'Yeh Ishq Nahin Aasaan...' - Loved the episode!

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Ben Phillips

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Fabulous post Eksie...you have opened my eyes. Your analysis on Saachi Ji is so rational and I believe you are correct. I agree that we also were apprehensive about DV a few days ago, and so it is understandable that Saachi reacted the way she did...absolutely.

I haven't seen the episode today, but I am going to be more tolerant now. Yes, while Saachi and DV's love story is the life of the show, unka 'Ishq Nahin hain aasaan' like you said and hence, turmoil like this, whilst it is not pleasant, must be expected.

Thank you for this post Eksie, you made me see the other side 😊

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Ekta

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: preity_d
I too loved the episode, every people's acting was well...

Yeah... they all performed brilliantly! Waiting for tomorrow's episode ...

One thing I noticed and also loved about the precap... Whilst the last time Saachi gave up on her love for DV, coz Aaji was against their alliance... Dils was angry about it and gave it back to Saachi fair & square! This time around... Dils is calm and seems like she feels sorry for Saachi losing out on the one person she loves.

Thanks for replying.. 😊

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preity_d

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

I would say another thing, when a woman gives up herself/surrenders means agrees to marry a guy, that means she trust him, she trust him that he will be the right person to hold her for the whole life... Here I am not denying that Saachi's fear and outburst is wrong, but whom she loves, she should listen his words too before giving back the ring to him...

Again I would say, we are not anyone who can say that human reaction is right and this is wrong because human don't react after thinking they react before much of the times and it varies from man to man and place to place I think

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preity_d

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Eksie

Yeah... they all performed brilliantly! Waiting for tomorrow's episode ...

One thing I noticed and also loved about the precap... Whilst the last time Saachi gave up on her love for DV, coz Aaji was against their alliance... Dils was angry about it and gave it back to Saachi fair & square! This time around... Dils is calm and seems like she feels sorry for Saachi losing out on the one person she loves.

Thanks for replying.. 😊

I think Dils got bored every time making each other(DV-Saachi) understand 😉😆

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Ekta

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee
Nice post Eksie...good to know somebody saw the other side of the coin.
No denying the fact that we all doubted DV but when he clarified we trusted him...but did Saachi give him any opportunity to explain...this is the concern.

Secondly Saachi would not have been bashed if this was the only occasion she behaved this way. She definately was justified today but what has resulted in this outpour is because these rantings have become her habit now and she is doing it every second week...so the bashing is just an extention of an already set frustration in everyone. You must have noticed this in real life too that the tags are difficult to erase. Everything they do goes through their tagged persona and this is what is playing against Saachi.

Also you would agree that even naani and aaji were there who are equally connected to the land and had trusted DV...but they reacted maturely. Even if Saachi instead of getting OTT had acted soberly and made DV feel guilty would have created a bigger impact. Her senseless rantings diluted the pain that could have been shown if she went in shock.

And to conclude the cvs are doing it on purpose that this trust issue is played too much now...if they had not shown DV's efforts to tell her before and how he gave the ring back and she promised her trust from Aatma...then this reaction was more appropriate...but in sync with yesterday's trust gyan it gap failed big time.

Honestly no one makes so much a mockery of a precious gift from their partner as Saachi has made out if that ring.

I am not judging Saachi only on today's episode,,...it's actually how her character in general has faltered big time.

Thanks for the reply, Vinee... 😊

@Bold - PRECISELY why I think Saachi's rant was justified!! Just a day prior... on the same day itself ... Saachi speaks about trusting him completely ... aatma se trust karna. When that trust is broken... so very soon ... the hurt is bound to be deeper.

For eg... Drop 2 crystal balls - 1 from the 1st floor and another from the 10th floor.. The broken glass pieces will reach farther out if dropped from the 10th floor.. agree? Same here ... if DV had managed to say the truth sooner, Saachi may have reacted differently. In DV's defence... he did say the truth almost as soon as he found out; not his fault that Saachi fell asleep. This is something she will realize.. hopefully in tomorrow's episode. In such cases, time plays a crucial factor. Like Saachi's dialogue in one of the jungle episodes - when DV says they will find Anki in 15 minutes and not to panic... Saachi replies back that he may be relaxed about the 15mins, but for a person in trouble, those 15 mins seems a lot!! And this is where I love how the show is scripted... everything is so well balanced out.

