pyar,ishq,mo'bat,ibadat AND prem-heer-are-one? :D - Page 2

Originally posted by: mysticgoryfilms

you really do need help, E? don't you? not even a mental asylum will help you. trust me 🤣 😳

😆 hey, aditi. ya. i know. and i trust you. what can you do for me?? 😆

cause these two? these two, are made in the stars.
what can capture the essence of prem-heer-are-one...well leave that upto god. or ekta.

😍 yeah, they are... and 😲 we're actually okay leaving it up to ms. kapoor??!

*reminds self to never open another estee post which will lead to utter confusion*

😆 oh dear. bye, aditi. was lovely knowing you. *peering under not-as-long-as-prem'/heer's-eyelashes estee-eyelashes* are you sure you won't ever open another one of my posts? really? truly? 😆

Originally posted by: mi7chimes

hey resmi. sorry for having messed up on your name before. 😃

n so E u cannot sing tat song for Nans,... 😆

ya, thought so... 😆

All three r together found in All Lovers whose love has Mohabbat ... definitely t simpler pyaar n t physical Ishq ill follow...😆

hmm... y'know? i like to think you are right. but i'm not sure? i think all lovers start off by being in pyar. insist on some ishq -- 'kay, maybe lots of it. 😆 but do they actually get to mohabbat? not sure... 😕
n tats simply why Premeer r not just lik other lovers tey r UNIQUE...coz tey r beyond t meanings of love world has givn in t dictionaries...
see! that's what i mean! mohabbat belongs to prem-heer, like it just doesn't belong to every pair of lovers! 'cause when i think 'bout it -- lovers go through trouble. and not just once, many times over. and only those who go through those and survive actually get to mohabbat? but i think they all do go through pyar.

and even of those who go through pyar and ishq and strife and surive each and every time -- get to mohabbat. but i'm not sure they get to prem-heer-are-one-ness. whatever it is actually called. 😆

no? *looking at resmi sincerely..*

Looks up n faints...
PS: eewww.. Resmi just got admitted in an ICU for she just wrote a long long reply to E.....😆
*estee settling down and holding resmi's hand in icu waiting for her to come to. i'm getting quite used to it... *

Originally posted by: mysticgoryfilms

i guess i have got one. if you think, estee, that it does not match upto prem-heer-are-one then i give you the right to come and beat me with a belen. 😆
nope, no fears of belen there. me non-violent pro-gandhian types. haven't you heard? i wouldn't even want to kick dirtchachi -- and not just 'cause i don't wanna get my beloved shoes dirty! 😆

well...my theory for prem-heer-are-one is that they are timeless. varies for generations and generations. so, shouldn't there love be unconditional and all due to their brain? heart? souls?

hmmm. nice one. ''unconditional love''. *rolling it 'round in my head and liking it.* but, adits... i always thought that one part of mohabbat -- as different from pyar, mere pyar 😆 -- was that it was unconditional, no? which is why i really think that i can think about mohabbat as describing what mom has for me, and me for mom -- no matter how mad i get at her for s'thing. same with her.

no? *wrinking face at aditi*

unconditional love, extended to others without exception, is considered to be one of the highest expressions of spirituality. however, nothing has been known regarding its neural underpinnings until now.

beyond the unconditional -- which i totally agree prem-heer-are-one has -- there is also the sense that it has been there forever. and will continue to be there forever.

and that's what i just can't capture in one word about prem-heer-are-one! and what amazes me about these two: how they managed to convince me that it is there! like no-other ''these two'' have ever managed to do. ever. not even in a book story. never. ever.

how did that happen to me?? *suddenly feeling lost and alone and needing to crawl and have a good weep in mom's lap*

so if you have problems...then just skip this post. although, i wouldn't be surprised if you do manage to make out what i'm saying. 😆

😆 no worries, darling. you were pretty clear.

@:*isn't it sad that in either case, it looks like i really, truly, awfully need help!? * ....hmm...you are seriously asking this question? 😲 but nothing can cure you, E. and we, your phorum pals who will equally go down if we continue to read these posts of yours. 🤣

😆 well, at least, there's a simple cure for that -- lucky you!

