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Posted: 11 years ago
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how dramatically this is happening na

here ...we have saanchiji..our modern age 34 yr old saanchiji who has so swiftly moved on frm a heartbreak..or i shud say a cliche.
She is engrossed in work n aaji n nani n prachi n work n farms n prachi n cooking n jams..


n then we have dhruv..the dhruv goel whose life has come to a hault..who is drinking to death for the one who betrays him.Dhruv is 24*7 in trauma..he is only hopping from room to pub to whisky to pub to rum..


n some ppl still supports saanchiji
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .shinchan.

how dramatically this is happening na

here ...we have saanchiji..our modern age 34 yr old saanchiji who has so swiftly moved on frm a heartbreak..or i shud say a cliche.
She is engrossed in work n aaji n nani n prachi n work n farms n prachi n cooking n jams..


n then we have dhruv..the dhruv goel whose life has come to a hault..who is drinking to death for the one who betrays him.Dhruv is 24*7 in trauma..he is only hopping from room to pub to whisky to pub to rum..


n some ppl still supports saanchiji


If they support her by giving logics I am eager to read...but if they are biased just because she is sacrificing woman then I don't want to read or comment on such posts.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

I am surprised how Saachi is still very normal whereas DV is almost half dead. Except missing DV which is quiet natural is she showing any signs of pagalpan?



I think basic personalities play a big part in this...DV is extrovert,the whole world knows when he is happy or sad...whereas Saachi is introvert...she keeps everything inside,even if she is dying inside...it is easier for people like DV to get over because they let it out...but hard for People like Saachi, who could develope heart condition for keeping things inside...That's why Dilz was concerned about her...i love the direction here...I know the scenes where they show her seeing DV means she is missing him...but there is more to it then that which Sangeeta excellent brought it out...you can see the pain in her eyes...more so in the bed scene ...you know she did not sleep all night...you can see the dead look in her eyes...kudos to Sangeeta ...so DV is all noise ( I am not criticizing him...he is justified) whereas Saachi is all silent ...which is very dangerous to mental health...which is why she is trying to become workaholic ...now more with Pradeep and Praachi asking for money and YG trying to ruin her so she cashes her check...my heart goes out to her...if this show is meant to be tragic ( which I hope not ) then they will show DV bouncing back , but Saachi losing her mind slowly like a slow poison,and one day completely losing it...even Adu said DV will walk away,but what will happen to you ? Who will you turn to or go to ?
I can identify with people like Saachi from my personal experience ...I lost my parents by the time I was 17...something died inside me,became unable to express my sorrow in front of people, started taking everything in...to this date I hate any focus on me...hate being vulnerable ,or people knowing I am vulnerable ...never show them my tears...they think I am very strong, uncaring and hard hearted...
So you will not see Saachi obviously breaking...but have to look for subtle signs of her slowly getting ruined , in the excellent direction of the show and Sangeeta's emotional eyes...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vinee_vinee



If they support her by giving logics I am eager to read...but if they are biased just because she is sacrificing woman then I don't want to read or comment on such posts.


exactly..being a sacrificial lamb is d most illogical trait..
bt i guess no valid logic with saanchi supporters.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jyoti410



I think basic personalities play a big part in this...DV is extrovert,the whole world knows when he is happy or sad...whereas Saachi is introvert...she keeps everything inside,even if she is dying inside...it is easier for people like DV to get over because they let it out...but hard for People like Saachi, who could develope heart condition for keeping things inside...That's why Dilz was concerned about her...i love the direction here...I know the scenes where they show her seeing DV means she is missing him...but there is more to it then that which Sangeeta excellent brought it out...you can see the pain in her eyes...more so in the bed scene ...you know she did not sleep all night...you can see the dead look in her eyes...kudos to Sangeeta ...so DV is all noise ( I am not criticizing him...he is justified) whereas Saachi is all silent ...which is very dangerous to mental health...which is why she is trying to become workaholic ...now more with Pradeep and Praachi asking for money and YG trying to ruin her so she cashes her check...my heart goes out to her...if this show is meant to be tragic ( which I hope not ) then they will show DV bouncing back , but Saachi losing her mind slowly like a slow poison,and one day completely losing it...even Adu said DV will walk away,but what will happen to you ? Who will you turn to or go to ?
I can identify with people like Saachi from my personal experience ...I lost my parents by the time I was 17...something died inside me,became unable to express my sorrow in front of people, started taking everything in...to this date I hate any focus on me...hate being vulnerable ,or people knowing I am vulnerable ...never show them my tears...they think I am very strong, uncaring and hard hearted...
So you will not see Saachi obviously breaking...but have to look for subtle signs of her slowly getting ruined , in the excellent direction of the show and Sangeeta's emotional eyes...


