Heer- defender, its BOTH their fault...

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ritzbitz786

@ritzbitz786

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

Im sorry to all the harshad-lovers, or those who go with society's "men are better than women" sexism...

But Kis Desh, is ultimately a soap about Heer or girl power. Im sorry if that bothers or offends people, but prem has done wrong with the veera thing , not lettting go of his moms pallu when she asked him to kick heer out, and ultimately what he did today...

Heer hasn't done wrong. And if she has its been to protect Prem and also because she thought of his mom as his mom and didn't think she was evil, rather loved her as her own mom.

I'm not saying that to make anyone mad. But ever wonder why she does through everything. She went through prems death, she went through the rishabh things, she went through prem/gaurav thing, she went through the sameer thing.

COMPARABLY, with Sanjana, Heer never thought about Prem cheating on her. She KNEW prem loved her. Heck she even got slapped by him for no reason and almost fell of a cliff, just to see what was bothering him.

And even if we keep in mind the ORIGINAL story of Kis Desh aka Prem dies and heer marries preet. That too would be focusing on heer's inner struggle and pain over not letting go of Prem's love and starting to love her husband aka Preet.

Thats why the epitome of great girl is heer and great guy is nihaal. Truly.

Prems anger and even his suspicion to such a point were justified but him saying such dirty things in public. Those words he cannot take back.

Why couldnt he go home and ask heer?

And you know what disappoints me in this forum?

The fact that people say "heer died a long time ago...." what did she do? Please tell me. I dont get what she could have done. It seems prem can get away with murder cause hes a guy? No. This isnt about guy-girl, harshad fan or aditi fan. Its about right and wrong guys.

Think about it, if Prem got remarried to ash, people would be hurt, but they would still love prem because "oh prem is still in love with heer, she is still in his heart.."

BUT if heer got remarried to Raj..This forum will be in havoc. There will be "die heer die" posts everywhere.

I just think as kis deshians and Premeer are one...(or used to be) when need to blame both. And admit when one is truly wrong. OR better yet, when the creatives did wrong in writing the dialogues. And today The creatives BUTCHERED Prem.

Edited by ritzbitz786 - 16 years ago

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Khalidah

@KhaLidaH

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Posted: 16 years ago

hi ritbiz786. I so agree with you, esp about if heer remarried raj, there would b so so many posts die die heeriah lol it's both@ faults.

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ts9787

@ts9787

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Posted: 16 years ago

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well said. I agree with everything you said

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ritzbitz786

@ritzbitz786

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

Lol. Thanks guy! It just makes me sad, that even though us Desi's have grown to modern on the outside, inside everyone still thinks a women is subordinate. I was sad to see people blaming only heer simply b/c they love harshad too much to see his tears? Or because they love harshad..

Cmon guys....look at things at face value. Its is both their faults.

But after today I can tell why Rajan Shahi shows are ranked 2 and 3, respectively. They promote marriage and the struggles and obstacles in them. The show couples PROGRESSING. not Degressing. Even though Im not married and just entering my twenties, I can see why the public, esp. those with girls/daughters wouldn't want their daughters to see KDM. Husbands saying such dirty things to their wives in public? I was in awe at who wrote these dialogues. I I think Rekha Modi, a women writes them. They were so dirty!

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poonam

@P.Kamaljit.Sean

Stunner

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Posted: 16 years ago

well said
i truly agree with you

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fungrl

@fungrl

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

I agree with all of you, I think Heer and Prem are both at fault.........Prem for not being proactive into finding out what was bothering Heer, or handling her sister's life. Veera was stupid, but if Prem felt that Nihal could've have abused Veera he should've tried to figure out how it happen, not let his siter go to the alleged abuser. Also, men are known to be less emtional than woman, atleast Prem could've formulated a plan to deal with Heer rather than verbally and physcally abusing her.

But Heer is also a duffer, Prem again and again asked her what was bothering her but no she didn't trust Prem to be storng enough to solve his own problems......wha kya bat hai..........Heer is a wife her job is to walk side by side with her husband and be his piller of support, not his mother who needs to be babied and soothed.

Prem's out burst was silmilar to the way people behave when they find out they were cheated on....just like the TV show "Cheaters (the show is so lame)" but it happens...........If someone I loved acted like Prem today I would be afraid to reconcile with them b/c it seemed like Prem had some unresolved anger issues and that is not healthy for a successful relationship.

I love HC's and AG's actiing it was so passionate and full of angst............but in reality both of the characters have not valued thier vows.................hence their marrige was not based on mutual love and trust but lust.......and that does not last long

As fans we want to see reality in their realtionship, but Creatives are addicted to drama so we are basically screwed

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