I am seeing my opinion very distinct from the rest of the forum - Page 4

Originally posted by: divine_16

@ Vinee- I know why U r so much pissed with Sanchi today...bcoz of her behavior with DV.But today I have not much of complain for her or I must say I'm not mad at her.I always have mentioned umpteenth time that Sanchi has to speak her heart out.She has to share her thoughts.Today I found that.I saw a lot of conversation coming from her side..they may sound rude.But they were purely her fear /insecurities about her and DV's future life.She was scared after seeing DV's world.She wasn't sure ,if she could match up to that world.That fear may have transmitted thru her behavior.The fear was that due to the differences of their social background she may lose DV.

And as per age issue...she is the older person and till now she is hearing all the stuff which depicted /was concerned with her age.Be it the lady calling her the mother of the child or Ankita calling her mam or DV's mom adressing her "aap".She can't take all these comments lightly...it makes her aware of her being older to DV.So she will feel bad about it and also react.

And I do think that she is not at all jealous of Ankita.If that would have been the case then she wouldn't have gone ahead in giving lift to her.She even didn't get angry when Ankita sat in the front seat..though DV reacted.And Sanchi was so sweet with her.

And DV...what can I say...he trying in every possible way to make his love smile.I 'm rather pissed with Ekta.Why did she show DV in such a poor light in the MM?

Sanchi needs time to settle down to DV's world.When DV came to Panchgani he also didn't like Sanchi's life style being...so boring and strict.But with time he adjusted and got used to it.Just like that Sanchi also needs time.As some one mentioned it was a cultural shock and a lot of things happened all of a sudden in front of her which she couldn't handle.I am sure she wouldn't have reacted like this ,if there wouldn't have been Akita with her chipkoo dance or DV's mom telling about the engagement thing.

Originally posted by: Nupur9

I haven't seen today's episode but there is a definite hesitancy in Saachis' part in accepting her relationship with DV.

Even when Aaji & Nani were displeased with their relationship, she gave up TOO soon & TOO easy.

Not once did I feel that she was trying hard to convince them.

Next, the whole age gap thing will get blown out if she will keep feeling it.

When alone, she is fine.

When they step out together, she definitely shows being doubtful & wavering.

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

How well you clarified all my complains...I thank you for your revert. There could not be a better way to one by one strike off all these points with the axe of logic. I totally agreed with everything you wrote. This is the first reply today that I have nothing to counter.

I 100% agree...with all my heart.

OMG !!Vinee,I think u r giving me too much of credit.U know... how much I was pissed with Sanchi during previous episodes.But after today's episode I wanted to see the situation thru her eyes.And her conversation with DV helped me to do so...
And...above all what a comeback by the CV's.After some rushed episodes and horrible MM ...what a come back!!!👏Today...I got to see the level of patience of DV.I must say,he would be a very good hubby,handling all of Sanchi's tantrums😆

Nice post . Sachi is just upset after she got surprised frm dv's mom tat her sasuma thinking of anki n dv mrg as she went to meet her sasuma. Nothing serious sachi is not thinking straight n she want some space n wants to go home.nothing much in tat upset mood she is just randomly thinking her insecurities . it happens nothing much n understandable n every one ve their own way of thinking things n bounce back like tat sachi will make it n dv will make her.here comes dv role as true partner n companion for sachi.just for drama as sachi said in practical it's not easy their relationship n as dv also said it's not impossible also so hope SD both overcome this challenge together😳

I agree with you!! and to add on her troubles she even called ankita to panchgani!!


saanchi ne apne hi paon pe kulhadi maar li!!

@divine

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

Today I felt really bad seeing the show as did not find that Anky so bad also...I know my opinion is going very different than the rest of the forum members but somehow I am not able to find faults with DV so much.

First invite trouble and then blame your partner for it. Why did Saachi had to intervene between DV and Ankita when DV had alraedy asked her to take a cab and go. First she ruined the plans of DV herself and then became so jealous and made DV the culprit.

Secondly she doesn't like Ankita being so friendly with DV,...but was very comfortable with Vishwas's friendship with him. Is she living in some grand moms age that these things are such a cultural shock for her.

Today whatever DV said was honest and straightforward. He maintained that Ankita is his chuddy buddy that's why she knows so much about him. They were discussing old incidents, how is Saachi suppose to know them and just because she doesn't know them, DV is again to be blamed.

DV so much wanted to spend time with her and tried to take all her tantrums like going against him and telling aaji they they have left etc...even sang for her...even the she was only feeling the cultural shock...so what should be done...,break the relationship...instead of finding a solution and discussing the problem in a mature way, Saachi was only mad at DV...

Truely it's only DV's fight as she would not even do anything to save their relationship.

And by this cultural difference what does Saachi means...she means that adopt my culture and leave your friends and if you can't then we cannot be together.

I somehow felt grrr...today and realised actually what such an age difference means...I am glad that they are tackling each of these peoblems one by one.

Today it seemed that both Saanchi and DV have generation gap..not just age gap...which DV still wants to bridge but seems this time also he will get no support from Saachi.

I am hoping that DV knowing his mothers desire of getting ankita and DV married will make DV tell his mom about Saachi...par pehle Saachi ji to sure ho jaye.😡

Um.. I agree with most of your opinions, but one. About the highlighted part.. I think it was really wrong on DV's part to leave Saachi all by herself in a new place - especially, like you said, since he took so much trouble getting the permission to take her out. Once at the party, he was more keen on catching up with his friends - he must have missed them and may be anxious to know about their well being - alright - but then why tag the poor Saachi along, especially considering that she was not too keen about the party. Also, since his mother was around, wasnt it expected of him to introduce her to him.. considering her age and all, and the fact that they may have trouble trying to convince people around.. And why did he have to introduce Saachi to his friends as 'Saachi-ji'? No wonder they assumed her to be older and of a different generation. All that sadness could have been avoided, had DV taken a little effort to be with Saachi - his friends would have included her as one of them instead of treating her like an alien, she would have taken the hugs and kisses in stride, she wouldnt have had the time to wonder if there were cultural differences between them and most importantly, she wouldnt have overheard DV's mom!

Originally posted by: FunkyFuntoos

Um.. I agree with most of your opinions, but one. About the highlighted part.. I think it was really wrong on DV's part to leave Saachi all by herself in a new place - especially, like you said, since he took so much trouble getting the permission to take her out. Once at the party, he was more keen on catching up with his friends - he must have missed them and may be anxious to know about their well being - alright - but then why tag the poor Saachi along, especially considering that she was not too keen about the party. Also, since his mother was around, wasnt it expected of him to introduce her to him.. considering her age and all, and the fact that they may have trouble trying to convince people around.. And why did he have to introduce Saachi to his friends as 'Saachi-ji'? No wonder they assumed her to be older and of a different generation. All that sadness could have been avoided, had DV taken a little effort to be with Saachi - his friends would have included her as one of them instead of treating her like an alien, she would have taken the hugs and kisses in stride, she wouldnt have had the time to wonder if there were cultural differences between them and most importantly, she wouldnt have overheard DV's mom!

Originally posted by: PrInCeSs_dIVa

I agree with you!! and to add on her troubles she even called ankita to panchgani!!


saanchi ne apne hi paon pe kulhadi maar li!!