I think Heer is the Problem

Alright guys I still haven't seen the episode yet b/c it hasn't aired in the US, but I am thinking I may just give it a pass as I did to yesterday's episode. You know why, because Heer frustrates me, I mean her logic is completely messed up, while trying not to hurt her loved ones she actually gives them enormous pain and suffering. I mean she should just stop being nice b/c her niceness is leading to more heart ache and problems.

let me give y' all examples

1) Heer becoming cozy with RR: why to protect the family,this caused Lallu, Preet, Meher and company, serious hurt and pain. If heer had just confided in Preet beforehand, some of the grief could've been lessen

2) The Sameer Fiasco: so our Heer dearest, in hopes for protecting Prem, dealt with the dirtball by herself, hence leading up the the mess that caused the 6 yr leap. For some reason Heer thinks Prem is emotionally fragile and could not have handled Sameer's threats

3)And now Geet: Heer, just to protect her friend from heartbreak, is shoving her in a loveless marriage, which of course will not take place but will cause enormous humiliation and pain for Geet. Why b/c Geet is happy and she didn't want to burst her bubble, right what about when Geet finds out the truth???

Does Heer think that all of her friends, lover, and family are so week that they cannot handle the trauma and the difficulties that life throws at you. Why does she has so fight their battles for them??? Why be fake maahan, when maahanta is not needed???......I don't know why I am so mad at Heer, but if you love someone you should make them a stronger person to face the cold hard world not make them a wuss. I think Heer just does not cut it. Look at Prem and for that matter of fact Geet who shared their hopes, aspirations, frustrations, and heart aches with Heer, but Heer seems to thinks that they are not strong enough to be given the same curtsy.

Prem does not deserve you Heer. But that is just me, Of course I am perfect for Prem.....😆😆😆

a completely agree with u hun!!

guys guys guys you all nare pretty much right...but one thing we need to get clear is isn't all heroines of ekta's drama like that??
they all give big big sacrifices and in the end there is more heart-ache then ment to be!!
and worst come to worst no one even acknowledges it! they just blame them again!

-aashifa-
hope my point did not offend anyone

^_^

yeah i m agree with u ...
heer wakeup think about urself not about other's othrwise u weill losse PREM

Geet is obssessed & wants to marry Prem . Its not entirely Heer's fault.

completely agree with u. Heer's behaviour is now becoming ridiculous. and i was actually her fan till just now. but from what i hear in this forum all these shows have these insane characters. all of us can't wait for premeer to unite but why in the meantime do we have to be subjected to this nonsense ?

agree that she should have confided in somebody in RR case,chalo if not that,she could have told about Sameer case to Prem..esp.when Prem was asking her again and again indirectly..and completely agree on Geet's part..how can she think Prem will give love o Geet and would be happy with her..thats impossible..she knows very well that Prem can never love anyone else..knowing this she should not let her best friend suffer ..sooner or later Geet would be hurt..its better to give her a small pain rather than giving her pain of lifetime..

yeah heer s being dumb...shoudnt she already know that prem cant luv anyone except her......by letting geet marry prem, she is not being fair with geet.....but shes making geet marry a person who can never luv her....indirectly shes kinda ruining geet's life.......i wonder why heer doesnt think of this...!!....

Heer is bid Dumber than Geet!!! There is nothing to watch in Kis Desh...it happening from 2008...