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Posted: 11 years ago
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Episode 1-14-14

They say it is better to have loved and lost than never loved at all, but that doesn't mean the whole "losing" thing doesn't seriously suck. No matter if it was or simply a parting of ways, the end of a relationship can hurt like crazy. Luckily, your love woes don't have to ruin your life. By coping with your break-up in a healthy manner, you actually have the chance to come out of it like a Kanye song: harder, better, faster, stronger.


Dhruv feel abandoned, alone, and depressed. Alcohol causes more problems than it brings solutions. It's important to take the time to let him grieve, and to get it out of his body. The point is, he has to address and express what he's going through in order to cope with it in a healthy manner. His negative emotions will fester and manifest into bigger problems if he keep them inside him, so just get them out now. Yep. Go ahead, just get that out of the way as soon as possible. Cleansing your abode of your break-up will help you feel reinvigorated and ready for the new chapter in your life. He shouldn't spend too much time brooding by himself, he should have a moment for some quality "me time." It's likely that he didn't get enough time alone during his relationship. Alone time should be something he look forward to, not dread.

He partying non-stop is a very common way people "focus on themselves" after a break-up. That's not focusing on yourself, that's numbing yourself. He need to be careful of these sorts of traps. He should use this break-up as a chance to better himself, not to become the hot mess every night at bars and club. Focusing on himself and what makes him happy cultivates so much positive energy, and like attracts like. The more positive energy he create, the more he will receive, so always he should do whatever he can to be motivated to move ahead in his life.

Goel family is like an exclusive country club where membership makes impossible demands and the dues for an outsider are exorbitant." Family: The Ties that Bind ... And Gag!

Saachi has accept that she would not be able change her ex-boyfriend's family. It hurts her to think she has left Dhruv because of his family. She need to remember that Dhruv's family is loving him their way. Dhruv tried to love her his way --- and she tried to love him her way! Love is the bottom line, but it's gotten in the way of a romantic relationship.

If she ever tried to break a habit or change something about herself, she know how freakishly difficult it is. There are things about her that desperately need to change - She need to lighten up, be more accepting of herself, be less critical of her relationship, and say what she think more often instead of clamming up. She really really need to make these changes in her life, yet she keep reverting to her old ways. It's that hard for her to change herself...and it's a gazillion times harder for her to change her ex-boyfriend's family. Goels like things the way they are, there's no reason to change. Goel family may not be aware they've ruined their Son soul relationship with Saachi - or maybe they just don't care. Dhruv need to get an objective perspective on what's going on underneath all the drama.

Dhruv as a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts. What soberness conceals, drunkenness reveals. A drunk man never lies. The hardest thing for an actor to do is act drunk. But to play drunk already 3 times a week, Dhruv is doing it very technically. Only with a sharp mind he finesse as a drunken character and infuse it with the art of the actor.


Anvay did not have a solution and strategy on 25cr until his father said create a situation...for the deposit to occur... it was a lame statement and there was no excusing his behavior

I think...

25 crores might be used as a reference for loan applying

DV mom may not pursue bringing together Saachi and Dhruv.


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Edited by kalpana19 - 11 years ago

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