Do you go for it? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Rishani7

Nice post, regarding the question of age gap if my friend is in such a case I won't mind it, I'll support her, nowadays it is not a big issue, but yes in some countries or societies it is still a prob. I believe that where there are compatibility, respect & love they must go 4 it, 5-7 yrs gap is ok. My mom said that after the marriage if the girl is older dan the boy it would be hard on taking decisions as the girl has more experience & will try 2 leads things. I guess it would be hard but as far as the 2 go well with each other & there is a good understanding between them, it won't be a prob & it also depends on their personalities! 😊

And a marriage is successful when there is trust, respect, understanding & love, no matter what their ages are or religions!

When it comes 2 Sanchi, I'm sure Prachi will oppose 2 DV!!!!

And Sanchi will also take time 2 accept DV in her life, waiting 2 see how they are gonna handle their relationship. 😊

👏👏 well said Rishani!

Originally posted by: ronshaan

even if sanchi would be shown 27 yrs old and dv 27 yrs old

she would be more mature then him cos she already played the role of the mother / daughter / leader at home and office ext

he would still be that kind a man .. but one difference would be

she would not think he is young boy

she sees him young man who is immature and has to grow up

oh yes... even if she fall for him and feel he is the rite guy for her

i guess she has to wait more time to know him better / he to know her better and not marry him so soon after liking him *(knowing her ... i guess it will take long time to realize that's love)

even in astitva - Abhimaniyu was not a bad person but he was immature so in one episode after losing him simran said he is nice person no doubt but marrying him at that point when he was immature was wrong decision and the best would be marry him few years later when he really grow up **we know male takes time to grow up

Vow!! What a nice Analyss.

Thank you all girls / guys for making this thread a base for a the thoughtful discussion!!👏👏

You Rock!!

Originally posted by: ApoorvaFan

Mudra, Nice and thought provoking post.

Some things I believe in

1. Maturity and age are not directly proportional always. An younger age person can also grow mature by virtue of situations in life and the environment they are in. Eg: Sanchi. She must have grown up more quickly into a matured woman to handle the family pressure.

2. More than the age gap, the ability to understand each other and having a good comradire is more important.

Here Sanchi is a bit more mature than her age and DV is a bit more easy going than a 27 year old... CVs have made the characterizations like this to show the difference more prominently.

Thank you AF!
@bold n red
well said..

I was thinking they made it as 7 years gap.. wont the elder person go into the mould... 'I am big.. and I know everything'?

What do you say?

Yes Mudra... Its is easy for the elder person to get into the mould of I am big and I know every thing.

Some time bakc same kind of isue was shoewn in UTV Bindaas...

this pair officily nt accepted by society...bt if my friend will in situation...I will advice to think Every points which they have to face...
like gut to face society..understanding between them..if he is mature enough to take others comment positively or nt...because male ego is more prone to hurt more...instead I have no anyy objectction with this...as all says wher love trusts and understanding.. wt else needed!!

Originally posted by: ApoorvaFan

Mudra, Nice and thought provoking post.

Some things I believe in

1. Maturity and age are not directly proportional always. An younger age person can also grow mature by virtue of situations in life and the environment they are in. Eg: Sanchi. She must have grown up more quickly into a matured woman to handle the family pressure.

2. More than the age gap, the ability to understand each other and having a good comradire is more important.

Here Sanchi is a bit more mature than her age and DV is a bit more easy going than a 27 year old... CVs have made the characterizations like this to show the difference more prominently.

very well said !!!

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

Yes .. ronshaan

She might have a problem..

Sanchi is well playing a 'big brother' role (nevertheless Big sister).

She might just take it as one of the pranks / immatured things her bro or sis are doing

may not take seriously.

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

Oh!! you mean Grannies unaderstand well but not the bachchus😳

yeah her bro and sis 😃 they will feel its wrong

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

Vow!! What a nice Analyss.

Thank you all girls / guys for making this thread a base for a the thoughtful discussion!!👏👏

You Rock!!

you welcome😳