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@nancy- yup...parents dont behave like dat...they listen aleast once
cnt dey see saanchi happiness wid DV..Absurd 🤢

Originally posted by: .shinchan.

@nancy- yup...parents dont behave like dat...they listen aleast once
cnt dey see saanchi happiness wid DV..Absurd 🤢

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

We all are angry with Saachi as we know howmuch DV loves her and how we just can't bear to see someone so insensitive towards the one who loves her so much. I don't want to justify Saachi's decision as I am very much against it and have bashed her a lot in my previous posts but I am still very hopeful about the track for the following reasons

• This sacrifice which Saachi has done for her family ( here it means only naani aaji) will give them the guilt later which will work more than convincing them by words.
• Prachi is already after money and hardly cares if Saachi married DV or someone else and aadu is already on her side as the spoilers suggest.
• Aadu is currently although behaving like a grandpa but in his age he can hardly be expected to be understanding for such a grave situation as it is. Even he mentioned it to DV that if their relation was so normal then aaji naani would have accepted him, so basically his behaviour is influenced by his grannys. It's common for person like aadu who is the youngest child to only follow his elders...but soon he is going to get brains.
• The incident which Ulka narrated to naani and aaji about the physical intimacy of SaRuv made them all the more angry and label it as sin. For everyone, the circumstances and picture created by Ulka is so strong that currently they are not in a state of mind to think beyond. Ulka through her rantings has taken everyone's senses. If this was done personally by SaRuv without Ulka's interference grannys reactions would have been different.
• I also don't think that grannys character has changes since the show started. Aaji was always shown to be society concerned and she always easily got scared when Ulka warned her of Saachi's growing age or how society would react when SaRuv had gone to Pune or how Pradeep swayed her and scared her of Saachi's marriage and she gave to the extent of stopping Saachi from fighting the court case. She is a old lady living without the support of a strong and protective male member so she has always been very scared of the society and has no courge ho fight them and suddenly when she learns what as per society is crime, she is bound to loose mental balance.
• Naani on the other hand has been shown more open minded and brave and seeing the spoilers also we will se her softening soon...very apt and very in her character.
• If you have checked the video where DV meets naani and aaji for the last time and is going...he says to aaji that he is going for ever from here but how will she take him out of Saachi's memories. He knows what...very soon they will also know. This hinted clearly that Saachi is going to be miserable after DV will leave. Naani aaji don't know yet the depth of Saachi's love and have only seen Ulka painted picture so Saachi taking DV out of her life is currently a sensible thing for them but when they will see the consequence on Saachi will they realise what have they done. This hinted big time that this seperation is created to make Saachi show pyaar ki had. Ruslaan clearly said in his interview that DV has done a lot for her and if still she is not willing nothing more can be done so he has to leave but now its Saachi's turn to show her love...he ws clear that now we will see Saachi's pagalpan.

So I am waiting for the coming track...it's not a seperation forever but its necessary to make Saachi realise her love. She has always seen DV around so she thinks its easy for her to leave him for family...as she has done with everything she has ever liked so its in her nature...but this seperation will show her that love is not just anything. She still has not seen how love drives a person and will soon see it.

very well summed up 👏 u hv surely shown the positive side of current events...although i still hv misgivings about the way they r portraying especially aji's anger...but i guess u r rite...saachi's sacrifice will ultimately make aji nani see that saachi at her age cannot fall in love again with another person after loving DV...so saachi can be happy only wid DV...
as for saachi's realisation of love...i absolutely agree with u...DV needs to go away from her to make her realise his worth in her life...so far family has been everything for her and any other thing can be sacrificed for family as per saachi...but wen DV will go away and she will realise the extent to which she is missing him will make her realise that DV's love is not something that can be sacrificed and forgotten so easily...

yes i hv seen that scene where DV will come to meet aji nani for the last time...i liked that line where he asked aji whether he can leave from saachi's memories...
wen aji will see saachi in pain only then she will realize her folly...

i only hope these negative things wont be dragged for long and saachi DV will get united soon...

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

We all are angry with Saachi as we know howmuch DV loves her and how we just can't bear to see someone so insensitive towards the one who loves her so much. I don't want to justify Saachi's decision as I am very much against it and have bashed her a lot in my previous posts but I am still very hopeful about the track for the following reasons

