Un Wanted Love- experienced it ? - Page 4

Originally posted by: drveena

okay ab mera ...interpretation...😊

anu and me seem to share a similar thought process... yes and we could also include this under onesided love as mentioned by Eksie... what she said was a very dignified way..stepping aside...if this happens then ..great...

tina very cutely called Love child = unwanted love...😊

sudip - the term you mentioned - Obsession- a very dangerous form of one sided love. this as anu mentioned can make the situation for the one being loved very scary.

A lot of times when ABC loves XYZ very deeply and XYZ is not at all interested because his/her priorities at that point of time in life are very different from that of ABC'S. then this can lead to a very awkward situation for XYZ. MANY a times , people like ABC think that if they pursue XYZ , he/she may relent... ek filmy dialogue yaad aa gaya...- Agar Mera Pyaar Saccha Hai toh he/she will definitely end up loving me....and then as they show in the movies and to a certain extent in our very own JLZ, XYZ may end up falling in love with ABC. But ,many a times this does not happen in real life...

Even in JLZ, dv was very much in love with saachi ...for whom it was UNWANTED LOVE in the beginning and then we all know what happened...

Coming to JLZ, since this love was forced upon saachi , it was perhaps a little easy for her to get involved in her work...

Personally... many ladies may agree with me , especially the working ladies, a lot of people fall for us , some because they find us nice looking.. or it could some mannerism of ours that may make them to like us..or may be even our way of taking to them...or for some other reason only god knows...but the point here is that ..we are not in the least interested and they are and this is unwanted...

oho! long post... will add more later... lots to add..😊

veena di got it now 😊

@ black
i have experience it when i did job nt much deeply cz i m too much straight forward so koi risk nhi leta he😆

Originally posted by: drveena

@ sindhu...😊

... yes it's scary and not happening..🤢...yeh royal treatment hamesha hum ladkiyon ko hi kyu milta hai... me not understanding..😉

wahi tho... Kabhi ulta kyun nahi hoti🤣

Originally posted by: drveena

<font size="2" color="#003300">exactly my point shonali...👍🏼</font>

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<font size="2" color="#003300">.. aap kae saath aur mere saath risk lene ki himmat nahi hai.. but there could be people who are not able to protest boldly... could be their conservative upbringing ... ..you know what,i feel , in schools we should teach even these aspects in moral science class... how to respect and accept the other other person's opinion in a dignified way... the fact that the other person has a right to reject us no matter what reasons they have and yet continue to be normal without holding a grudge ... these things can definitely be taught .👍🏼. but who has the time...so ,i guess the onus lies on the parents to do this..👍🏼😕</font>

totaly agree with u veena di

@veenaji,

we are special in every aspect, but don't know why we are getting only royal treatment from everywhere.

Originally posted by: drveena

okay ab mera ...interpretation...😊

anu and me seem to share a similar thought process... yes and we could also include this under onesided love as mentioned by Eksie... what she said was a very dignified way..stepping aside...if this happens then ..great...

tina very cutely called Love child = unwanted love...😊

sudip - the term you mentioned - Obsession- a very dangerous form of one sided love. this as anu mentioned can make the situation for the one being loved very scary.

A lot of times when ABC loves XYZ very deeply and XYZ is not at all interested because his/her priorities at that point of time in life are very different from that of ABC'S. then this can lead to a very awkward situation for XYZ. MANY a times , people like ABC think that if they pursue XYZ , he/she may relent... ek filmy dialogue yaad aa gaya...- Agar Mera Pyaar Saccha Hai toh he/she will definitely end up loving me....and then as they show in the movies and to a certain extent in our very own JLZ, XYZ may end up falling in love with ABC. But ,many a times this does not happen in real life...

Even in JLZ, dv was very much in love with saachi ...for whom it was UNWANTED LOVE in the beginning and then we all know what happened...

Coming to JLZ, since this love was forced upon saachi , it was perhaps a little easy for her to get involved in her work...

Personally... many ladies may agree with me , especially the working ladies, a lot of people fall for us , some because they find us nice looking.. or it could some mannerism of ours that may make them to like us..or may be even our way of talking to them...or for some other reason only god knows...but the point here is that ..we are not in the least interested and they are and this is unwanted...

oho! long post... will add more later... lots to add..😊

okay :D .. i agree in case of Saachi it was really forced and she never felt love by herself :)

Originally posted by: _AngryBird_

Arey veena ji..
Aapne meri college ki yaadein taaja kar diya..😉
I have experienced it.. Un wanted love..🤣
There use be a guy who is after me from 10th standard.. I came to know only from college..
He use to keep all info about me..patha nai kaise..😕
Ab bhi kahi dikhta hai toh bahut wierd sa feel hoti hai mujhe..
Its scary sometimes...
And sanchi ki pyar ko kya naam doon..???😕

Di,mere piche class 7 se the ..aur woh bhi kitne sare 🤣 then mom complained the authority .. but nothing happened ..so i has to change my coaching 😆 aur mujhe sirf aise logon se dar hi lagta hai .. kaamine kahi ke 😳

that is forced and unwanted love Di 😉😆