did. DK did what he thought was the right thing to do with Arjun.. after all he too did not have any other rational perspective!!

Ok on a lighter note, I have a suggestion for Kritika's makeup artist.. She has lovely eyes.. please dont drown them in overly used kohl and mascara please! I would love them to ease up on her eyeliner/kohl and mascara! 😉😆😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: sonia_s11

Ok guys here me writing the ek pal wala moment' hope it turns out bearable' Its full typical soap style people'

whooooshhhhhhh....look at what have you done girl⭐️! this just sent jitters down my spine! It was so well perceived and so high on content!

"Ek baar rukne ko keh ke to dekhte Arjun"

and I can see it so clear!

Well Done!👏 The use of the train station just ads to the mystic feeling...Its where they met for the first time...Her falling in his arms....her recognizing him at the last moment....It was beautiful! You just added to the mood of the show today...

Thanks for putting this up at my Adda....Its soo heartwarming!



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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: minniemau


Ok on a lighter note, I have a suggestion for Kritika's makeup artist.. She has lovely eyes.. please dont drown them in overly used kohl and mascara please! I would love them to ease up on her eyeliner/kohl and mascara! 😉😆😆



Apparently in this recession they still have kohl in stock...now since they have heard our request not to use it on Arjun they have to put it somewhere naaa....so the overdose on Arohi.....
It just reflects their desperate attempt to use all their resources to get some results...you see😛

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Posted: 16 years ago
#46
Hey Ria!!

As usual a wonderful analysis...I enjoyed reading it!!
Now what to say bout todays epi??.....although it was more of a filler episode it was well executed......

I really felt for Arjun today....the restlessness inside him was apparent.....wen he followed Arohi and taunted her.....u cud see right thru his act...because somewhere inside himself he was unsure about whether or not Arohi was acting.....I'm pretty sure he wasn't expecting her to confess her love....but now that he had started the ball rolling so to speak he cudn't stop had he wanted to....its why he questions his own actions later on.....

Arjun is his own worst enemy and the poor dude knows it...not that his dad helps much.....throughout his painful monologue to DK, he was seeking clarification that whatever he said and did was wrong.....I really felt like giving him a tight jaddu ki jhappi here🤗...he really needed it.....but alas Arjun is seeking reassurance where he's least likely to get it...😡

One thing that irritates me bout DK is....actually scratch that, there's many things that bug me about him....but it was something he said today that really put my back up....he tells Arjun that he wanted him to humiliate Arohi despite the hurt that it would cause Arjun....does he think the pain that Ajun's going through now because of his actions is just collateral damage??......I dnt think DK even realises the extent of Arjun's feelings for Arohi....going so far as to say forget the OLD PACKAGE....huh??😕

enough of my ramblings....thnx once again for the wonderful post😉

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Posted: 16 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: minniemau


Thanks Ria 😊 When I read the synopsis for the show, it said he leaves his dad's wealth and goes against his wishes etc.. I was ok with that then.. but today as Arjun cried and DK in his most inarticulate way tried to console him.. I couldnt help but feel for DK or Daku Daddy as we so lovingly call him.. First his wife now his son.. both walking out on him.. He's a stubborn man.. but no one deserves desertion like this.. Y'know its a similar desertion we were so riled up about when Arjun walked out on Arohi yesterday.. someone you love, adore and are devoted to you walks out on you!

I hope Arjun just symbolically breaks ties with his dad by refusing to take any monetary help.. that I can see is a part of his penance.. but I would hate it if he lost respect for his dad! You cannot undo the goodness of a lifetime with one mistake especially when it comes to parents.



👏 👏 👏 I love your thoughts on this parent issue! totally with u on this....I hope this gets noticed by our dear spies!
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Posted: 16 years ago
#48
@Karishma: Love the list!👏

"The most touching scene for me was when arjun tells DK .....how he tortured and made arohi cry ....but he didn't even realize that at the same time when he was saying all this his eyes were teary too..." I know..he was so good in the scene..me feeling sorry for him big time!

"arjasha's engagement in 2days hmmmm....i hope savita comes says something....please dont disappear" Savita is the most annoying of the lot; she is so lost in her own world and is incapable of being there for either Arjun or Arohi..

"paddy thinks this shaddi wont last....bichara arjun no nutasha or arohi..." Arjun needs to figure himself out else he will never find love..!


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Posted: 16 years ago
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Pre-Script (there I go again inventing words!!):
@Ria, Anu, Mehr, Manisha, Lata, Akriti, Manisha, Sonia, Wishfor, et al.: I don't know why u guys appreciate my Bakwaas or B.S., but thank u for doing so..for trying to see it from my hyperanalytical perspective. And for using my quirky vocabulary ... earlocks (LOL - what madness I have reduced the lot of you to!)
Pre-Watch Analysis:
- My thought when Lovely gave us the play-by-play....was FILLER Episode.... But, you (RIA), Anu, Akiriti have managed to fill it with heartbreaking content and painful colors... including white (something I want may want to explore tonight)!
- So, i will hold my heart and watch this episode you have so eloquently described be it midnight or later than that again tonight. I will give u my take after if i find the heart, courage, and words to do so...
- in the interim, I will try to cause... mayhem and mischief... As I sense that its badly needed today...
A.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonia_s11

Ok guys here me writing the ek pal wala moment' hope it turns out bearable' Its full typical soap style people'


So Arjun knows the truth and now he hates men (coz of DK) ok jokes apart.. he hates DK' Arohi met with an accident and lost her vision' Arjun holds himself responsible for this and cries and drinks' Its my fan fic so he does takes shower regularly! No stinking business please'


Sonia

wow Sonia thats an amazing write up........👏 👏 👏 👏.......you know what i actually see this happening......its quite plausible that Arjun is in jail because of the land deal forgery. Also the OM moment was so beautiful......i really hope the creatives take some pointers from your write up.Very well done.....👏








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