Originally posted by: stunninstar
i know guyz...heer gotta forgive prem... but just think placing yourself in her position..you yourself will get the justification...
heer didnt tell prem about that sameer issue because she feared it wud hurt him... she did it for him..
i admit she was wrong in ot telling that ... but we 'd also do the same if someone whom we considered our mom asks us to keep it from husband..
she obeyed what gaya3 said..not knowing that she was trying to separate the two..
just think about heers conditio.. she lost her mother, father...brother got trapped in jail because of something he never did..
and she couldnt do anything to save him..
her husband was blasting her thinking she has a relation with her friend who was only helping her,..
and then just when she solved everything she comes to know how her husband slept with her cousin as he was angry with her and lost his sense drinking!!!
even if he sayhe was not in his senses no wife will be able to forgive her husband for such a mistake...
do u think prem would have forgiven her if she had said him she slept with a man..
so why??
just think keeping yourself in that position..u will get answer why she is doing this...n haan i know prem didnt sleep witth ash...but no one else knows that..
PS:: even i want her to be back with prem.. i hate to see prem crying for his love and child.. but more than trying to make wife jealous and mom happy prem should try to get heers trust back...
by trying to get married to some random girl wont help him gain his trust ...
So then why did she tell him everything after it was too late???
If it mattered to her so much, then why didn't she keep it to herself???why did she tell him whatever she told (that too after everything was over🥱)
And moreover did G3 also tell her to go discuss her marital relationship and love with Rajveer???did G3 also tell her to take permission from Rajveer before confessing to her husband about the stuff???
And I disagree when you say Heer should forgive Prem...If I were Heer I wouldn't forgive either and I want Heer too to know the truth before she forgives....
All I am asking is for her to stop making Prem look like a disgusting creature...some monster....And start thinking and feeling guilty of what she did in the first place....
Its easy to point fingers at others for your misery...but very difficult to look into oneself and accept ones shortcomings....
Jhanak
