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Posted: 17 years ago
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Ruby Apa.. Your pov as a parent sar ankho pay...
And u r right probably Taklu jee is upset..alright
But what makes us annoyed or makes us hate him.. is his over the top and muchhh melo-dramatized baatein.. I mean I m the person who never uses this🤢 icon... twice I did only.. for Lallu..

I agree parents give their whole life for their child and yesh he is hurt..It might not be easy to forgive him...
But I assume that the child's happiness matters to them too.. In the long run.. I mean Prem uss ka hi apna beta hai.. I think its one of the virtue's Parents get from the Almighty... Kuch bhi ho they ultimately forgive their children.. thats wat I believe

Yaa maybe if they redeem his character big time.. I m willing to forgive him....
But wud u say, His behaviour is justified, the childish insenstivity and insults he keeps throwing at Prem.. And the shrad bit and saying Prem mar gaya hai mere liye... Is it not a bit tooo much??

Anddd Prem did not ropey dopey and change his mind.. till the last min he WAS gonna marry ash, ONLY for Lallu..
But ya he just dint lie abt him loving Heer or being able to love ash...
It was ash who refused to marry him...😊
Okie Lallu is angry, hurt and all that..
But he is going wayyyyyyyy out of the line and way over the top......
I know I m not making sense.. Past few days I have been not feeling like replying to much of the posts .. dunno y But aapki post dekhi tou had to chip in..

Anyhow I hope I dint offend ju in any way possible =)

Edited by -Faith- - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Sure, his anger was at one side for a while. But now its just out of the limit... Gayatri's with Prem, so I don't get why Lalit has a problem. Wouldn't Prem's happiness be better than forcing him to marry Ash, ruining 4 lifes? Why doesn't he listen to his son? Prem only took off with Heer becuase she was being forced to marry Manmeet, and Prem knew that Manmeet was crazy. You really think he would let he love of his life get married to a mad man?

Prem said he was ready to marry Ash, but only if Heer didn't marry Manmeet. He was ready to go through the pain, but he wouldn't let Heer's life be destroyed either. So I think whatever Prem did was right. 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: tania86

👏 👏 very well said bhaia..........n robina di i agree with ya at some points too😊........but i wud say ullu shud've atleast believed in prem's words abt prashant/manmeet........c'mon what does ullu think of prem ke prem wud talk rubbish abt prashant just to make himself look like an idiot in front of the whole world?????........i ask u since ur a parent too, if u know ur son's nature (considering the fact that prem was about to ruin his life for the juneja for that hotel case), wud u believe an outsider over ur son????????.....wudn't u let ur son give a goddamn chance to prove himself??? everytime prem tried to open his mouth that ullu just slapped him🤢........n prem never said he wud marry heer........he said naa that he will try his level best to keep ash happy.........n wut prem asked his dad in return? yehi naa ke don't let heer marry that psycho!!!!!.....

n also since u r a parent, wudn't u think of ur son's happiness when it comes to the most important part of his life like Marriage??......c'mon it's ur son, who is getting married NOT you, rite??.......ur son is gonna spend the rest of his life with that person NOT you.......so if u don't love/like a person then how can u expect to live the rest of ur life with him/her???

hope i made sense

luv

rehana

Edited by tania86 - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: dilgone4u

i don't hate taklu but i don't love him either.
i mean i agree with you.. of his reaction which is good coz then i don't know how the story would go further and i don't want saas bahu natak.. so i like it.. it's more suffering and pain for Prem but that's fine.. he looks dashing in pain and in love... lol...

hey Dilgone4u good to see that you're gettin your money's worth out of this show...😉


i understand his point of view.. and u r so right! i mean my parents would not easily forgive me if i did that... or they would expect me to tell them the truth from beginning which prem should have done..

i agree prem should have told his dad from the get go that he's haveing feelings for someone else instead of letting the old man think that i'm with you dad all the way...misleading a parent is probably what has hurt juneja the most...

.long ago i mean real long ago.. but then serial wouldn't go far right?!!!! so i don't hate him it's just too much of his drama going on right now.. let's see wat happens

i personally thing BT writers have gone wayy to far with showing Juneja's anger (its getting ridiculous but that doesnt take away that guilt lies with both Prem adn Juneja.

thanks for the reply ..enjoyed it..

robina

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Parth Garewal

hey robina di

hey buddy,.. and yup i'm older then you!!😃

i understand ur feelings as parent but i want to say that if he raised him it dosent mean he ll rule his life.

very true Parth that a parent doesnt rule their kids life. but yet the real cruel bitter truth is that we (parents) give up soo much just to have kids.. i mean i cant just go out and catch a moive, so much changes, you kids literally rule my life the better part of it.. and then when i'm old like say Juneja (no i'm not that old yet..!!! 😆) my kids will turn around and say hey you dont have a right to rule my life.. great wish someone would have told me that when iw as 23 (prime of my life ) and stuck giving up soo much just to see your child grow and give him/her the best the world can offer. so assuming Juneja gave up so much to raise his family. and then he feels that Prem and him shared say a very special bond. (which i'm assuming they did but feel free to correct me). so thats what i think has hurt Juneja so deeply is that he never expected Prem to do what he did. thats what hurts him the most, the child that was perfect turned out to be soo not..(in his eyes..) so really when i read posts telling off the old man i just think that are we trying to see the whole picture..

