why such animosity towards Herman? - Page 2

Originally posted by: fj08

I understand that people have flaws and need to be forgiven but seriously, you tell your father pls forgive me, i will give u my life if you ask but i will lie to you and the whole family and not give up the girl that i love, nothing wrong with loving someone ur family doesnt approve of thats not my problem, my problem is lying generally and specially to your family.

so your one of those saintly people that never lie i guess😕, or have fallen so badly in love that you dont see right from wrong( and yes i realize that he is blinded by his love for this chic..and that is my whole point, sometimes your soo over flown by emotions that you'd do anything, its like an addict will do anything for just that next fix..But i guess you just are soo perfect that you don't see life in such shades of grey.. in which case your family is truly very lucky to have you👏)and as for swearing on his father that he'll do anything, i believe i saw Prem do the very samething and then took off with Heer...right so hey if Prem was forgiven by all of you then i'd say that his bro should be too...😆

and then the very next day he defends meher in front ok that weirdo, and tells her you can eat all you want because i dont care if you get fat that is OK, but then adding that he doesnt care because he wont actually be marrying her is really LOW...

ummm this has me a little bit confused, i mean seriously are guys usually soo sensitive to younge ladies😕 (yeah only in ekta's world😆)usually the guys in their 20's cant look past their own lives..and even when they do..heck boyfriends, husbands are always doing and saying thing that piss of their significant other...so what if he said something....🤔i hope you dont mind me quoting you,😃 i'm seriously just saying that everyone has flaws and some more then others and thats what makes life interesting...😉

Originally posted by: jnawaz

my first issue with harman is how he doesnt take one second to go from loving brother to hating brother...not once but twice...he blames prem for wanting the business, the property and the money...he accused prem of wanting all that is jhuneja...was irks me even more is the fact that he keeps saying that its all because prem is sautela...i mean come on...you tried that once and it blew up in your face...so you thought youd try to make prem look bad one more time...the dude never really has any evidence but doesnt lose one breath to put allegations on prem...even preet is entitled to make such observations but he has more faith in his brother...

hey you know in the real world step brothers and sisters would probably be accusing one another, this was probably the most realistic part of this show😆and seriously what is prem's problem, does he not realize that life sucks without money😕😉

and now...there is the whole thing about the fact that he is USING an innocent girl to make his life easier...her feelings, reputation and heart are all on the line...trust me...im not one to preach about being honest to your parents...with such strict parents as mine...lying comes with the territory...but never have i used people to get my way...i have never but their feelings on the line...that is just wrong...

hmmm interesting point here.. i'd have to say that when you finally want something sooo badly that perhaps just perhaps the green little monster in all of us, might turn its ugly little head your way and try to persuade you😛 for i cant speak for any of ya'll but in reality we all are faced with a chance to go and reach what we want and usually the stakes are high and yeah you might have to step on someone, or someone's feeling or whatever to claim it. and wheather or not you choose to grab that opportunity or not is the golden question..
he has no problem yelling from the roof tops that prem is a chor and is trying to deceive them by taking all their money...but he cant say something simple like i love a girl...come one...if lallu and the family can accept rishab as veera's boyfriend...why wont they accept that harman has a girlfriend...

yeah that is the a major hole in harman's love story.. ( not that i seriously care about this character..i just was looking for a good place to debate..thanks for the opportunity...someone should ask these writers that question..😕😆 thanks for the comments

JAZ

Originally posted by: fj08

You should start " Dont blame Harman" club,

you know what i'm lmao 🤣🤣🤣at this statement cause I cant remember the last time someone told me what to dooo..😆 and i thought i had mentioned earlier that i dont care if ya'll bash, trash and thrash him...🤔like you said everyone's just here to have some fun..😃