I am seeing my opinion very distinct from the rest of the forum - Page 3

Originally posted by: kunalthebest

Soo a lot of discussions going on.. I m soo glad that they gave us such a nyc episode after the mahacrappy mahamilan!!!
As yu said DV was not at his fault today. .. he was just behaving normally..
Mein saachi ki taraphdaari nahi kar rahi hoon lekin she was also behaving natural dats wat I felt after watching...
as many said this was saachis first experience. So she is feeling insecure and on the top of dat she is aware of dv s moms intensions...
soo she s seeing anki as a prospective bride not just as DV s frnd...
soo its so natural dat she gets irritated or jealous wd ankis reactions and her aproach to dv..
one thing she cud do was to avoid anki accompanying them...
dats were her character comes.. always helping odrs n needy ...
Dv was not aware of wat was going thru saachis mind..
poor boy.. he was trying hard to return her smile... but he failed..
nd I loved precap. Atlast saachi is sharing it wd dv...
wat they have to do nw is to solve the problem together by supporting each other...

Originally posted by: tinatartari

I ttly agree idu vinee..
its always 4m both sidesin a relationship nd he z gvng his best bt she isnt..
she has 2 adopt her lifestyle sooner or later so y she z so reluctant?
Saachi z havng inferiority complex cx she got smthng she never believed she deserved..so she needs time 2 comprehend or dv needs 2 instill sme mind in her..
its nt her fault also..she never did it before so I guess she ll improve wid time nd besides nothng z perfect

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

Cvs are raising such practical issues one by one which is highly commendable but why Saachi acts so immature...she is not in her teens ki har baat pe split the relationship...I never expected that Saachi would first of all be jealous but lol she is not just jealous she is acting so wierd. She should sit and talk out the issue in a proper way in order to find out a solution together. What will happen only blaming their age difference everytime...you are elder, take the lead...but I never see her doing that.

agree with u.saachi shld come up to solve this.bt i hv to keep in mind that its her very first relationship.so she needs to take some time out for the betterment.bt ur points r truly logical

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

How maturely you have understood this point and what age are you...I am just putting it that you are the youngest in the forum but understand these things so well then why Saachi is still stuck with age gap. She actually created a generation gap between the two...

i guess ankita did it better than saachi. calling her mam was a wierd feeling for saachi😲

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

Today I felt really bad seeing the show as did not find that Anky so bad also...I know my opinion is going very different than the rest of the forum members but somehow I am not able to find faults with DV so much.

First invite trouble and then blame your partner for it. Why did Saachi had to intervene between DV and Ankita when DV had alraedy asked her to take a cab and go. First she ruined the plans of DV herself and then became so jealous and made DV the culprit. because saanchi being a gud person did not want anki to unwillingly go alone at night

Secondly she doesn't like Ankita being so friendly with DV,...but was very comfortable with Vishwas's friendship him. Is she living in some grand moms age that these things are such a cultural shock for her. vishwas was hardly there at panchagani, besides at that time she was not in love wid dv, so he did not matter to her

Today whatever DV said was honest and straightforward. He maintained that Ankita is his chuddy buddy that's why she knows so much about him. They were discussing old incidents, how is Saachi suppose to know them and just because she doesn't know them, DV is again to be blamed.

DV so much wanted to spend time with her and tried to take all her tantrums like going against him and telling aaji they they have left etc...even sang for her...even the she was only feeling the cultural shock...so what should be done...,break the relationship...instead of finding a solution and discussing the problem in a mature way, Saachi was only mad at DV...

Truely it's only DV's fight as she would not even do anything to save their relationship.

And by this cultural difference what does Saachi means...she means that adopt my culture and leave your friends and if you can't then we cannot be together.

I somehow felt grrr...today and realised actually what such an age difference means...I am glad that they are tackling each of these peoblems one by one.

Today it seemed that both Saanchi and DV have generation gap..not just age gap...which DV still wants to bridge but seems this time also he will get no support from Saachi.

I am hoping that DV knowing his mothers desire of getting ankita and DV married will make DV tell his mom about Saachi...par pehle Saachi ji to sure ho jaye.😡

I am with u I think DV was not bad at all...What I feel is DV is totally into Sanchi and her world ..but Sanchi is not confident of her self and her feeling...IF he was comfortable with his childhood frnds and has specal frnds she will hv to feel secure.and deal with it...alll cannot be her way..Tomm wen she gets married to Dv there will be more situations and problemsshe will hv to deal with then what will she do...

Originally posted by: uppaas

I am with u I think DV was not bad at all...What I feel is DV is totally into Sanchi and her world ..but Sanchi is not confident of her self and her feeling...IF he was comfortable with his childhood frnds and has specal frnds she will hv to feel secure.and deal with it...alll cannot be her way..Tomm wen she gets married to Dv there will be more situations and problemsshe will hv to deal with then what will she do...

She has to trust and have faith in her man...