.he said him to marry heer..prem agreed..then he asked him to marry ash ....prem agreed..and he lived his whole life as lallu wanted...he joined business...he played the football match and got hurt only for him...but now if he wants to live his life whats wrong!!! its his life he can do anything....and i agree that he is his father he is rite that he is angry but dont u think he is over reacting...

well said Parth he has every right to live his life.. what i have the problem with is why didnt Prem just admit it straight up. that he had feelings for heer. why the secrecy, could it be Prem knew his father wouldnt approve. and so therefore knowingly misled his father, again the misleading part is what has really probably gutted Juneja to the brink of hysteria..I want to tell you that i dont agree with what juneja is doing, but i can understand the basic feeling of of where he's coming from...

thanks for taking the time out and giving me your side of it, i really enjoyed reading it.. sorry for the delay in replying...robina di

ll wait for ur reply..

PARTH 😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: kareena_fan

i HATE him 😡 😡 😡 dun really have a proper reason but i hate him da most 4 hurtin prm DAT many times 😡

hey kareena fan thats understandable.. good point...


i m really pissed at him...i mean can't he just chill and leave prem with his own life?!like y does he care if he sees prem somewhere?cant he just stop hurting him...

they way i see it, Prem keeps popping up like the jack in the box infront of Juneja.. for ex. i thought the old man didnt want to go to the awards ceremony.. (missed that eppy why he went i hve no idea..) really if Prem would just stick to his life and stay clear of Juneja i think the humilations would stop and the hurt would start to lessen.. I think Prem should be the one to walk away from his family and give his dad sometime to come to his senses...(if thats possible).
i'm not sure about this but deep down inside lallu still does love prem 😳 at least i hope

i agree , i cant imagine a parent every hating their kids but now adays thats a sad reality too..🤢 you hear stories of parents killing their kids..🤢 thanks for the comments ..robina

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Posted: 17 years ago
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i respect your point of view about parents, Lalit and how parents give everything to their children but does a father treat a son like the way Lalit treated Prem....
i understand where Lalit's anger is coming from because Prem disobeyed him and went against his promise to his dad but still he asked for forgiveness and i know it will take time for something like this in reality to subside but WHAT parent humiliates their children in front of everyone and hits then again and again... NO selfless parents does that....

Lalit chose his promise to a friend over his son's happiness and that is very annoying especially when you see your son suffering and is heartbroken.....
thats my opinion... i dont hate Lalit and i dont like him either and seeing the way he treated Prem (Prem crying)it does rise anger within a person.....sorry if i offended 😳 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Because he dusnt deserved to be loved after what he is doing to his son..no father is as wicked or harsh to his son as he is/was 😕 ...fathers go for their children's wishes nd dreams but he is unfortunately running for his own 😡 😡 ..

therfore, there are absolutely all reasons why ppl should dislike him.. 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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@noor okies i get that.. he hates him so you hate him too.. 😆wayy to gooo😉

Originally posted by: atitude gurl

jab maa baap apne bach0o k liye itna kuch karsakte hain to phir unki pasand ki shaadi kyun nahin karwa saktee..???

very interesting point Attitude girl.. and a good point at that..let me ask you this:anyone that gets married against their parents blessing, when something goes wrong in a marriage who do you think that child will come back to crying??? the Parents...!!!

but let me ask you this, why did prem agree with his dad that he'll marry ash ... when he knew that he loved heer.. my point is dont lie to your parents, dont hide the truth, for that is unfathomable to me that Prem hid is feelings from his dad and continued to dupe him.. which in the end has cause all this hate to come out of Juneja..(mind you i think Juneja is a small hearted man to begin with)

thanks attitude girl for the comments. 😃

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Posted: 17 years ago
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u know how u said u can't go out for a movie di, but why can't u take ur kids with u to the theatre. 😳 and do u think a parent should tell their kids whom they should marry n all.
i actually agree with u that he's just hurt, but one thing that got me thinking is that before the wedding prem told him that likes heer but he still wanted prem to marry aish. that's something i do not support. he still forced prem to marry aish. remember that rain sequence, wen there was his dad and prem.
one more thing, this was actually mentioned in one of our debate at school that parents do so much for their kids n kids should do wat their parents want them to do, like choose a career that their parents want them to etc etc and one of our teacher said she's a parent and it was her choice to have kids, and she would never want her kids to feel she has done any favour to them because it was her who decided to have them. just a point di, don't get offended.

love
harman 😛

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