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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: BenPhillips

Happiness is a choice and we all deserve to be happy.

One of my close friends is having a difficult time in life and to make him feel better, he made a list of 10 things that make him happy. The list is used as a tool to pick himself up when he is down. So when he isn't feeling his best, he will just to something on the list and turn his mood around. I personally thought it was a great idea and made one for myself.

Due to me loving the idea, I wanted to share it with all of you too, and would love it if you shared your own lists. It is really effective and a great motivational tool for a simple pick-me-up'

Just give it a go guys -

So here are the things (in no particular order) that make me happy -

1. Belief in God.

2. A long heart-to-heart with family or close friends.

3. Making someone's day and having a sense of purpose in life.

4. Going through old photos and remembering all the great memories associated with them.

5. Watching JLZ, inspiring films; reading and writing posts on IF

6. Belting out my favourite songs at the top of my lungs (and probably off key)

7. Going to the old-age home and spending time there- they have all the answers to life.

8. Paying off all my bills and completing work before deadlines.

9. Realisation that I am never alone. I have extremely loving family and friends, who will always stick by me.

10. A good night's sleep


I love you guys❤️



Make that a ditto for me... i have the exact issues, except for two things - the belting out music loud. I like my music soft.. Also, i am not an "old photo" guy... i think one of my secrets to being young at heart is not to look behind.. live for the present and only for the present. In fact, i dislike photographs of the past..

Finally, i do not know what it is about paying off my bills and why it keeps me so happy! 😊 I cannot express this in words.. A very weird thing that i experience each month. I thought i was alone.. nice to hear that it am not! BTW, i long to pay off my bills by the 01st day of the month, come what may!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wow..great post Ben...!!!!
Friends & family with belief in God makes me happy
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wow what an idea sirji😆
But seriously one should hv this kind of list ready for tough times in life, when actually mind is shut and unable to think positively.
I like your bills part which I had never thot before but definitely gives me relief. This is something new revelation for me but very true. I clear all my bills as and when they come.
Talking endlessly to somebody who is ready to listen patiently, is something, I love to uplift myself.
Though I was never into writing but after this forum...coming and sharing my thots on this forum is a stress buster for me. These are just few.
I will definitely prepare a list for myself when I am in the mood to do so.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice Post Ben...
As u said, that was a great idea..👍🏼
Here are My list of things I do, when I feel low...
Few U already mentioned in ur list though..😛

* Praying to God..😳
* Talking to best friends or family..😊
* Watching previous favorite shows or movies 😳
* Playing games in mobile or tab.. 😉
* Browsing Internet, Reading different mythological stories..😉
* Going out for shopping..😳
* Re watching the old photos ..😳
* Recalling school or college days memories.. 😃
* Cooking is the last thing I try out to change my mood.
.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: BenPhillips

Happiness is a choice and we all deserve to be happy.

One of my close friends is having a difficult time in life and to make him feel better, he made a list of 10 things that make him happy. The list is used as a tool to pick himself up when he is down. So when he isn't feeling his best, he will just to something on the list and turn his mood around. I personally thought it was a great idea and made one for myself.

Due to me loving the idea, I wanted to share it with all of you too, and would love it if you shared your own lists. It is really effective and a great motivational tool for a simple pick-me-up'

Just give it a go guys -

So here are the things (in no particular order) that make me happy -

1. Belief in God.

2. A long heart-to-heart with family or close friends.

3. Making someone's day and having a sense of purpose in life.

4. Going through old photos and remembering all the great memories associated with them.

5. Watching JLZ, inspiring films; reading and writing posts on IF

6. Belting out my favourite songs at the top of my lungs (and probably off key)

7. Going to the old-age home and spending time there- they have all the answers to life.

8. Paying off all my bills and completing work before deadlines.

9. Realisation that I am never alone. I have extremely loving family and friends, who will always stick by me.

10. A good night's sleep


I love you guys❤️


wow ben...2,
for me my loved ones are supreme...so 1,2,4,9, 10
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely post Ben 😃 I am happy most of the time...When I feel low, first I pray still if I don't feel better I tell my hubby . He always has a solution to all my problems. If he is not available then next is my mom. Shopping also makes me feel better.
Cooking while I mood off always end in disaster.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: BenPhillips

Happiness is a choice and we all deserve to be happy.