Good point. At one point in my life I was like Saachi but when I decided to feel emotions good or bad, then that is when people were able to see my happiness or sadness. It is very taxing on the body just keeping everything inside.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Raleighbcat


Good point. At one point in my life I was like Saachi but when I decided to feel emotions good or bad, then that is when people were able to see my happiness or sadness. It is very taxing on the body just keeping everything inside.

Thanks for seeing this...people in forum think Saachi is heartless
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think both Saanchi and DV are behaving as per their character straits.. Saanchi has all along from the time of her parents death have bottled up all her emotions within her... where as DV having had a carefree life has been vocal of whatever he feels..
Saanchi do not have the luxury to sit down and cry and drown herself in her sorrows .. so many people depend on her .. good or bad her family is her responsibility .. that does not mean she is heartless... it was very well shown how much all this is affecting her but then these days subtlety is not understood .. everything has to be in the face for people to notice it i guess...

any self-respecting girl would have done what she did after how DV's family treated her.. i am surprised that DV being so intelligent not only did not notice it but also very quickly accepted that Saanchi took money... instead of drinking he could have sat down and thought about the events and tried to probe things... he blindly believed what was said to him be it his parents or saanchi..

nothing being mahaan or sacrificing.. this is how she is .. if she was not then she would not have stayed unmarried for the sake of her family until now.. she would have had a normal life like any girl her age...

just bcus some people do not show their emotions does not mean they do not have any ...

my POV 😊

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jyoti410




I think basic personalities play a big part in this...DV is extrovert,the whole world knows when he is happy or sad...whereas Saachi is introvert...she keeps everything inside,even if she is dying inside...it is easier for people like DV to get over because they let it out...but hard for People like Saachi, who could develope heart condition for keeping things inside...That's why Dilz was concerned about her...i love the direction here...I know the scenes where they show her seeing DV means she is missing him...but there is more to it then that which Sangeeta excellent brought it out...you can see the pain in her eyes...more so in the bed scene ...you know she did not sleep all night...you can see the dead look in her eyes...kudos to Sangeeta ...so DV is all noise ( I am not criticizing him...he is justified) whereas Saachi is all silent ...which is very dangerous to mental health...which is why she is trying to become workaholic ...now more with Pradeep and Praachi asking for money and YG trying to ruin her so she cashes her check...my heart goes out to her...if this show is meant to be tragic ( which I hope not ) then they will show DV bouncing back , but Saachi losing her mind slowly like a slow poison,and one day completely losing it...even Adu said DV will walk away,but what will happen to you ? Who will you turn to or go to ?
I can identify with people like Saachi from my personal experience ...I lost my parents by the time I was 17...something died inside me,became unable to express my sorrow in front of people, started taking everything in...to this date I hate any focus on me...hate being vulnerable ,or people knowing I am vulnerable ...never show them my tears...they think I am very strong, uncaring and hard hearted...
So you will not see Saachi obviously breaking...but have to look for subtle signs of her slowly getting ruined , in the excellent direction of the show and Sangeeta's emotional eyes...



Agree.. U dont have to be dying visibly if u're hurt. Lots of ppl internalize their pain and let it eat away at them. DV even said in one of the initial episodes to Praachi how if he were to cry he wud do it in front of everyone and make a big deal of it. Saachi on the other hand has always kept her pain to herself.

Ppl say she's selfish.. Selfish ppl do things for their own gain, someone pls tell me what she's gained from all this? Just cos someone doesnt react the way u do doesnt make them wrong, or selfish, or heartless. :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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its not dat saachi is heartless.. over the years the lady has bcum strong with all the fatal circumstances she has faced in her life n from den on she has been the sole bread winner of the family.. she has been managing her family single handedly n thus remains strong towards any situation..

On the other hand DV has been a guy who hardly knows wat troubles are.. his life has been on bed of roses so dis situation is truly overboard for him handle

It was a choice between the family n love, y do u think she was wrong in choosing DV s family over love..Doesn family hav enuf value as much as luv.. saachi has been in love vth DV for about 3months i guess n he has been vth his family for 27 years..so wich relationship stands stronger..

N if she has backed out frm love, is only coz she truly values a MOTHER-SON relationship..

THEN IN WAT WAY IS SAACHI HEARTLESS N RUTHLESS GUYZZ
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Posted: 11 years ago
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For once I agree with Pradeep. He is so right about the 'nahi'

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