Originally posted by: -athena-
I know Prem is suffering a lot right now trying to prove his love to his mother...However, there is a fundamental flaw in this whole track...Prem is a man who always stood for what is right....He is very well aware of what his mother's feelings were for Heer...Then how come he is STILL supporting her???
And G3 is not even being all diplomatic about it...She is outright blatant about her demands...Why is Prem still being blind to all this??
I think its high time they show Prem developing some brains and also a heart towards Heer...This is simply outrageous...making her cry like that....👎🏼
Ohh another thing....'aakhir me insaan usi ka hota hai na, jinse uski shadi hoti hai'...what crappp😕....this coming from that Prem Juneja, who didn't care about having any relation with Heer, to be able to love and protect her....sounds totally forced and absurd...🥱
This whole souls being together while physically being away and hurting is nothing but BS....I hope the creatives are reading this...They need to revamp the whole track and show something thats pleseant and suitable to a couple like Premeer...
24/7 keeping them unhappy is such a horrid and sadistic ploy...why can't these guys come up with a story instead?😡
And BTW who cares whether Nihaal wins a lottery or falls off the face of the earth or whether Maya learned about the family values from films or monkeys....why can't they just cut the crap...😡...they almost had one whole segment on these things...poore detail me....and when it comes to Premeer, whose lovesotry this show was actually supposed to be...they mish mash the scenes and make them a hotch potch of their stupidity.....🥱
Raksha,
I wrote a long post & before clicking the update post tab I accidentally hit the refresh button & all went out the window! Feel like killing myself. 😡
Anyway yeah read ur post but I have mixed emotions about this, maybe because of the positive vibes I got & felt the dosage of after reading & writing all the positive posts in the morning as well. 😃
About Heer I was thinking for the past 2 days after observing her, there were many instances when many people wrote they can't understand Heer's reactions now. She is very fast changing from anger to being hurt to crying in her agony & she is justified in her state of mind. She is feeling insecure because the person for whom she waited all her life & finally saw her love reciprocated which went through hurdles & turmoils of its own but finally ended in a dramatic wedding. Her belief in her love & fate went from 1-10 if u consider the gradation of her faith. And finally when the love reached the ultimate culmination, that very night she was thrown out by that very same love of her life, something unthinkable & unfathomable even to a lay person forget Heer. So right now she needs the physical assurance & reassurance from Prem to instill the belief she had before. I am not saying she is doubting Prem about his love for her, that she knows is there & will be there for ever but she needs the pledge from Prem that he will be there physically for her all throughout her life standing next to her. I deciphered this after watching her flashbacks y'day. She was reminiscing about the moments when Prem came to her rescue shielding her with his promises & braving the world himself on her behalf.
My point here is Prem sees her tears & understands her mental state but is not wiping her tears because he doesn't have the courage to wipe & walk away after that! He too wants to be there next to her permanently to see her through all highs & lows! Its the same battle he is having within to be there with her but unable to because of his mom's orders & ultimatum. He knows what Heer is going through right now, how insecure & hurt she is feeling but if he does something for her then that will weaken him & he will be unable to keep his mother's words.
Well why he is following G3's orders when he himself knows she is wrong? Raksha when do u think Prem ever went against his parents? Last time with Ash he would have married her if she didn't reject him. Irrespective of being in love he would have followed Lalit's orders. Lalit threw him out & so he left with Heer or else I don't think he would have left at all. So similarly same scenario is now to be seen where his respect, love, gratitude, sense of debt is doubly reinforced becoz its G3 who brought him up as her own son, made him strong, confident, physically capable as well & is now asking for a payback! Even after knowing everything he can't go against the words of his mom. Do u think he didn't know throwing Heer out middle of the night that he was doing wrong? He was just being in that eternal sandwiched situation of any guy after marriage & we r talking about Prem here whose life & god is G3.
U know if I didn't watch from Fri till today I wouldn't have understood Prem, even I would be accusing him but now we r getting a better perspective about Prem when we r hearing it from himself. U know they took Prem down to such an extent that it looked impossible to bring him back to his old self. I didn't think they would be able to redeem him ever. But maybe after our protests & several posts they realised what Prem means to us & finally r trying to turn him around. So I am thankful to them for that. They can't mend all wrongs overnight so I would give them some time to finally bring Prem around to his full self or even the 18th June Prem. He has to be pushed further by G3 to finally explode, he is still not in that position of between a rock & a hard place yet, once they show him pushed to that extent then we will see the revolution from him. So till then I will w&w. And if before all this G3 herself realises her fault & ask for forgiveness then we will never see this side of Prem at all. But with the positivity dose I will just give them another chance, actually can't do anything other than that. If we could write off entire GS track along with Prem's ML or FML as a blooper then this also I will wait to see how & what they unfold now & how do they redeem Prem!
And now about that dialog u know I for one liked it. It depicted a sense of belonging! He meant here, no matter what happened, how much a couple doesn't see eye to an eye & live separately but after marriage with responsibility their actions ought to be responsible as well. Afterall a person belong to him/her with whom they get married! I found this very true. If he meant Meet then obviously its very apt. Preet didn't marry Ash, Meher didn't marry Harman but now that they r married to each other they belong to the other no matter what & ought to act accordingly!!! And if he is referring to himself then too its true, no matter what he does or say to Heer, no matter whether he chooses G3 over Heer but the fact is they r married & thus will belong to each other & nobody can change that fact. So he is trying to imply the oneness here, atleast I felt it, he belongs to her & she to him, period!
And when u were referring to the hypothetical situation of his belonging to Ash if he ever was married to her, well frankly I think he would have yes, even if he loved Heer eternally! Remember how he told G3 that he will try to be a good pati & pita after his marriage whereas Heer will be a good wife & mom to her respective family. Once marriage takes place the equation changes & that is what is referred here I think.
But I liked it when he said that looking at her indicating he will always be hers no matter what happened & vice versa!
And they being normal, nahhh, don't think it will ever happen. Remember weeks back I said this, why can't they behave like a normal couple for a change & u only said they r this ethereal surreal couple who is over & above any normal couple. Same thing is applicable now as well! And to tell u the fact when they try to act normal being all lovey dovey somewhere they lose it & what we get again becomes unabe to relate with, unreadable, unrecognisable! Prem acting restless like a jumping jack riding on hormones & Heer all acting like a siren! Atleast now I can see my old Premeer with their basic characteristics intact & I can relate to them, understand them, recognise & connect to them. So I had much rather they remain this way than change.
So there u go my entire thesis, if u have not already fallen asleep! 😆😆 Guess that post of urs being positive worked wonders! 😆
Edited by lghosh - 16 years ago
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