How this love has become one's strength and other's weakness

I was amazed today to see the stark contrast between 2 lovers - Saachi and DV. For Saachi, DV is his strength and she is trying her best to be strong becuase her DV always says that she is strong. She is trying hard to prove that her DV is right. She is getting strength from this love. She is in real sense using love as strength and not weakness. She is hurt, she is in pain, she is missing DV but still she is living. She is the person who keeps things inside and remains quiet.. She is badly hurt but her DV brings her back to the moment. Saachi dreams of him but in a positive way..remembers the best moments they spent together, feels him, feels his hugs, his caressing...

Although I am not liking this weak and retarded DV but still I think your answer lies in the fact that Saachi has nothing negative to think about DV and she has no bad memories...till the end she has seen DV as the pillar of strength.

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

Although I am not liking this weak and retarded DV but still I think your answer lies in the fact that Saachi has nothing negative to think about DV and she has no bad memories...till the end she has seen DV as the pillar of strength.

Whereas DV finds weakness in love coz its love only which has given him this pain...he has been left confused in the middle...and without telling him the real reason he has been left alone...he is carrying bitter memories of this relationship.

But I can still accept Saachi un passionate version of love but can't accept the self destructive and helpless mode of DV.

well said I agree ... Thank god she remembers those good times she spend with him ...

Vinee, it depends - if you want to carry good memories with you or bad memories, in what memories you find solace.

Nice post.on light note may be becos dv is vella n ve ample time to cry n drink 🤣 does eat n love no work lol.where as saachi has very less time to cry n eat. Does work lol.

Great observation Anju... especially the strength and weakness analogy!

Originally posted by: Eksie

Great observation Anju... especially the strength and weakness analogy!

To be honest... I'm kinda liking this role reversal sorta thing. Initially, we always thought DV is the anchor in this relationship.. the driving force, the strength. Well, he still is.. for Saachi. But for himself... like you pointed out, he's made his love his weakness.

I do want him to stand up and take control over his life... his thoughts .. and start thinking of the whys and hows to Saachi's decision. But on the other hand.. I also do understand his current state and don't quite blame him for his behaviour.

Yes.. he loves Saachi. He has invested too much of himself in this relationship, and he is now lost without Saachi. He's not getting a grip on his life, coz he had .. emotionally and mentally ... given it all to Saachi. She has full control over him.. or so he thinks ... and guess, according to him, she falling weak (as in turned in his love for money) has made him weak too.

Like today we saw Saachi draw her strength from DV's thoughts... am sure DV too will, sooner or later, come around to realizing he has been really immature in not thinking of his love as his strength. Maybe he needs to see how strong Saachi really has been ... and he'll draw the same from her.

@bold
👏 totally agree with u

Nice post.. very well said...
we want our happy go lucky, Flirty dv back

I loved the way Sanchi is dealing with situation.I think her loss of parents before in her life has also made her strong from inside.I'm not telling that the loss of 1st love is that easy to cope with...but she has no other option left apart from turning out to be strong.She knows very well ...if she breaks down...then whole family will be ruined.May be ,she has been able to handle her parents death ...just bcoz of this burden of her family.She breaks down with this parting ways...but still shares her problem( in her dream) with only one person...DV.Gets hold of her life, gathers strength only from her 'HERO'...DV.
As for DV he had got everything in his life when required and wanted.This is the 1st time he is going thru a major loss in his life ...that too a betrayal by a girl whom he loved so much...from whom he had experienced the true meaning of love.And so he is unable to handle it...and it is depicting the weaker side of DV.This thing we r not able to accept ,bcoz we have always seen him in as a driving force in this relationship,mending all the problems,and emotionally strong and reasoning everything out.And I'm not able to accept that thing only...where is that smart DV who can't take control of his own life...why can't he reason out that Sanchi can't betray him for money's sake...and her drinking endlessly is too much.U can only take control of your own life and direct to the right path...it's your inner strength that can abandon u ...or let u rise from a crisis.