Aren't they missing a point here???

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hmmm...Isn't Heer missing the main point here??

How come she isn't scared of Prem dying??She is more concerned about him leaving her and going away...but what about Prem dying??Isn't she scared of that???

Yaar these creatives have literally gone mad..Just to show some drama, they are showing Prem and Heer to be some emotional stupids.....

First they make Prem dumb enough to NOT to take a second opinion and then him not even thinking about Heer's plight after he leaves her to her own....and Heer seeming to be only worried about Prem leaving her...isn't she supposed to cry more for Prem's impending death...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Raksha I think its more a case of wilfully unseeing the evident! She purposely doesn't want to think about that situation & thus is more concerned in being with him till the end. That is what that comes to my mind.
What surprises me more is how come she is not thinking of taking him to a doctor herself? How come she is not insisting him to undergo some tests with some other doctor? Even if Prem refuses saying its pointless since its unavoidable but still her faith in her God would compel her to force him to go see a specialist, no? All her 'bhagwan' talks for the last so many episodes should make her do this. She is so bright now as to put RR behind bars & this simple thing is not coming to her mind?
But again if they do that then the track will come upto an abrupt end, then they can't drag it for a week!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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That makes sense...She is just trying to blindfold herself from the bigger truth....And its more important for her to be with him till the last minute...Poor thing...I so understand her pain..And I understand Prem's pain too...He doesn't want to leave her alone and without any family after he would be gone....

I think her not being able to think anything beyond Prem's leaving her including taking him to another doctor explains it all, Lana...That idea of taking him to another doctor comes only when she doesn't trust his intelligence no? And we know how blindly she believes and has faith in him...

BTW..Heer looked soooooooo pretty today...and in that scene when Prem hugs her from behind...where her neck gets exposed...I think AG has got one of the best necks I have seen offlate...haha...yep..I am a keen observer of people's necks...ROFL

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hiiiii Ladies!

This was swimming around in my head too, but you guys seem to have made your point well. All I keep thinking when she says "mera kya?" is what about Prem? Aren't you worried about who will be there to take care of him when he 'dies'?

Anyway, I agree in that Heer is indeed blindfolding herself from the possible truth of it all - just the thought that her Prem is 'dying'. And Raksh, I love what you said about 'testing his intelligence' if she were to drag him to a doctor, and though I completely understand where you're coming from with that, I just don't think I care if his intelligence is being tested here - I'm with Lana! She should have dragged him to a doc by now!

Can I ask a question though? I was just collecting my thoughts on today's epi, and would love to know what you guys think.

We said we wanted Prem to stop 'acting like a whimp'. But I HATED what I saw today. Why is he all of the sudden acting so nonchalant or indifferent about everything? We asked for no more tears - not flat out indifference. For some reason, the way he was so casually talking to Heer today (almost in a non-Prem manner? I mean, I think I got flashbacks of his GS stint) just didn't sit well with me. Is he simply trying to be strong for Heer? Did you guys see what I'm talking about or am I just off in a different direction all together? I just found him very very disconnected from everything today - esp. in that scene with Heer...

Oh - and that hug from behind...can I *swoooooooooooooooon*? 😍 And the way she just let out a sigh and let the tears flow as she collapsed against him....😍....These two are magical....

Love
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Edited by IndianPari - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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P...it didn't sit well with me either in the first viewing...But I watched it again now and saw how hard he was trying to be indifferent....He wants to make Heer indifferent as well with his annoying attitude...Idiot...isn't he aware of her deewanapan??Just look at the way he was looking at him during the second seg...

And what was his 'sab kuch theek ho jayega?'🤔

This Prem is really an idiot or what...hmph...

I am just not bothered because this is just like when Heer was trying to leave him in Aug beginning...It will all be fine by next week...I am pretty relaxed!!



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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: -athena-

P...it didn't sit well with me either in the first viewing...But I watched it again now and saw how hard he was trying to be indifferent....He wants to make Heer indifferent as well with his annoying attitude...Idiot...isn't he aware of her deewanapan??Just look at the way he was looking at him during the second seg...

And what was his 'sab kuch theek ho jayega?'🤔

This Prem is really an idiot or what...hmph...

I am just not bothered because this is just like when Heer was trying to leave him in Aug beginning...It will all be fine by next week...I am pretty relaxed!!





I guess I need to watch it again...anyhow, I was half-asleep when I saw the epi this morning 😆

But I dunno, I just didn't like what Prem was trying to do there - and how. I guess I should go watch it again...but for some reason, I still find (so very sadly) that I'm not really able to relate to this Prem...I just want all this to be over so that we can have the old Prem back....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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what u expect welcome to ekta world 🤣
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Haha..i-f fan...soo true....even then I am thankful that this show is different from the rest of the BT brigade...And we have to admit that we have been the most fortunate of all the BT viewers...

P..yes you will see more nuances in the second viewing...but I have to agree with you....This Prem is so unrelatable at times...I could relate to the second seg Prem more than the first seg one...


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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: IndianPari



I guess I need to watch it again...anyhow, I was half-asleep when I saw the epi this morning 😆

But I dunno, I just didn't like what Prem was trying to do there - and how. I guess I should go watch it again...but for some reason, I still find (so very sadly) that I'm not really able to relate to this Prem...I just want all this to be over so that we can have the old Prem back....



Yea I felt the old- premness lacking today...It was like ok you are trying to make heer strong but at least show some emotions. She was crying her heart out there, hugging him over and over and he didnt have single tear falling down his eyes. I felt soo annoyed by this coz I was waiting the whole time for him to atleast shed 1 tear and embrace her in his arms tightly. I wanted him to pursue first. I felt like he is sooo keen on leaving. Like he wants to get out of there asap....
GOsh its soo iritating thinking that OUR PREM would do that... I know u dont wanna hurt her or other members but as any normal human being you wouldnt wanna leave ur fam as easily either...esp Heer...

SO i know wht u mean. For first time I felt disconnected with Prem
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Posted: 16 years ago
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^^ Although his cheerfulness was slightly eerie, it was clearly put on. I noticed it not once, but twice, that he would say something to Heer, and then gulp. I don't know whether it was intentional (on the part of HC), but as an audience, it looked like he was trying to stop his tears. His joking around and fake cheerfulness made the situation even more hopelessly tragic.
Also, I thought there were aspects of GS in that, as hiding behind the mask of Gaurav has become his defence mechanism now. If he was Prem, seeing Heer cry like that, and thinking about his own death, if he allowed himself to become even a little sad, he would have completely broken down. He could not afford that, at the moment.
I think his aloofness, or disconnect, with the situation is the only way he will stop himself from going insane. Heer has the option of shedding tears. If Prem were to do that, he'd probably be crying for months, because I doubt he could express much of his pain when he lived with G's mom. Then, he came back to his OWN family, and he had to continue his charade. A normal person would have lost it (well, they would also have gotten a second opinion, but whatever). I think like he said earlier, he's had so much pain, that he's 'become numb to the feeling of pain'.
Edited by iqbalrox14 - 16 years ago

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