how can prachi forget neev SO EASILY? - Page 2

Originally posted by: kockoo323

i was watchin videos of kayammath from the very first episode,

and it hit me that PRACHI was the first one to fall for neev..

she loved him since she was 8 years old

how can she possibly get over him so fast? this is love of over 10 years...so its just kinada wierd you know?

You know what, I have to say that I agree. Even though Kayamath is an awesome show (as well as all the other Balaji shows) they're just not REALISTIC!

They make all these scenarios that make sense for their story line, but in real life, it doesn't work that way!

If you think about it LOGICALLY, it took Prachi to get over her childhood first love (since she was 8 years old) in approx. 2weeks😕

Originally posted by: Anushka

Well said JC 👏

completely agree with u!!👏.but dont know why people doesn't get this simple logic😕.i'm totally bored after reading the same topic for infinite times.

yes she will shock but ....creatives created neev negative..so ....she want to digest the truth....now a days kayamt stry line is striping...ayesha is forgived very easily........i dono y?...........

Originally posted by: lilo_25

You know what, I have to say that I agree. Even though Kayamath is an awesome show (as well as all the other Balaji shows) they're just not REALISTIC!

They make all these scenarios that make sense for their story line, but in real life, it doesn't work that way!

If you think about it LOGICALLY, it took Prachi to get over her childhood first love (since she was 8 years old) in approx. 2weeks😕

That's the point! All these feelings for neev was not actual love.It was just a crush type nd love for a friend.That's why she 4got so quickly on the other hand she couldnt 4get her love for milind bcuz she truly loves him.When neev got married to Ayesha,since prachi is a sane and gud person at heart she knew tht he was her sister's husband and it was inappropriate for her 2 still love him bcuz she is not like Ayesha.And then she got married 2 milind.She decided to move forward and start a new lyf wid him and fell in love with him.Prachi was nd is a more relaxed and calm person meanwhile milind was sum1 who was a short temperd and more rushed person who didnot realise prachi's love first bcuz he didnt give her ne chance bt wen he realised her love he immediately 4got ayesha! That's all I have to say although u wil understand more from my dear michians😊

When she fell in love with Neev she was only a child, as you put it, just 8 years old. At that age what does one know of love? Her entire world revolved around Inder and Neev. She never knew any other man. To me this was nothing but puppy love. She grew up with that love and held on to it because that is what she had experienced till then. Although she hurt a lot when she left Neev, that pain did not last long since the love itself was not as deep. She was able to transform her love from a lover to that of a friend and a sister-in-law without much difficulty.

When she fell in love with Milind she was a full grown adult. She had seen a lot in life and understood human relationships better. While she discharged her duties as a faithful and devoted wife, over time she fell in love with the child-like man, a man who was completely her opposite in temperament but had the same principles and outlook towards life. Having realised and experienced that love- the true love, she cannot forget it for life, PA or no PA. Milind too shares the same intense love for her. That is why he was drawn to her even during the PA state.

In real life too most childhood 'loves' dont last because you are not mature enough to understand a deep emotion like love between a couple.

That bothers me as well. It maybe childhood love but she held that love so close to her heart for YEARS. How can it change all of a sudden? I know Milind's looks are enough to kill any lady but seriously...the way I looked at it was that Prachi loved Neev so much and did not even expect any reciprocation. Selfless love is the most powerful love in my opinion. I still think Neev-Prachi's love story was much fresher than Milind-Prachi's because we had seen the latter storyline in Kasam Se and other Ekta serials. HOWEVER, Jay and Panchi never shared any sort of intense chemistry which Shabbir-Panchi do so that definately worked for the audience and moi!😛 A part of me is very happy that she forgot Neev....Haha!

So I agree, how could Prachi forget her childhood love so easily??Hmm. Maybe it could have been shown more gradually.

I dont think it was easy for her. But the kind of girl prachi was, she became strong after inder's death and learned to move in life. Also, she is a relationship person so after marriage, milind was her everything 😊

Reemz, Prachi is the kind of person who loves without asking to be loved. Her love is always unconditional. She even loves her worst enemy, Ayesha although she knows she can never hope to get her love returned. She loved Milind even though he had hated and despised her. She never expected her love for him to be returned either. So that cannot be taken as a yardstick to measure her love for Neev.

My point is she never understood what true love was between a man and a woman till she fell for Milsi. She thought that what she felt for Neev was the kind of love you would feel for your life partner. But if it was, she would not have outgrown that love so fast. It is because she has, I am quite convinced it was puppy love.

Yes, she hurts for Neev, she could'nt bear to see him suffer but then she couldn't bear to see Ayesha suffer, she couldn't bear to see Suki suffer. She sacrified her happiness for all these people too. That is her nature.

Her love for Milsi is different from her love for other people including Neev. She is fiercely possessive of her love. She was willing to love Milind without any reciprocation. But once she had experienced his love she does not want to let go. She cannot bear to sacrifice that love for anyone. That is why she repeatedly says that she can bear any amount of torture but she cannot stay apart from him.

In short, with Neev she was still a child-woman, willing to be led by the man she thought she loved. With Milind she has blossomed into a mature woman who despite retaining her childlike innocence, has evolved into a strong willed, passionate being, willing to lead the man she loves.

Originally posted by: optimist

Reemz, Prachi is the kind of person who loves without asking to be loved. Her love is always unconditional. She even loves her worst enemy, Ayesha although she knows she can never hope to get her love returned. She loved Milind even though he had hated and despised her. She never expected her love for him to be returned either. So that cannot be taken as a yardstick to measure her love for Neev.

My point is she never understood what true love was between a man and a woman till she fell for Milsi. She thought that what she felt for Neev was the kind of love you would feel for your life partner. But if it was, she would not have outgrown that love so fast. It is because she has, I am quite convinced it was puppy love.

Yes, she hurts for Neev, she could'nt bear to see him suffer but then she couldn't bear to see Ayesha suffer, she couldn't bear to see Suki suffer. She sacrified her happiness for all these people too. That is her nature.

Her love for Milsi is different from her love for other people including Neev. She is fiercely possessive of her love. She was willing to love Milind without any reciprocation. But once she had experienced his love she does not want to let go. She cannot bear to sacrifice that love for anyone. That is why she repeatedly says that she can bear any amount of torture but she cannot stay apart from him.

In short, with Neev she was still a child-woman, willing to be led by the man she thought she loved. With Milind she has blossomed into a mature woman who despite retaining her childlike innocence, has evolved into a strong willed, passionate being, willing to lead the man she loves.

👏I so agree with everything u said,Prachi will let go of anything people want from her but not her Milind in anyway.

Originally posted by: bbb999

To me Prachi did not know what love was until she fell in love with Milind. She mistook her close friendship with Neev as love. So once Neev and Prachi got married off to other people Prachi forgot her 'love' for Neev as she was now someelse's wife and he was married to her sister. As Milind's wife she learnt that love is more than friendship its a passion and intensity shared with someone who completes you. She has truly loved once Milind and realised what she had with Neev was nothing more than love between two friends.

(This is my opinion and do not want to offend anyone and if I do I am sincerely sorry. )

agree😊