Is Saachi doing the right thing?

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soapbubble

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Posted: 12 years ago

Going by the synopsis, Saachi is going to tell them she will meet their demands.

Is this right?

a) She is giving in to this system where the bride's family is pressured to overspend

b) She is weakening Prachi's stance in what looks like a confrontational marriage and family

c) She is not stopping or advising Prachi from marrying into a family which is going to put restrictions on her all the way - from working to clothes to jewellery.

d) Ajji and Nani are against this relationship - Saachi is not even giving them a decent hearing.

Is Saachi doing the right thing by giving in to this situation? I don't think so. I think her responsibilities are weakening Saachi's common sense.

What do you guys think?

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Posted: 12 years ago

I agree with you. I don't think she would be doing the right thing. Whenever Prachi tells Saachi about what she has always done, responsibilities etc. she just gives in to what Prachi wants - even though it may not be right. She is getting carried away by Prachi's words

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soapbubble

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Posted: 12 years ago

Yes, Prachi will utter hurtful things but Saachi should not give in to her every demand.

I feel that if Prachi really loves Sunil and he loves her, they should go get married quietly and come to everyone for blessings. It's Prachi's duty also to protect her family.

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Ron

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Posted: 12 years ago

after prachi's words to sanchi that u r not my father and if he was alive ext sanchi will feel that yeah if he was here he might chose the happiness of the daughter of his so sanchi would go with the marriage and accept all those things but what will happen to prachi after marriage ? prachi does not even think that from now they are being rude to her family so how will they behave in front of their own people ?

any ways - if prachi goes on with this marriage then she has to get ready to what she gets and not come back crying and saying sister u wrong u could stop me ext

doing what the child say all the time and fulfilling his / her all wishes does not make him better

prachi never helped at home ... she does not know ABCD of home how will she manage at her in laws home ???

sanchi has to ways

to say no and explain - we know prachi will take it wrong and hate her

to accept it and deal with it - but will prachi deal with what she get or call home every time to humilate her sister ??

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soapbubble

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ronshaan
after prachi's words to sanchi that u r not my father and if he was alive ext sanchi will feel that yeah if he was here he might chose the happiness of the daughter of his so sanchi would go with the marriage and accept all those things but what will happen to prachi after marriage ? prachi does not even think that from now they are being rude to her family so how will they behave in front of their own people ?

any ways - if prachi goes on with this marriage then she has to get ready to what she gets and not come back crying and saying sister u wrong u could stop me ext

doing what the child say all the time and fulfilling his / her all wishes does not make him better

prachi never helped at home ... she does not know ABCD of home how will she manage at her in laws home ???

sanchi has to ways

to say no and explain - we know prachi will take it wrong and hate her

to accept it and deal with it - but will prachi deal with what she get or call home every time to humilate her sister ??

No, my fear is that Saachi will give in, Prachi will be unhappy in the marriage and coming running to Saachi again!

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Ron

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: soapbubble

No, my fear is that Saachi will give in, Prachi will be unhappy in the marriage and coming running to Saachi again!

the funny part in it will be that she will blame sanchi for what ever will happen at her in laws home

instead of feeling hurt that his parents humiliated her sister n her family she cry over that that her sister did not accept all those demands and humiliated her too.

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Karri1555

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Posted: 12 years ago

One thing Saachi does not realise is that her Father would never have bowed down when he knows the marriage is wrong. If her Father had to be alive he would have stood firm and Prachi would have to accept it. Hope something happens before the wedding and Prachi is humiliated and made to face her selfishness and she breaks the marriage on her own and maybe one of Sunil"s cousins who are richer falls for her and decides to marry her.

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mrymrauf

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Posted: 12 years ago

its not her responsilities, its her love of Prachi which is forcing her to make this decision, she just wants to see Prachi happy n Prachi's happiness is in this marriage!🤢

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Tvbug2011

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Posted: 12 years ago

I think the problem is also that Saachi sees Prachi not just as a younger sister but as her child, and therefore the discussion between them is not so much adult-adult as parent-child. And as the stand-in parent for Prachi, Saachi will not be able to put her foot down and a) ask her to wake up and smell the coffee and b) tell Sunil and his parents where they get off. Actually, Saachi tried. But it didn't work for either party.

So Saachi is back to playing indulgent parent. And she will go all out now to make the marriage possible, swallowing any and all insults and demands on the way. So yes we'll see weakened Saachi and Prachi and an almost sure-shot unhappy future for Prachi.

And yes, Prachi will not be happy in her in-laws' repressive H/H. She will mess-up. And the in-laws will make more outrageous dds. No career and pallu over head were just the starters. Increasing abuse will follow. And Saachi will be run ragged cleaning up Prachi's messes and mollifying the in-laws.

It's such a pity that Aaji and Nani have chosen to let Saachi deal with this unpleasantness. They must also share some blame for not having been vociferous enough or proactive enough to decide for Saachi. It continues to amaze me that these elders are more voyeur than participant in this family. I really need them to grow a spine and make their views heard.

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Heema22

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I find one problem with Sachis character is she is trying to please everyone specially her siblings . She needs to know that she isn't their parent specially father and she is a sister with limitation and has own life to live . She has given up her life for her fathers dream. She needs to know we are not super humans and cannot fillful anyone's dreams and keep everyone happy around her . She had limitations too .

She is giving in Prachi's selfish demands . Her own conscious not allowing it. So She should not do anything against conscience even if the situation demands it.

Loving a your sister doesn't mean giving in to all she whims; to love her is to bring out the best in her to teach her to love what is difficult. If can live with guilt if you don't care about being "good". Sachi needs to know that Success is not measured by what you accomplish, but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.

Both grandmas will support her and she must stand up to Prachi's immaturity .Prachi needs to know that "It is not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself." And Sachi needs to know "Guilt isn't always a rational thing, Guilt is a weight that will crush you whether you deserve or not "

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