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Originally posted by: ShraddhaK1982

I have a single question to all rooting for Sanchi and justifying her absent reaction to the situation - What was the shit about her new year resolution- That she would share her thoughts, her dreams, her problems with him. Was she alone in this relationship? So who gave her the authority to take a decision as to how she would like to end it and keep the other party in complete darkness? There is no second opinion, at least to me, that the way DV is reacting is not advisable. But, from another angle, he is a person who has been literally betrayed by all - his family and his love! Even Sanchi didn't feel that he is a matured enough to understand the growing animosity and perhaps can do something to rectify it. To me, all this boils down to one thing - DV was right when he told Sanchi (after Adu's accident during paragliding) that she is a control freak and she feels that whatever she does is always for the good of the rest, but the rest do have their own brains!!

Originally posted by: .shinchan.

Tu kya expect karti h thn?

Originally posted by: Nan08

<div>selfishness means something that one does for ones own sake and not care if people around are hurt by it.. i do not see a "happy" saanch here.. do you?

none of DV's family was accepting her and his Mom told that bcus of her their family will break so which self-respecting girl will agree...and moreover his mom hinted her to not disclose their convo to DV.. so why will she go and tell DV ...

its not about being mahan or sacrificing.. its about taking the decision what one feels is right for everyone involved...

moreover the way DV is acting so dumb and going on drinking spree instead of trying to find out how Saanchi suddenly changed tells a lot about his maturity.. he is fine in panchgani patha nahi when he goes to mumbai and is among his people his brain seems to freeze...

anyways.. all i am saying is no need to paint either one of them right or wrong.. both are reacting as is their characteristics and the way both are handling their heartbreak is different.. just bcus one is vocal and another silent does not mean that the depth of their feelings are more or less😊

Originally posted by: koyelbasu

Saachi cannot act like DV. She cannot show her pain to Aaji - nani. Adu is still her responsibility as Adu is studying. She is the owner of a company. Her employees are also her responsibility. So, how can see break down like DV who is still live mostly on his father's earning. Yes, I know that he work in some big law firm. But, we know , at the age 27 how much a lawyer's salary can be in our country. He lifestyle does not match his income. He is still dependent on YG for his lavish lifestyle. He has the luxury of manaoing sorrow by drinking costly scotch (which is also bought by his super rich dad).

Originally posted by: kinnika

You pose a very interesting question. Tell me, do relationships end when both ppl in it reach a point where they sit down and have a conversation and decide mutually to break up? I'm sure there are some cold, matter-of-fact, relationships of convenience where ppl do that.. or when the ppl involved are both bored maybe.

But every relationship that involves emotions and passions of any magnitude that I'm familiar with, one of the ppl involved decide to break it off, and things almost never end amicably. I don't understand how she was supposed to involve DV in the decision to end the relationship. What cud she have said that made him understand and agree?

Originally posted by: ShraddhaK1982

Maybe I lacked clarity but I have never said anything about ending a relation. U are right that most relationships end leaving a very bitter taste in the mouth. But I wanted to know why she didn't discuss the issue with DV. There was no requirement for her to announce that his mom was anyway involved, but she could have explained the situation in a different way and they "both" should have tried a way out of this - but she chose to just stay out of it, which to me was the easiest of the options. Anyways, it's just a fiction stuff and it's a crime to expect anything close to reality or logical from it - Bass DV ko rote aur peetein huain dekhkar thodha senti ho gayee thi.!!! 😛

Originally posted by: ShraddhaK1982

Maybe I lacked clarity but I have never said anything about ending a relation. U are right that most relationships end leaving a very bitter taste in the mouth. But I wanted to know why she didn't discuss the issue with DV. There was no requirement for her to announce that his mom was anyway involved, but she could have explained the situation in a different way and they "both" should have tried a way out of this - but she chose to just stay out of it, which to me was the easiest of the options. Anyways, it's just a fiction stuff and it's a crime to expect anything close to reality or logical from it - Bass DV ko rote aur peetein huain dekhkar thodha senti ho gayee thi.!!! 😛

Originally posted by: ...Jes...

@Adu : even i agree at that point when u r saying she must nto ave said yes if she was not ready .. and thta's y i also i can't relate to Saachi these days .. she lost her charm with which she used to deal with world .. now she is more of a cry baby .. but that doesn't have anything with DV .. DV is weak and it is not Saachi's department to handle .. she can't make him strong either .. it is Dv's personality only .. don't blame Saachi for this .. i m not in favor of anyone .. i stand which i feel right .. AND when Saachi cries if Dv is not responsible for that .. then vice versa .. :)

Originally posted by: .shinchan.

but may b i m just thinking frm his side.LOVE u knw 😉

he is still nt thinking bad abt her...my man.