She has to get over the age factor and feel sure of her relationship and love to move forward ...with DV

If she lets like s of ankjie get to her she will lose Dv...

actually its not that saachi is blaming DV for anything and neither she has any prob by his intimacy with his friends...

by cultural difference she had meant the topic of their discussion...like beach parties, music, dance and also the way ankita was dressed up...saachi was beginning to feel that DV belongs to this world...

like maybe saachi wont enjoy beach parties...she will never wear revealing clothes...she will never be so chipkoo type...but DV is used to all these things...whether these things r gud or bad is not the issue here...

the issue is that DV's social circle...his way of enjoying time with friends...everything is different from saachi...today the way saachi reacted not because she feels that DV is interested in ankita but because she feels that she does not belong in DV's world...

she is not saying DV to leave his world...she is just expressing her concern that their worlds r different...she is showing the mirror to DV...if still he wants to continue the relation then he has to find way to connect the 2 different worlds...

i know the question will arise y shud only DV take the effort...but that is not the case...saachi is also taking effort...this is the first time in her life she has gone to an elite party with a boy away from panchgani...

also another thing we must see...DV is an extremely romantic guy and wenever he is with saachi he is always being intimate with her...by that i mean he is always touching her and hugging her...saachi feels uncomfo but still she lets DV do romance in his own way...i am not saying saachi does not enjoy...i am only saying like saachi said the other day that her idea of romance is different from DV...yet she lets DV be always romantic with her in his own way...

so DV shud also understand the insecurities of saachi...for example he is always saying that his parents wont be against saachi...how is he so sure...and if he is so sure then y did he not tell his mom about saachi...almost everyday he talks with her on phn...y didnt he introduce saachi as his gf to his mom and ankita...

so u see its noone's fault...not DV's not saachi's...its actually cultural difference and both hv to make the effort to bridge this difference...

Originally posted by: adoremevirgo

actually its not that saachi is blaming DV for anything and neither she has any prob by his intimacy with his friends...

by cultural difference she had meant the topic of their discussion...like beach parties, music, dance and also the way ankita was dressed up...saachi was beginning to feel that DV belongs to this world...

like maybe saachi wont enjoy beach parties...she will never wear revealing clothes...she will never be so chipkoo type...but DV is used to all these things...whether these things r gud or bad is not the issue here...

the issue is that DV's social circle...his way of enjoying time with friends...everything is different from saachi...today the way saachi reacted not because she feels that DV is interested in ankita but because she feels that she does not belong in DV's world...

she is not saying DV to leave his world...she is just expressing her concern that their worlds r different...she is showing the mirror to DV...if still he wants to continue the relation then he has to find way to connect the 2 different worlds...

i know the question will arise y shud only DV take the effort...but that is not the case...saachi is also taking effort...this is the first time in her life she has gone to an elite party with a boy away from panchgani...

also another thing we must see...DV is an extremely romantic guy and wenever he is with saachi he is always being intimate with her...by that i mean he is always touching her and hugging her...saachi feels uncomfo but still she lets DV do romance in his own way...i am not saying saachi does not enjoy...i am only saying like saachi said the other day that her idea of romance is different from DV...yet she lets DV be always romantic with her in his own way...

so DV shud also understand the insecurities of saachi...for example he is always saying that his parents wont be against saachi...how is he so sure...and if he is so sure then y did he not tell his mom about saachi...almost everyday he talks with her on phn...y didnt he introduce saachi as his gf to his mom and ankita...

so u see its noone's fault...not DV's not saachi's...its actually cultural difference and both hv to make the effort to bridge this difference...

@ Vinee- I know why U r so much pissed with Sanchi today...bcoz of her behavior with DV.But today I have not much of complain for her or I must say I'm not mad at her.I always have mentioned umpteenth time that Sanchi has to speak her heart out.She has to share her thoughts.Today I found that.I saw a lot of conversation coming from her side..they may sound rude.But they were purely her fear /insecurities about her and DV's future life.She was scared after seeing DV's world.She wasn't sure ,if she could match up to that world.That fear may have transmitted thru her behavior.The fear was that due to the differences of their social background she may lose DV.

And as per age issue...she is the older person and till now she is hearing all the stuff which depicted /was concerned with her age.Be it the lady calling her the mother of the child or Ankita calling her mam or DV's mom adressing her "aap".She can't take all these comments lightly...it makes her aware of her being older to DV.So she will feel bad about it and also react.

And I do think that she is not at all jealous of Ankita.If that would have been the case then she wouldn't have gone ahead in giving lift to her.She even didn't get angry when Ankita sat in the front seat..though DV reacted.And Sanchi was so sweet with her.

And DV...what can I say...he trying in every possible way to make his love smile.I 'm rather pissed with Ekta.Why did she show DV in such a poor light in the MM?

Sanchi needs time to settle down to DV's world.When DV came to Panchgani he also didn't like Sanchi's life style being...so boring and strict.But with time he adjusted and got used to it.Just like that Sanchi also needs time.As some one mentioned it was a cultural shock and a lot of things happened all of a sudden in front of her which she couldn't handle.I am sure she wouldn't have reacted like this ,if there wouldn't have been Akita with her chipkoo dance or DV's mom telling about the engagement thing.