Dec. 6th: Things I liked - Page 8

A few more gifs on the few good moments of them together in the party...lol

the hand in hand walk



And DV being DV😆

Originally posted by: Nymeria

Hopefully, this cameo, like others before (Vishwas and Rishi), doesn't last longer.

By the way, how come DV's college mates are celebrating their 22nd birthday? Isn't he supposed to be 27? 😆

LOL don't question ages in an Ekta show of all things😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL don't question ages in an Ekta show of all things😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Ok looking at things from another angle...DV did get carried away and neglected Saachi at the party...but at the same time Saachi's emotionally weak core comes to the front in that final bit when Priya talks to her and asks her if she loves him...and Saachi replies ki jisne haath thaama tha ab woh hi nahin hai...

I wish Saachi was emotionally stronger...but at the same time I understand this is a basic part of her personality too...one blow...that too in a new relationship and she starts getting distraught...after all the DV has done for her, he deserves more faith from her too...something she should ideally have given him in that moment even if she felt bad regarding the neglect...when Priya asks her about trust, Saachi replies ki ab pyar aur trust ke beech mein her mind isn't working only...so clearly Saachi gives up very easily...will this happen every single time? We discussed this before also...Saachi deffo needs to fight for this relationship more...let's see how they tackle this issue of trust b/w them...frankly toh in Indian TV, this trust never lasts b/w couples...lol...overnight sabke totte udd jaate hain so called trust ke for the sake of twists.


Is Saachi right in being upset? Absolutely...but does that mean she should run away without facing the problem head on...no, that's not right either...so it remains to be seen how they tackle it.

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Originally posted by: AreYaar

A few more gifs on the few good moments of them together in the party...lol

the hand in hand walk



And DV being DV😆

Anu, I simply LOVE your style of gifs. The above ones and the two you posted before were such classic DV moments😆.
That pastel green saari with pink in contrast looked amazing and you are so right about SG carrying saaris so elegantly. She looks the best in saaris.

Originally posted by: phulwa

Saachi has always been emotionally vulnerabe from the inside, out side she projects herself as a very strong confident woman and that she is when it comes to her work, but when it comes to her loved ones she cannot apply her mind and think rationally. We have seen this n so many instances, even in Pradeeps case she does not want to end the relationship and always treats him as family inspite of the case. Along with being emotional, she is very insecure about loosing her loved ones, after loosing her parents.

DV is her first love and she feels insecure about him too, to add to her insecurity now she came face to face with DVs other side, which is totally different from what she experienced. In Panchgani, it was only them and the way DV made her feel was more than special and thats why it is so disheartening for her to see him lost in somene else when she is around. It would be interesting to see how DV makes her feel comfortable in his world and handle her insecurities.

Yes, Saachi is very emotionally vulnerable for a woman who is so strong otherwise...but ultimately this relationship cannot only be about DV soothing her insecurities...at some point she will have to show some character growth and develop some emotional strength hopefully.

Speaking of DV's world...I guess all that footage with him saying "main aapko apni duniya dikhaaunga" is all to waste now cuz of this mahamilan😕

Hooray for the MahaMilan wreaking havoc in our lives...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Ok looking at things from another angle...DV did get carried away and neglected Saachi at the party...but at the same time Saachi's emotionally weak core comes to the front in that final bit when Priya talks to her and asks her if she loves him...and Saachi replies ki jisne haath thaama tha ab woh hi nahin hai...

I wish Saachi was emotionally stronger...but at the same time I understand this is a basic part of her personality too...one blow...that too in a new relationship and she starts getting distraught...after all the DV has done for her, he deserves more faith from her too...something she should ideally have given him in that moment even if she felt bad regarding the neglect...when Priya asks her about trust, Saachi replies ki ab pyar aur trust ke beech mein her mind isn't working only...so clearly Saachi gives up very easily...will this happen every single time? We discussed this before also...Saachi deffo needs to fight for this relationship more...let's see how they tackle this issue of trust b/w them...frankly toh in Indian TV, this trust never lasts b/w couples...lol...overnight sabke totte udd jaate hain so called trust ke for the sake of twists.


Is Saachi right in being upset? Absolutely...but does that mean she should run away without facing the problem head on...no, that's not right either...so it remains to be seen how they tackle it.

as far as trust goes surely DV deserves more...but i guess today saachi has come to a new place among new ppl...not only that she is in a new class of ppl too...and before coming she had already shared her apprehensions with DV and took promise from him that he will be with her always...but the reality stands out that she is standing alone most of the time...and i know how awkward it feels to be all saj daj ke akele khade rehena...noone to talk to...

just once in a while he is popping up and then again disappearing with friends...and that was quite a lame excuse that he met with friends after a long time...then y did he bring saachi at all...he cud take her along wherever he was going...after all its a family party not a bachelor party...

secondly wen his mom was talking about DV ankita engagement that must be a blow for her because DV already told aji nani that he has gvn hints to his mom...but now it seems his mom is totally unaware that DV is in love with someone...it makes saachi feel that DV told nothing to his mom but only to assure aji nani he mite hv lied at that time...

thirdly i think saachi's trust is very fickle because she is in love at late age with a guy younger than her...and they hv just gone thru a lot of struggle to get aji's approval...wen elder ppl in family say so much negative things about a relationship those things do tend to affect especially in case of saachi who herself took a long time to trust that this relation will work which is the reason y she took so long to confess...

i really dont blame saachi for her nervousness and lack of full trust...DV has to work hard on this...as far as my experience goes from seeing couples like this...it is more the younger partner's responsibility to walk that extra step to match the sensibilities of the senior partner to gain his/her trust...it is DV who has to constantly assure her that their relationship is secure...because it is he who will be surrounded by young pretty girls and saachi will feel left out...it will be also normal for her to feel that among all young girls DV may feel awkward with her...so it is DV who has to convince her that he is totally comfortable sharing a relationship with her...

and today the way DV neglected her all over...did close dance with another girl widout once gving her a glance...it was very difficult for saachi to keep full trust on him...

lets see...i am hoping to see DV going that extra step to earn her trust...i agree he has done a lot for her...but that was in panchgani where he had no other distractions...he has to prove to her that he is the same person even in mumbai or elsewhere...