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Ekta

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: BenPhillips
Fabulous post Eksie...you have opened my eyes. Your analysis on Saachi Ji is so rational and I believe you are correct. I agree that we also were apprehensive about DV a few days ago, and so it is understandable that Saachi reacted the way she did...absolutely.
I haven't seen the episode today, but I am going to be more tolerant now. Yes, while Saachi and DV's love story is the life of the show, unka 'Ishq Nahin hain aasaan' like you said and hence, turmoil like this, whilst it is not pleasant, must be expected.

Thank you for this post Eksie, you made me see the other side 😊

Thanks Ben 😊

IMO... one must always try to see and understand both sides of the coin. I try and do so... and most of the times, I manage to do so successfully after learning things the hard way. I do think and believe Saachi will come around... sooner than later. In most other shows ... in such cases, the separationperiod is long. I believe the same won't be in case of DV-Saachi

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divine_16

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Eksie
Okay... guess I may be the only one against the tide, but yeah... I loved the episode!!

Saachi's outburst ... her reaction ... or maybe her over-reaction ... IMO, was justified. And DV knows that ... he knows, he feels guilty at some level, which is why he heard her out. His justification was to Nani-Aaji, and they showed him the right path.

At the onset... when the promos of the show started ... it was quite obvious this is NOT gonna be a EASY love story. They crossed the 'age factor' hurdle amidst the couple easily ... but doubled the hurdle factor with Saachi being the owner of the land which DV's dad/bro want to own. Oh well...

Coming back to the episode tonight... well, most of you here say Saachi should have trusted DV, heard him out... she does not deserve him .. and all that. Question - in the last few episodes, when Anway came face to face with DV and he found out he owns PE... how many of us trusted that DV didn't know this fact? Rather, most felt HOW could he not know his family in involved in PE. Most here thought DV failed as a lawyer... he's immature to have signed papers without reading ... etc.. etc. If we didn't trust DV not knowing about PE... how do we expect Saachi to believe he did not know?

Her outburst ... agreed she may have over-reacted and used some harsh words ... but think about it, she suddenly finds out a bitter truth ... her world is crumbling in front of her eyes ... and she should stay calm about it? I think I would have reacted the same way... may be not be so harsh ... but I think I would have burst out. I know I would.

I say this... coz I do relate to Saachi in a lot of ways. Lot of similarities here ... so I kinda put myself in her shoes and try and understand the situation from her perspective.

Anyways... loved how Aaji showed him the right path. Told him to do what he intended to do .. without any delay, coz the delay is what causes the damage. Loved the precap... Dils being Saachi's sounding board and making her realize she should have been with DV when he needed her the most. Again... here, I relate to Saachi ... coz I too need people to constantly tell me I should have done this and that... lol! Like Saachi... I too have a Dils in my life who constantly tells me I should have reacted in so n so way...

Saachi is someone who has only learnt to give love ... give her everything to her relationships... but she also carries the burden of fear along with all the love she gives. Fear of losing the people and things close to her heart... be it her family, her land.. and her love. This fear ... along with love ... makes you do weird things. Saachi constantly needs a reminder that she deserves to be loved ... marry the person she loves ... that the person she loves, loves her too ... that he will fight the world for her.

Guess tomorrow's episode ... Saachi will come around and realize she over-reacted. Dils, her sounding board, along with Nani & Aaji will make her see reason. Nothing wrong in that. Moreover, like the BTS had it ... Saachi does go to Mumbai after DV says to her that his father agreed. So there ... sab theek hai!

Oh well... enough of my rant. Bahut ho gaya... lol! Looking forward to the upcoming episodes.

