why blame just Harman?

Harman is perhaps weak and so desperate to get his father's approval..(from a dad that has always been just praising Prem's from the word go..) that harman feels inadequate and thus has asked for help from Meher, he didnt force Meher to do anything.. why is everyone blaming just Harman heck doesnt Meher deserve some weight for the responsiblity for her decision to play in this game of deceit.😕Furthermore, i'd like to also shed light that when Prem walked out with heer, that after that, the guy cried nonstop infront of Heer and whenever Prem was faced infront of his father he would be all strong .and then behind his dad's back he'd act all depressed infront of Heer...so there was some major weird vibes from him as well...

Originally posted by: raksha.l

Why do you want to drag Prem into this??

I am actually shocked that you even put them together in the same sentence...

Anyways for your information Prem never lied to his father..

Whatever he did, he did right upfront...

He never wanted to leave home, his father threw him out without even thinking twice...anyways that's a diffrent issue....

All of us have always said it was Meher's mistake too for lying....

Coming to Harman...he is a scum bag alright...First of alll he doesnt respect his own love that girl Maya...He is ashamed of introducing her to her bauji...and want Meher to act as a little time filler until that girl gets indianized...what the heck....🤢

Second, if he didnt want to marry Meher, why did he beg her to lie...She was ready to say no and bauji would have been fine with it...He wanted to buys some time to bring in his so called to be indianized love...🤢

Third, did you see the way he spoke to Meher when she was eating Modaks???He told her she can eat all she can because they weren't marrying anyways...😲🤢....Which means if she was to marry him, he will start putting limitations on her eating is it...😲🤢

And its no secret how he behaved with Prem, not once, but TWICE...😲.🤢

Prem is weak???😲It takes strength to stand by what you beleive and never give up...He wanted both his family as well as his love and did he achieve it or what...

Its one thing to support an under dog...but Harman is not even an under dog here..

One more thing is this show is about Prem and Heer...Most of us don't even care about Harman...

Raksha...

PS: Nice seeing you here in this section di...😃

Originally posted by: nrasheed

okay for the record i am not comparing harman and prem. all i said was both are weak in some shape or form.. now perhaps you all would like to imagine a guy as perfect as Prem (which is fine, whatever sails your boat..😉)... but noone is prefect.. except God..and that also depends on if you believe in god..so please if you all love prem soo much and have put him on a pedestal then perhaps i'm defintely not in the right place for debate...thanks..i'm shocked that i feel i've some how offended you all..😕 for that was not what i had set out to do.. regards..

Originally posted by: Power20

Hi Di,

I don't know your name but I agree with you that yes Prem was weak when he was away from his family. Granted that he missed his family and all but that 24*7 crying was too much to handle and not at all normal. I kept saying that Prem was repenting being with Heer but no one agreed with me or my two suporters. Apparently Prem can do no wrong.😆

Trvi glad to know i'm not alone in thinking that Prem is a fictiously human character. (thanks for your support very sweet of you..😃).and i like Prem i think he's a good son, and bro.. and he does the best that he can.. that being said, yeah i have to say i was shocked over some of the posts.. i mean i said that Prem is weak in some shape or form, not that he is weak exactly like Harman.. i'm shocked that people here think i'm dumb witted or something that i would compare the two which i wasnt. infact i reread my post to see where i was comparing i just said that they both made promises infront of some pic to their father (that is a fact noone can dispute it)! and that was where the similarity begins and ends.

I truly feel for you and your 2 supporters must have been rough sayin that, cause there is defintely an unspoken law around here that if you say anything against prem be ready to take some extra heat😉 anyway whatever works for the masses and keeps them happy.. 😛 thanks for taking the time out means alot...

Just wanted to convey my support to you.

~Triv