Originally posted by: KDHMDfan

oh E, poor you! ....and poor me too for now i am in the same state after reading this! You did a pretty good job of the subtleties but i can't find the word/words that would fit prem-heer-are-one perfectly.

😆 *that's resigned-laughter-at-our-sorry-state ki nishani, btw... *

and i've just made it worse with shabnam's help -- 'cause now i have ''ibadat'' added into that list of what makes up prem-heer-are-one... but not quite!

*sigh*

Originally posted by: coolgal270

sumi!🤗
I must say u ve got me thinking...thinking deep How in the world u come up with ideas like this?

😆 as i said, blame nans... 😆

I agree that pyaar,ishq,aur mohabbat does not describe fully that prem-heer-are-one....its just prem-heer-are-one.. Maybe one day they would name this kind of love as prem-heer-are-one.😆

😍 maybe... *spinning off into a prem-heer phull dream world with my eyes wide open at nearly 4am in the morning...*

* i know i didn't make any sense..but that's all I can come up with *

love you back, sumi. is nice to know i'm not all alone in this... 🤗

Originally posted by: Jyotix

Hey Estee, Very nice post. I am confused too, but I am agree I don't think pyar, ishq, mohabbat is enough to completely describe prem-heer-are-one. I think we can't describe Premeer,

jyoti! 🤗

darnit! *petulant muh* i can't acceptthat! i just have to be able to describe it! have to! *sulky muh*

😆

Originally posted by: lilsasha

Hello Estee Darling... *P-I-M hug* 😳
hey shabnam! 😃 er, phull hug, kya? 😆 .

excellent interpretation of Prem-Heer-are-1.... I think the word you was looking for which is bigger & larger than Pyar-Ishq-Mohabbat, which completes the description of Premeer's relation along with your post above is Ibaadat (worship)... It is even above P-I-M which one shares with God or the dearest ____ in this whole world

omg, shabnam. what a gorgeous, gorgeous word. 😍 i could go to sleep and have the most wonderful dreams on this word. and prem and heer, of course. 😊 worship... 😍

i agree. this is most definitely something in prem-heer-are-one -- and that was missing in pyar, ishq, mohabbat. *forgive me, i'm just spinning my head forward assuming that i understood what you meant -- if i got it wrong, tell me* worship... of course. heer worships prem. and i guess prem worships heer too in his own way. certainly, definitely more than he worshipped his father. and his mother.

so...

pyar, ishq, ibaadat, mohabbat.

and yet...

is it enough?

is it enough to fully get prem-heer-are-one?

is it enough? 😍

somehow... i think not? 😍

and that Prem heer ka prateek dialog also means that Prem is Heer's body heart n soul and Heer is Prem's body heart n soul too...

☺️ 😍still not enough...? 😍

Luyu PHestee.... 🤗

me back to you, phabnam.. 😆

🤗

Originally posted by: -Nansy-

E...u already know ki
"mein tumse bahut pyaar karthi hoon"
😆

😆 oh ya... where are you, though? come back and tell me everything is okay. 😃

i seriousli dint know you wud cum up of a topic like this ever 🤣🤣

😆 all your fault, nansy-wansy. all. your. fault. 😆

lekhin i never knew "khudaya ve" is still stuck in u...🤣🤣 but m glad it did...i ish shooo ishmaart u know...oh well m dropping in a pm for u...do reply me...😆😆😆

where's the pm, darling?? and ya. ''khudaya ve'' has still not quite left... 😆

Originally posted by: Anhdara13

I am so thoroughly confused. Thank you E. (And surprisingly, I mean that sincerely.)

radz! where are you??! *where are all you guys!? i miss you! come back! *

and er... you got me confused too -- why ever are you thanking me for confusing you? 😆 in the words of the immortalised mr. potter -- ''this is not normal!'' 😆

Originally posted by: Kutimani

Reading this I got a nonsense headache. I am Utterly confused. I just wish everything was as simple as your Prem & his Heer.

😆 sorry 'bout the headache... didn't mean to do that to you.

and you're right, of course. prem and his heer are simple. pheeling prem-heer-are-one is the simplest thing on earth, no?

it's trying to put them into words that drives me 'round the bend?

what to do? i'm like that only... 😆