Eksie...thanx for coming up with such a post.
I LOVED THE EPISODE.Sanchi and DV reacted as I have expected them to react to the situation.It was a heart wrenching episode.Sanchi seeing her world crumbling down...rather would I say her identity shattering down.The land which see saw as her identity...the land in which she kept her parents alive ...the land where she found all the solace...her childhood...suddenly when she hears that the same land is in the verge of being grabbed by her love...then how would she react?I found her reaction totally justified.We r getting angry with her bcoz we have seen how DV has fought with her bro to leave the land and his 'baichani' to convince his dad.But Sanchi doesn't know all this.She gets a sudden shock with this rude news and that was her immediate reaction.Even the grannys were at a rude shock.And I totally agree with DV when he said that at that time when she was so vulnerable and broken ,there was no need of explaining her about his innocence.Bcoz her mind is full of dis trust .
OH!! I felt so bad for DV ,when despite seeing that his relationship is breaking ...how he said "Sanchiji...aap royie maat".Bcoz...he knew that is how Sanchi will react.When such a bitter truth comes out ,this the way one reacts.
@ BOLD-Exactly..Many thought may be he would be a negative character.It's just after the episode,where DV was shown convincing his bro to leave the land...that we came.to know ,that he was not a negative one.

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Ekta

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: preity_d
I would say another thing, when a woman gives up herself/surrenders means agrees to marry a guy, that means she trust him, she trust him that he will be the right person to hold her for the whole life... Here I am not denying that Saachi's fear and outburst is wrong, but whom she loves, she should listen his words too before giving back the ring to him...

Again I would say, we are not anyone who can say that human reaction is right and this is wrong because human don't react after thinking they react before much of the times and it varies from man to man and place to place I think

Absolutely agree that Saachi should hear him out... atleast give him the chance to talk. She didn't, coz she is stubborn and already made up her mind that DV is completely wrong. Like she said to him... "my first impression of you being a liar, was indeed right". Saachi will realize she was somewhere wrong in not letting him speak in his defense.

@Bold - So true... bang on! Each person reacts to situations differently. And in most cases... people react without thinking.

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vinee_vinee

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Eksie

Thanks for the reply, Vinee... 😊

@Bold - PRECISELY why I think Saachi's rant was justified!! Just a day prior... on the same day itself ... Saachi speaks about trusting him completely ... aatma se trust karna. When that trust is broken... so very soon ... the hurt is bound to be deeper.

For eg... Drop 2 crystal balls - 1 from the 1st floor and another from the 10th floor.. The broken glass pieces will reach farther out if dropped from the 10th floor.. agree? Same here ... if DV had managed to say the truth sooner, Saachi may have reacted differently. In DV's defence... he did say the truth almost as soon as he found out; not his fault that Saachi fell asleep. This is something she will realize.. hopefully in tomorrow's episode. In such cases, time plays a crucial factor. Like Saachi's dialogue in one of the jungle episodes - when DV says they will find Anki in 15 minutes and not to panic... Saachi replies back that he may be relaxed about the 15mins, but for a person in trouble, those 15 mins seems a lot!! And this is where I love how the show is scripted... everything is so well balanced out.

Then my question is " how many times" I don't think what Dils sees, Saachi cannot see. I can agree that Dils is an outsider so the way she can see things Saachi cannot see...but she can atleast try to look deeper.

Saachi can never see what all DV has done for her and her family that she broke off when aaji was not agreeing to their relation. Then she insulted him when he tried to reason out with Aaji when she was being married off to a 50 year old guy...I don't think he was rude and he got the right to speak for her because Saachi had accepted his love. Then she flipped during Ankita issue and created whole drama when they were returning from Mumbai and also thereafter...and specially when she left provisioning Saachi and she again suspected DV . Then this is the third time today that she behaved this way. The problem is that Saachi has not even at a single instance stood by DV.

Where was the trust which she is cribbing for breaking...I would agree to your point Eksie if she trusted DV then this scene would have been something else.

Also to let you know that the prediction of DV being owner of PE was made long back and since then we all dreaded the impact of this revelation. We had expected it to be the way it was shown and even worse and even the worse made sence but why it didn't because when there is no trust where is the fear of breKing it. Saachi feels that she trusted DV but sorry it never came across to the audience.

Just my POV.