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Posted: 11 years ago
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Episode 3-11-14

In-laws can be a tremendous source of support and closeness. They could also be a major problem in your marital relationship.


Saachi respect her in-laws even though she think all do not deserve it. She show respect for them anyway.

Dhruv feel some loyalty for his family. He does not let Saachi come in second.

Neena gives suggestions or advice, it is with loving intentions. She tend to feel that by doing she is making Saachi and Adu life comfortable. She communicates well that definitely help in eliminating future problems.

Saachi unite as a couple. The best way to protect your marriage from destructive in-laws is to unite as husband and wife. Talk to Dhruv frankly about the things that are bothering you. When you two avoid discussing the issue then it can snowball into a bigger marital problem that can strain your personal relationship permanently. Communicate with each other, make it a priority, reach loving compromises and present a united front to relatives.


Because she love Dhruv, there are bound to be some aspects of her in-laws that she can respect and admire as well. After all, they did raise her beloved, so how bad could they be? Sometimes, the new in-law, Saachi becomes the focus of existing tension within the family. This helps the family relieve its own fears -- by dumping them all on Saachi.

Saachi can use business skills to win in her relationship. Instead of focusing on working hard to make her marriage, she should ease up a little bit, and take this advice to heart. Managing her marriage like she would do a business would help her win in her relationship. It won't instantly make her marriage work, but it's a day-to-day journey.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yaar nice post and agree with your analysis..saachi hide the things in front of DV tht is the main issue nw..she always trys to avoid the things..bt she should check with the reality nw as being a couple they should be discuss matters happen with one in another absence it wil make a storng bonding between them and they can be solved things together..its high time as she siad with Dv on new year day she should strart share everthing to DV so tht they can avoid the misunderstandings between them..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well analyzed. Its absolutely important to discuss issues/problems/situations in a marriage.

I love the way neena has accepted saachi. her love for saachi shows in the way she deals with aadu.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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THIS IS CORRECT. RATHER KEEP ON WEEPING INSIDE THE ROOM OR HIDE THE THINGS FROM HUSBAND CAN WORSEN THE SITUATION AND IT WILL NOT GIVE DV COMFORT. HE WILL FEEL SAACHI DON'T HAVE FAITH OR CONFIDENCE ON HIM THAT HE WILL SUPPORT HER.
MAKERS AND CHANNEL HAS MADE IT TYPICAL COMPLICATED SERIAL STORY. WHEREAS IT SHOULD KEEP ON SETTING EXAMPLE HOW LOVELY COUPLE SARUV AREA ND TOGETHER THEY CAN SOLVE ANY PROBLEM. THEY SHOULD BE SHOWN AS IDEAL COUPLE TO THE WORLD, SO PEOPLE CAN LEARN FROM THEM.
RATHER IT IS GOING ON NEGATIVE TRACK
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Posted: 11 years ago
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..good post...being new to the family...she is taking her own time...she wants to handle it alone first...as she knows that if she spk to Dv he may backfire his family...but i guess...later on she will overcme the hatred...by fighting together as SaRuv
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RATHER THAN FACING ALONE AND CARRYING BURDEN WITHIN YOU ALWAYS CREATE GAPS AND WEAKEN THE RELATION. IF YOU SHARE THE PROBLEM WITH PARTNER, IT CAN BE ACHIEVING MULTIPLE TARGETS WITH ONE BOW. IT CREATED BETTER UNDERSTANDING WITH PARTNER WHICH HELPS IN STRENGTHENING THEIR RELATION, MORE INTERACTION, MORE TRUST, MORE COMFORT. YOU COME TO KNOW HOW MUCH YOUR PARTNER WILL SUPPORT YO. HE OR SHE ALSO FEELS GOOD THAT YOU TRUST HIM OR HER. YOU DON'T KEEP ON STRUGGLING OR KILLING YOURSELF FACING ISSUE ALONE. AND BEST PART IS YOU WILL GET SUPPORT AND MIGHT GET BETTER SOLUTION TO PROBLEM.
IN CURRENT TRACK, SAACHI IS DOING BIGGEST MISTAKE OF HER LIFE BY NOT TELLING DV EVERYTHING. MAKERS HAS SPOILED THE ORIGINAL TRACK AND SOUL IS SHATTERED. DEMOTIVATING NOT TO MARRY AND NOT TO TRUST YOUR PARTNER. WORST TRACK EVER FROM THE SERIAL WHICH HAD SO MUCH INSPIRATION AND POSITIVITY.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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All, Srivalli123 Plusq8 RachnaaP Raatri

Saachi gets caught up in routines. She is going through the motions, she will feel less satisfied and less content. And that will rub off on Dhruv, too. Marriage, after all, is a delicate balance between two people.


Rgds,

Kalpana

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