Is Marriage the Only Solution???

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Friends...

Its been a very hectic day for me and I was hardly able to come online or talk to any of you...I hate to admit it, but a string of Kis Desh keeps running in the back of my mind no matter what I do or how busy I am*bangs*...I am that emotionally involved with this stupid serial...*don't look at me, I know its the same with many of you*

Its not even a fortnight that Prem's character has supposedly taken an exit ( of course we know its on a temporary situation...) and I have been seeing topics about Heer's marriage and her possible suitors already....😲

Ok, for the argument sake lets admit Prem is no more...SO WHAT????That doesn't mean Heer should now look for another person to hook up with so that she can be 'safe'...ermmm....For once, can't they show how a girl battles with life on her own and creates her own identity with the help of the power she draws from her soulmate...Don't tell me things like this don't happen in real life...I have seen many girls living on their own and creating a niche' for themselves....

This story is about 'eternal love'...right???In that case wouldn't it be more fitting to show Heer moving on in her life all by herself with the fond thoughts of Prem as her driving force???

I really want to challenge the creatives to take the story in that direction...For once I want them to think beyond the 'marriage' angle...

For goodness sakes, Marriage is NOT a solution for all the problems...🥱

Well, these are my thoughts and I would love to read your thoughts also on this matter...

Raksha




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Raisa25 thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Rakshu I have to Agree with you Whole heartedly...!
First of all, if we consider it as a Real life then....Ofcourse there are soo much girls around us who are self sufficient & passing their life well...It was an ancient thoughts were girls used to regarded incomplete without her soul mate/hubby!

Coming to Heer's marriage....I really think it's high time to show heer powerful who can manage Prem's work as superbly as Prem did...It's not that if she is married everything will be set or happiness will be all around. Moreover, The love that this show have pictured between Prem-Heer can't be so light that another person in Heer's life can take Prem's place (Of course NOT)

It's really painful to see so much topic regarding Heer's marriage...Even more painful when seeing people are getting used to with the thought of Heer's marriage...That really wasn't our KDMHMD forum before (No Offense to anyone)

I know K-serials are like that who can twist the story like hell to run the show million years but there are other ways two...Like Sangam..The girl herself is managing Business, Home & everything...for quite long time...Now her marriage proposal is taken when everything is set!

Ekta please try to bring some new story...Not that gissa-pita old wine in a new bottle!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i think prem wanted heer to experience every joy in life, that included being a wife and mother... i guess that is the reason for the marriage track, however doesnt mean she has to get married tomorrow, or next week or next month
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Posted: 16 years ago
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me agrees 100%...ahh these topics abt preet and heer's shaadi or heer finding someone else give me a headache!...im hoping that even if they try to run this show w/out harshu for a little while, they dnt make heer start depending on some other guy...she has the complete potential and guts to face the world head on without some guy to back her up or save her...wat the heck is up wit that? girl "lost" her lover and now needs another guy to step in as her protector? thats utter rubbish...tons of girls live after making something out of themselves...so if ekta even thinks abt trying to run this show w/out harshu babu...she has to make heer independent...besides i dnt rlly see that happening cuz i know that she'll have to bring harshu bak....or else this show is going further down the dumps...

rinkz

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Posted: 16 years ago
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This is a story about eternal love , so how come so fast that fact is being forgotten ............... it would be so illogical to see Heer with someone else, instead she should remain alone with the fond memories of her true soulmate indeed..........
But knowing this to be a BT serial where we see numerous marriages, they won't leave Heer alone and get her hooked up with someone by hook or crook and therefore they will spoil the entire esscence of this story ( they've already spoiled it partly by removing Prem ) and the beauty of this love that we saw for the past 7 months.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hey Raksha you are asking too much yaar. Expecting sensible things to happen in Ekta show..

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Posted: 16 years ago
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What you have written is what usually happens in real life!!! However, Ekta serials are the farthest something ever could be from reality!!!
It would be great to watch such an inspiring story...but I highly doubt that the creatives have anything planned like that for the future...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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awww......i know di, since it's the middle of the term, most of us are stuck with midterms.......and talking about marriage.......forget about marriage, I was thinking how could Prem ask Heer to have kids with her "wutever 🥱..." new humsafar......blah.......when i watched it on youtube.......i was like, ' dude!!! wake up.....we can't even think of hearing heer's name with some creep and you are talking about her having kids????😡 ......and then tell them about your prem kahani????!!!!..."......🤬 writers!!!..........after that i pretended I have never watched that part.....all the creatives/writers, bhar mein jaye sabke sab!!!!🤬
they are acting as if, Heer had only ONE aim for living and that was to get MARRIED TO PREM??!!!!.......and since Prem is....ermm.....lets say he is on a vacation......ahh now feels good.......wait where was i??.....hmm......ok since prem is on a vacation, so they should get married Heer to someone else otherwise, the sky will fall off, or pigs will fly, or wutever🤢.....lifeless creeps!!!!
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rehana
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Posted: 16 years ago
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still i dont get why Prem want her to get married and he want her to take care of his maa . why she can not make her own life .............
why some one order
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnuN

Hey Raksha you are asking too much yaar. Expecting sensible things to happen in Ekta show..

I completely agree...It never happens in Ekta shows...But which i didnt get is...how preet marries heer...he is calling her Bhabhi na...if he calls her as HEER...ok as its ekta serial we agree...as she is BIG BLOOPER

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