Hey everyone 🤗... i want to share sumthing with u guys and would love it if u answer me not like a premeer fan but like a critic... i am going to be very crirtical here as i had never thought abt this before so pls dunt get angry and think generally 😊
yesterday i was talking to my sister Maham abt these drama's.. actually we were comparing these love stories abt how ppl fall in love and etc... now the drama she watches in tht the pair fell in love after quite sum time and they confessed their love for eachother after a very long time so in short they were shown falling in love very slowly as in each pahse was shown... they confessed their love in like 3 months or sumthing and maham was like tht thats the thing i liked in tht show coz u dunt fall in love tht easily and love at first sight is bull coz wat if the person for whom u fell for was not nice in reality?? and i was left wondering that did Prem fall in love with Heer too soon?
i mean he saw her on 9th april and decided on 28th april that he was in love wid her??? in tht time he had barely spoken two words to her .. i mean they didnt talk to eachother.. it was all in the eyes (which is so sweet n unique) returning to the topic ... wat he knew abt heer was what he had seen in shiv andir and the scene in which she tells him off... was it enough to make him fall for her??? i got very distrubed with this thought coz wen maham said tht her words sounded very true to me and i ot very upset coz questions had risen and i wanted a satisfactory answer that Prem was justifed and i thouht alot and came up wid this answer!
Premeer's lovestory was not ordinary in any way coz they were destined to be together from the very beginning and the concept of this drama was that god sends everryone in pairs and no matter where in the world you are you'll always meet the one who's made for you no matter how difficult the path of meeting is' and Prem was destined to be with Heer' Prem is a very simple yet a very deep and intense person for whom relations and duties are very important and he beleives in fulfilling his role as a son and as a brother to the full extent ' now when he saw Heer at the shiv mandir he felt an instant conection to her like he said on 10th april 08 to gayatri
" patanai phir be kyun usse dekh ke esa laga ke
jese mei usse hamesha se janta ho
esa laga ke uske aansoo se mera purana koi rishta hai
jese uski takleef se mere dil ko tehaes pohchi
patanai kyun kabhi kabhi kisi ajnabi ka dard itna apna sa kyun lagta hai
patanai esa kia hua ma jo mein uski taraf kheecha chala gaya
jab se usey dekha hai aik ajeb si bechaini horahi hai"
His words clearly say that he was drawn towards her as if the strings of her heart were slowly binding themselves around his heart pulling him in her direction' this sentence of Prem clearly indicates that they were made for each other because her pain had touched his heart and he couldn't stop himself from going to her even though he didn't know anything about her' this shows the intensity with which they were bound to each other unknowingly of course'
next came the lighter scene in which he had a clear look at her and found himself bewitched by her eyes and face' her painful eyes were etched in his heart and even thouh he knew that he was engaged to some one else he still couldn't stop himself from thinking about her and then came the first scene outside his office in which heer told him off' in that scene he came to know about Heer a little bit though of what her values were and how she is as a person and fell more for her because in some way she was his reflection feeling a fierce possesiveness inside himself for her and then he kept having glimpses of her 'the o re pia scene in which he felt the need of protecting her from the world unknowingly telling the world that she is his to claim'and then the rasta roko one in which he came to know that like him she was very protective of her sister and would blast off anyone who would hurt her' once again he saw himself in her and that made him love her so much'
that's the answer that I gave myself for justifying Prem's love for Heer' the intense love that he felt inside him was what he had been borne with and his love didn't need time to take birth because it was already there'
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