DV to Force himself ON saachi SORRY ITS WRONG !!!!! - Page 5

Till date, I haven't found anything wrong.

However, I want to see how Saachi handles today's situation. Saachi needs to yell at him in a mature way, because karva chauth is something meaningful to any woman and not just a play. If Saachi didn't want DV to break her vrat, he shouldn't have, and that is where you draw the line between respect and disrespect. I know I shouldn't draw any conclusion, since the episode hasn't been aired yet. But let's see.

As for Saachi, she gotta stop treating this situation like a play...spilling tea on his t-shirt on purpose...allowing him to touch her hand/arm whenever DV pleases. She needs to fully say it out loud, "don't ever touch me" instead of saying, "just leave me..". She is portraying she is irritated and yet, she doesn't take any actions about it. What DV is doing isn't right either...But, if it is SO wrong, why isn't Saachi doing anything about it?

I am beginning to think Saachi is a PBCD (Panchghani Born Confused Desi).

Originally posted by: soapbubble

I agree with you in general but not in this particular case.

See, the core point is that Saachi is older than DV. So the common understanding is that she should be desperate to find a good guy, and when that guy happens to be younger, good looking, wealthy - in fact, a great package like DV - the world will have a million things to say. That she took advantage of him, that she pataoed him etc.

The point that DV needs to make to Saachi is: I am not doing you a favour by being willing to marry you. I'm crazy about you, I will chase you, I'll leave you no choice but to marry me.

He has to overcome her traditional values, her natural 'jhijhak', her shyness, her scruples, her embarassment at being attracted to a younger guy, her feeling of discomfort.. her own ideas of who should marry whom.

He's not really forcing her - he's actually only teasing her as of now - but a woman in Saanchi's position needs to be put in a difficult, no-escape place before she admits her love. If he waits for her patiently... she is NEVER going to come to him.

Bubble

Originally posted by: mallikaBalu

Hey Ron, good topic you have started.

I feel the same. DV need not force himself on Sachi to make her fall in love with him. Here are the reasons why I feel so.

DV is shown as a lawyer aged 27, US returned after a stint of working there. Added to this, he tells Aadu that he used to play football in college (while in US too) that is where he got his Arsenal jacket. Now as real life goes, not every Tom, Dick and Harry can pass the required entrance exams and get into a college in legal studies in the US. Then intern there for a while and work there later I mean after interning. He comes back to India and comes to Panchgani in his car. (By the way where is the beautiful blue car shown when DV enters ?) He tells later in the serial that he comes from a well educated, well placed, respectable Marwadi family whose children regardless of their gender have well placed careers and life.

Now will such a man (27 is an age to be called man and not a boy by any standard) be as immature as he is being portrayed? Second, coming from a rich family and a background in law, he would have seen and known the vagaries of human emotions. So he would know how to control his emotions too. Third, won't such a man know that to make a woman like Saachi get interested in him he has to do exactly the opposite of what he is doing now?

Now older woman -younger man getting married and having a successful married life is not uncommon in business, political and aristocratic circles. Many are the times if we take Indian history from ancient times to modern days, it is done with the open blessings of parents and the two who are married that way have to deal with their emotions in a dignified way.

Instead of making DV do immature acts, if the CVs can concentrate on the court case and its details, and put this reality in it won't we all be benifitted in seeing a beautiful story unfold?

Thankyou for reading this long post. This is my POV not to hurt anyone. 😊