Why should Heer trust Prem? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Why does a five year old has to know that her father cheated her mom? And its ok if heer doesn't want to go back to Prem but atleast she should accept her part of the fault ... it were her lies that led prem to do what he did ... if heer had seen a video of prem walking into a hotel room looking all scared with a girl what would heer think? Anyways heer vs prem is always a useless debate because they are suppose to be one ... i just don't like heer acting all holier than thou as if she never did anything wrong and prem is the only one who deserves all the disgust other than that i am ok with heer not fogiving Prem ... all i am asking is for her to understand her part of the fault thats all she doesn't want to forgive prem thats fine but did heer ever really trust prem fully? I can't recall a single instance ... she trusted everyone from gyatri to rajveer but never Prem thats just my pov

she herself admitted today that it was a bhool so whether she forgives prem for it or not when she knows it was a bhool she should treat it as one shouldn't she"? Forgiving or not is her right but for that one mistake she shouldn't think and project prem as a low life character ... thats my only problem with heer

@ Nadia...Lolz...Even I am out of here too...

yea u just proved my point heer trusted everyone gyatri, rajveer but Prem she thought she is too smart and prem is incapable of resolving the sameer issue and will get hurt in the process ... she believed that her Prem is such a low life that he would do a car accident and leave the place and pay someone to lie to save him? Did heer really know Prem? In my opinion NO! She either told Prem lies or half truth till it was too late

But despite all that i totally understand heer not been able to forgive Prem but rest of her behavior i can't

Ya me too:

Okay, good points..I completely agree.👍🏼

But my problem isnt with Heer's actions, its with Heer's THOUGHTS. The Heer who loved Prem unconditionally...the Heer who was the symbol of love. The Heer who was born for love, lives for love and was willing to die for love. How can she think so badly of Prem? How can she constantly be thinking that Prem is like this, Prem is like that. Prem will take my Chahat away. I know she doesnt trust Prem anymore, but really? The girl who loved Prem since the day she was born, the girl who spent years waiting for her Prem, whom she believed she was destined to be with...how can she doubt Prem's intentions, doubt Prem's morals? 🤔

Its not just thoughts, its the things she says - to Geet, to Jasmeet Aunty, to others. For Heer, Prem was everything. She was willing to sacrifice HERSELF and go to jail, for what? To make sure that the World would not once doubt Prem's integrity. 😍Today, that girl is going around and telling people HERSELF, that Prem is a bad person? He is incapable of being a good husband? 🤔

I dont expect Heer to go running back to Prem, and I sincerely hope she doesnt, not until she knows the truth anyway. I understand Heer's POV in that the guy she waited for for years, her childhood love, the guy for whom there was no one, nothing bigger had cheated on her. 💔 But I dont understand how she can intentionally try and get people to doubt Prem's morals, values and integrity - esp when it were those very morals, values and integrity that she had sacrificed everything to protect and uphold! 😕 The Heer, for whom Prem was God? The Prem, whom Heer worshiped? Today, that very Prem was reduced to a mere, dishonest man who isnt worthy of trust. And it was no one but Heer who reduced him to that. 👎🏼

It is that, what I dont understand! 🤔

EDIT: Farru and Soapie...no one is Heer bashing or Prem bashing! It's just a discussion. Bashing would be if we were calling either of them idiots/stupid/dumb etc 😆 no one is doing that. Discussions are good and healthy..so I wouldnt classify this as bashing! 😛

EDIT #2: (😆) I also blame the dialogue (sp?) writers! They give us amazing dialogues for Prem but for this Heer, the dialogues are really sucky and misleading. 👎🏼

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Why does a five year old has to know that her father cheated her mom? And its ok if heer doesn't want to go back to Prem but atleast she should accept her part of the fault ... it were her lies that led prem to do what he did ... if heer had seen a video of prem walking into a hotel room looking all scared with a girl what would heer think? Anyways heer vs prem is always a useless debate because they are suppose to be one ... i just don't like heer acting all holier than thou as if she never did anything wrong and prem is the only one who deserves all the disgust other than that i am ok with heer not fogiving Prem ... all i am asking is for her to understand her part of the fault thats all she doesn't want to forgive prem thats fine but did heer ever really trust prem fully? I can't recall a single instance ... she trusted everyone from gyatri to rajveer but never Prem thats just my pov

she herself admitted today that it was a bhool so whether she forgives prem for it or not when she knows it was a bhool she should treat it as one shouldn't she"? Forgiving or not is her right but for that one mistake she shouldn't think and project prem as a low life character ... thats my only problem with heer

ermm,i think yu'r ryt , in a way .. yeah ?

@ Nadia...leave it yar....Creatives were out of ideas and they showed "this and that"

I agree with ytou totally my cousin asked me the same question that if you were instead of heer what will you do?

Both are right and wrong in their own way. I frankly feel, even though I love Chahat, she was not needed in the story yet. The creatives were desperate for TRP's. I really don't think the people they are showing on screen is Prem and Heer. Prem would never fight so quietly and Heer would never lack so much trust in him.

hmmmmm both are at fault here......both of them should forgive each other....I totally understand where heer is coming from but think about it....prem never slept with ash intentionally...he didnt drink to have fun....something forced him to ...what who....it was heer!!...why because she lied to him....rajveer was just an excuse.... main problem for him was she hid things from him...thats it!!! and she didnt trust him but rajveer and confided in him!!!....thats all ....this feeling led him to do nasty things.....