spouse or kids...whom to choose?

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drveena

@drveena

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Posted: 11 years ago

hi ... my dear ifs and buts...😊

watching dv's mom and her manipulations ...then again the hurt in her eyes on seeing her son so sad... i felt .. yeh post toh banta hai...

ok tell me... dv's mom did that for the sake of her husband and other family members... when ever such a situation arises what should a parent do... support the spouse or the kid( grown up)... .. in this case if she had supported dv.. her relations with her husband would have soured further... what do you all say...

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_AngryBird_

@_AngryBird_

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Posted: 11 years ago

A very difficult question Veena ji.. Both are equally important and one can not choose between spouse or children i guess.. Whom to choose is really a tough question according to me..😕 I have no answer actually..😒

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vinee_vinee

@vinee_vinee

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

I don't know it on personal experience but I think after a woman has kids then there is bigger attachment with them and husband takes a backseat. So I think a mother would always want to support the kids if they are right but due to society pressure she always chooses the husband,

As the same happened in movie K3G

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_AngryBird_

@_AngryBird_

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Posted: 11 years ago

Veena ji, U posted a tough question for us...I want to know, What is ur opinion on the same..??😉

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_AngryBird_

@_AngryBird_

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee
I don't know it on personal experience but I think after a woman has kids then there is bigger attachment with them and husband takes a backseat. So I think a mother would always want to support the kids if they are right but due to society pressure she always chooses the husband,
As the same happened in movie K3G

Agree with u vinee..👍🏼

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vinee_vinee

@vinee_vinee

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

Even I would want to know Veena Di what's your opinion.

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Anuppama

@ak75

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Posted: 11 years ago

Every mother's nightmare In Mrs. Goel's case she wanted peace in the house. Now after seeing DV's condition she is not sure if she did the right thing.

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Raatri

@Raatri

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

the question is difficult...but i guess i would support kids...bcoz they require it the most...they will need help and guide...so koi bhi parent unka saath us time dega toh it wud be the best...at that time it would be like spouse going against ...the other but in reality they are building the relationship as they are the thread for both...aur chahe kitna bhi parents baccho se gusaa ho alag hon...but always are well wisher...and will patch up with all the love and in any situations "(but it would happen if parents love their children- in real and not show off)

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_AngryBird_

@_AngryBird_

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ak75
Every mother's nightmare In Mrs. Goel's case she wanted peace in the house. Now after seeing DV's condition she is not sure if she did the right thing.

True that.. May be she thought Dv will go on in life.. She might not guessed Dv will be shattered to that extent..