Do'Made for each other couples exist?' - Page 5

Originally posted by: AARMAY1

well written 👍🏼

Originally posted by: BenPhillips

As soon as I saw this question Veena Ji, my parents came to mind. I don't know if they ARE MADE for each other or they HAVE MADE themselves for each other because Mum and Dad come from different backgrounds. My mother hails from a very rich family, while my father comes from a working class family but they have both compromised things in order to be together and that is why I say they made themselves for each other. They have been married for 21 years now and their partnership remains stronger than ever.

I am thinking about what made for each other actually means and I think it means having a sound understanding of each other, but being able to express when you don't agree with them because at the end of the day, it is two different people, with different ideas. I do believe that Made for each other' exists- it is the way in which you understand one another, disagree and patch-up, realise there is no one else you would want to be with, respecting each other's family, fulfilling each other's wishes, accepting each other exactly how they are etc - this is made for each other. I think it is more a process in togetherness, not something you begin with.

In relation to Saachi and Dhruv, I do think they need to still discover one another; they are in the early stages of their relationship. Saachi doesn't know enough about DV yet, but yes, they can definitely be made for each other. I still remember when Saachi was talking to Dils about her fears in Monday's episode and she said that: DV usko chodkar chalaagaya tho Main tho mar hi jaaoongi.' - She can't live without him and in Tuesday's episode DV saying you are my life.' Both characters show indomitable love for one another and that is what will carry them through to achieve the title of made for each other.'

Originally posted by: aparna37

Ben, Really well said!

Originally posted by: Eksie

Lovely topic Veena... and some wonderful responses and comments 😊

Yes.. I do believe 'made for each other' couples exist. Simply coz I believe in goodness, sacrifice, commitment, understanding.. and above all, love & respect. These are the key ingredients in any relationship... and required most in a couple post marriage. And ofcourse ... its a two way process ... its give & take.

My parents are an example... both poles apart ... yet very understanding of each other's moods, needs and wants, and would give each other the space when they needed it. Ofcourse... communication is key in all relationships... At times my parents would falter, but come around eventually. And ofcourse.. it takes time. Irony is... my parents hardly had any courtship period ... it was a jhat mangni pat byaj thing 😆 So yeah.. their understanding of each other took its own course and time. Like Ben said... they 'make themselves' for each other 😳 (Good one, Ben! 👍🏼)

And yes.. I do know of another couple who are 'made for each other'. The quintessential love-birds... gone through their share of struggles... but love triumphed at the end 😳 They make me believe in Love... ❤️

Saachi n DV... well yeah, I do think they too are the 'made for each other' types. Mainly coz that's the purpose and concept of the show 😆 Jokes apart ... seeing how SaRuv relationship is developing and how far it has come ... I do really believe they are MFEO 😳