This sacrifice which Saachi has done for her family ( here it means only naani aaji) will give them the guilt later which will work more than convincing them by words. Prachi is already after money and hardly cares if Saachi married DV or someone else and aadu is already on her side as the spoilers suggest. Aadu is currently although behaving like a grandpa but in his age he can hardly be expected to be understanding for such a grave situation as it is. Even he mentioned it to DV that if their relation was so normal then aaji naani would have accepted him, so basically his behaviour is influenced by his grannys. It's common for person like aadu who is the youngest child to only follow his elders...but soon he is going to get brains. The incident which Ulka narrated to naani and aaji about the physical intimacy of SaRuv made them all the more angry and label it as sin. For everyone, the circumstances and picture created by Ulka is so strong that currently they are not in a state of mind to think beyond. Ulka through her rantings has taken everyone's senses. If this was done personally by SaRuv without Ulka's interference grannys reactions would have been different. I also don't think that grannys character has changes since the show started. Aaji was always shown to be society concerned and she always easily got scared when Ulka warned her of Saachi's growing age or how society would react when SaRuv had gone to Pune or how Pradeep swayed her and scared her of Saachi's marriage and she gave to the extent of stopping Saachi from fighting the court case. She is a old lady living without the support of a strong and protective male member so she has always been very scared of the society and has no courge ho fight them and suddenly when she learns what as per society is crime, she is bound to loose mental balance. Naani on the other hand has been shown more open minded and brave and seeing the spoilers also we will se her softening soon...very apt and very in her character.
• If you have checked the video where DV meets naani and aaji for the last time and is going...he says to aaji that he is going for ever from here but how will she take him out of Saachi's memories. He knows what...very soon they will also know. This hinted clearly that Saachi is going to be miserable after DV will leave. Naani aaji don't know yet the depth of Saachi's love and have only seen Ulka painted picture so Saachi taking DV out of her life is currently a sensible thing for them but when they will see the consequence on Saachi will they realise what have they done. This hinted big time that this seperation is created to make Saachi show pyaar ki had. Ruslaan clearly said in his interview that DV has done a lot for her and if still she is not willing nothing more can be done so he has to leave but now its Saachi's turn to show her love...he ws clear that now we will see Saachi's pagalpan.

So I am waiting for the coming track...it's not a seperation forever but its necessary to make Saachi realise her love. She has always seen DV around so she thinks its easy for her to leave him for family...as she has done with everything she has ever liked so its in her nature...but this seperation will show her that love is not just anything. She still has not seen how love drives a person and will soon see it.

Definitely they need to show Saachi's love for him, Like DV mentioned before one of them cannot fight this, they need to do it together .. Actually I am enjoying the rona dhona /pain etc it is part of life, It makes you appreciate and value things more.. I know Saachi will come thru .. all the tracks have been handled so beautifully my CV's I am sure their getting back together will also be very spectacular and we will be filling forum pages once again .. happily

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

They will understand...first let them see it in clear light , away from Ulka's painted picture...even parents take time to understand.

ulka tracks dem all d tym..no chance

I agree.. i mean, come on they should at least be a little more reasonable before insulting their own left and right. Someone who basically takes care of them all - the way they are insulting is so ANNOYING.. it's grating on my nerves.

Then there is Adu. I honestly thought he would be on Saruv's side. But the way he behaved was awful to someone who's so loving towards him.

But the thing is I hate how they think it's a sin or something like how could she sink so low!!! Wth! I expected their stance to be more rooted in the fact that there would be problem, society would look down on you and overall it might not be an everlasting marriage because love isn't anything, especially with a younger guy... you know, REAL stuff that creates conflict

In my opinion, the track that CVs are showing is a very realistic one. We all knew age is going to be big deal and that is what they are tackling with this track. The CVs have been very true to the show and the tracks they have shown so far. It is a very well written and directed show so far. By this track, CVs are dealing with a huge issue - age - and I must say they are showing it in a very realistic way. Ulka kaku is the representative of our Indian society. Agree or not agree - upto you - still our society is very narrow minded when it comes to females and their rights and happiness. It will take some more time and most of India is still reeling under the old age customs and traditions. Love marriage used to be big deal about 15 years ago and that too in a different caste but now it is becoming common. So if Saanchi was in love with a boy of her age or older, it would have been fine by the society and her family. The point here is love with a younger boy and that too 7 years young. That is a big deal. Like Dils said, give them time. Give them time to digest this shock.

Originally posted by: anjubala

In my opinion, the track that CVs are showing is a very realistic one. We all knew age is going to be big deal and that is what they are tackling with this track. The CVs have been very true to the show and the tracks they have shown so far. It is a very well written and directed show so far. By this track, CVs are dealing with a huge issue - age - and I must say they are showing it in a very realistic way. Ulka kaku is the representative of our Indian society. Agree or not agree - upto you - still our society is very narrow minded when it comes to females and their rights and happiness. It will take some more time and most of India is still reeling under the old age customs and traditions. Love marriage used to be big deal about 15 years ago and that too in a different caste but now it is becoming common. So if Saanchi was in love with a boy of her age or older, it would have been fine by the society and her family. The point here is love with a younger boy and that too 7 years young. That is a big deal. Like Dils said, give them time. Give them time to digest this shock.