One of my close friends is having a difficult time in life and to make him feel better, he made a list of 10 things that make him happy. The list is used as a tool to pick himself up when he is down. So when he isn't feeling his best, he will just to something on the list and turn his mood around. I personally thought it was a great idea and made one for myself.

Due to me loving the idea, I wanted to share it with all of you too, and would love it if you shared your own lists. It is really effective and a great motivational tool for a simple pick-me-up'

Just give it a go guys -

So here are the things (in no particular order) that make me happy -

1. Belief in God.

2. A long heart-to-heart with family or close friends.

3. Making someone's day and having a sense of purpose in life.

4. Going through old photos and remembering all the great memories associated with them.

5. Watching JLZ, inspiring films; reading and writing posts on IF

6. Belting out my favourite songs at the top of my lungs (and probably off key)

7. Going to the old-age home and spending time there- they have all the answers to life.

8. Paying off all my bills and completing work before deadlines.

9. Realisation that I am never alone. I have extremely loving family and friends, who will always stick by me.

10. A good night's sleep


I love you guys❤️

..lovely post ben...for me:
1) believe in god...inthe sense that whatever is happening...has some reason behind it...so dont worry if everything doesnt go go as per my wish
2) my big family: where there are more women ...so its a big...women grp...sharing all good-n- bad things...more laughing than crying and sensible suggestions and reality check
3) my music...which i want all the time...when i m at home...i want it when i wake up and sleep listening to it...(mostly melodious old hindi songs and ghazals)
4) Friends who give positive vibes and movies
5) my work: sincerity towards it...and it helping me in taking care of my basic needs and me able to fulfill some wishes of my family
lastly...when i see a smiling face of a small child and old person...because they are so pure...and tell..me this is what one actually need to live a meaningful life...har samay khush rahenge toh aap koi bhi life ki pareshaani ko ...tackle kar sakte hain...kunki...tension lekar...hum usko solve karne ki jagah aur bada dete hain...

jo upar likha hain...uske kaaran ...main hamesha khush rehti hoon...😃...I love my life... jaisi hain... aachi hian...aur aage bhi...I WILL LIKE IT

Edited by Raatri - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: moderator1961



Make that a ditto for me... i have the exact issues, except for two things - the belting out music loud. I like my music soft.. Also, i am not an "old photo" guy... i think one of my secrets to being young at heart is not to look behind.. live for the present and only for the present. In fact, i dislike photographs of the past..

Finally, i do not know what it is about paying off my bills and why it keeps me so happy! 😊 I cannot express this in words.. A very weird thing that i experience each month. I thought i was alone.. nice to hear that it am not! BTW, i long to pay off my bills by the 01st day of the month, come what may!


Namastey Prabhat Ji 😊 I also like my music soft, but there is something so liberating about screaming your favourite tunes without worrying about anything 😆 It must just be something that works for me haha. It is interesting you think that way, because for me old photos are so powerful. They bring back happy moments that can never be lived again. Photos allow me to never lose those moments, at least they are with me as memories. Memories are precious. Of course, you have to move forward in life but what happened in your past is what shaped your present right? There is no harm in looking back. In some cases, it keeps me grounded too. But everyone is different. 😊

The bills thing! I pay them off during the 1st week of the month as well but yeah! It is just such a big relief and you are definitely not alone in that feeling 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: zaara610

Wow..great post Ben...!!!!
Friends & family with belief in God makes me happy


Thank you Ritu😊 Yeah, the three marvels of a happy life: God, Family, Friends👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: priyankaThard

Wow what an idea sirji😆

But seriously one should hv this kind of list ready for tough times in life, when actually mind is shut and unable to think positively.
I like your bills part which I had never thot before but definitely gives me relief. This is something new revelation for me but very true. I clear all my bills as and when they come.
Talking endlessly to somebody who is ready to listen patiently, is something, I love to uplift myself.
Though I was never into writing but after this forum...coming and sharing my thots on this forum is a stress buster for me. These are just few.
I will definitely prepare a list for myself when I am in the mood to do so.


Haha, thank you Priyanka... yeah I agree, it is a great idea and yeah, as you say, it is a useful thing to do on a low day.
Yeah being bill-free is a huge relief! I pay it off asap too because I hate hate hate being in debt of any kind. Yeah, sometimes all you need is to talk it out with someone who is simply listening. IF is such a stress buster for me too😊 Yeah, do make a list, I am sure you will find it useful

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