CVs have shown Panchgani as the backdrop, it is not a big city and hence this issue is bound to happen. It is a big deal for a place and neighborhood like this, even if we agree or not. Our elders will not like this. We people here in this forum are young folks hence for us it is not big deal if boy is younger but think from our elders perspective. They have been born and brought up in a very traditional society. How can they change their thinking in a day?

The whole problem has occurred due to the way their love was exposed. If Saanchi had told them the day after she accepted DV when she tried during breakfast, reaction from the family would have been very different. Nani-Aaji would have not been the way they are behaving now. It is said that expectations are the root cause of all disappointments in life. They never expected such a thing from Saanchi hence this extreme reaction. Ulka had painted a bad picture and has named their love as lust which is not acceptable to anybody - I am sure it will not be acceptable to you either no matter you are born in 21st century. It is very easy to pass judgement when you are not in that situation.

As far as Aadu is concerned, so what he belongs to this generation. His upbringing has still been in Prabhu family. So what he is educated or going to college, he still spends more time with his family and is influenced by theem - no harm in that. His reaction was also from the fact that he saw her elders getting hurt. His point that if nani-aaji considered DV right choice was a very valid one. He would have been fine if they were fine. Atleast he is that open minded. Education or being born in this generation does not tell you to forget your family, your culture or traditions. Aadu will the the first one to support them because he really loves his tai.

I will not talk about Prachi at all as she is not a sister. I do not consider her as Saanchi's sister.

As Dils said - give them time. They will come around and accept this relationship. Saanchi's reaction and sacrifice has been true to her character. After her parents she has lived for her family. She has buried her desires, happiness somwhere and it is onyl recently that DV has opened up those desires. So her reaction and sacrifice is very real. I think if I was in her place my reaction would have been the same. My family with whom I have lived my life, who are dependent on me, I can do anything for them. I can sacrifice my happiness which means I can sacrifice my lover or his happiness too as he and me are one now. And that is what Saanchi has done. If you love me, I love you and we both will have to give away our love for the family. She will surely build up the courage to face the world. She loves DV and nobody else and she will also realize this very soon. She has already realized but she is majboor right now. She will show her pagalpan and love very soon. That is bound to happen - she will Jee Le Zara and that too very soon.

i agree age is still an issue in our society especially in small town like panchgani...

as for the track regarding aji nani going against saruv...that is not my issue of concern...i am repeatedly saying that i am bothered with the way they r portraying...i am absolutely not against this track because this was bound to happen...of course the grandmas wont be accepting DV in saachi's life so easily...even for saachi it took long for her to accept DV's love...

in my family i hv seen wen parents not accepting their children's love with particular persons...they did not stop talking with them like aji is doing with saachi...this is not the way...how will saachi know exactly wat is going on in aji's mind...and aji shud also talk with saachi to understand exactly how she feels for DV instead of blindly accepting ulka's version that wat exists between DV and saachi is nothing but lust...
at least aji shud trust saachi this much that she wont betray her trust by doing the dirty things that ulka is insinuating...

u hv just justified in ur post that family's reaction is rite...even i totally agree to that...it is not easy to accept a younger guy...honestly speaking consciously i will not opt for a younger guy in my life unless and until i fall in love with someone younger which can happen widout my effort...
so if aji nani refuse to accept DV that is not wrong from their side...but communication is a must...not talking and refusing to listen to wat saachi has to say is something i can never relate to...

as for adu...no i cant relate to his train of thots...so wat if younger generation is brought up by parents or grandparents...it happens for everyone...it is always older generations that brings up the younger generation...still we take in contemporary values...like we say that during crisis if nothing else then at least friends and siblings will understand...because parents or grandparents belong to old school so lack of understanding is inevitable...but friends and siblings r our peers...if they dont understand then who will...

also schools, colleges, friends also hv strong impact on our views...even though we spend long hours with the elders in our family...our views remain of our age...which is the reason y there is the concept of generation gap...if adu has only absorbed aji nani's values and none from his own generation...then how come he feels comfortable with his peers...if ppl like adu becomes common in every household then there will be no generation clash...and there will be no progressive views...

I don't think there is anything wrong with the current track. It is a realistic one. India, perhaps, is a modern country based on the way media portrays it but it still is a country bounded by many traditions such as the following:

a) It is applicable till this day that a widow stays vegetarian after her spouse passes away (very common in bangali culture).

b) A brahmin family getting married to a very lower caste family is still criticized.

c) A hindu marrying a muslim is another debating issue in India (and in other countries too).


The definition of modernization still remains debatable to me. As someone already mentioned, love marriage was not perceived as a 'good thing' twenty years ago. The girl was considered "too fast" for our society if she were to marry a guy of her liking. Now, referencing back to Jee le zara track, I don't think my parents would have been okay with me dating a boy seven years younger. It would actually be abnormal if Aaji/Nani accepted their relationship that hastily. Our society comprises millions of educated individuals and out of which, only thousands have modern outlooks.

^ Agree with Anju & @bird_fly_ca .. !