Originally posted by: candyfloss
no ofcourse not.i just thought informing her jay left n also he's coming this week on sony.😃 You didn't tell her that Jay was coming on sony. No offense I'm not sure if you were intentionally being hurtful or this was purely unintentional (which I hope is true) but I found the comment very insensitive. Here she is really sad that Jay is gonna leave and pretty badly wants him to stay in the show, and so did you have to post the fact that "He has already left" with not one but two big grin smileys to boot...so is she right bringing michi in this topic n calling them boring..Well I don't see anything wrong with her saying that. Its her opinion, She thinks the show is boring, Milind is annoying, Prachi is ok. If she'd posted this in the Michi Haven, you bet I'd defend coz that place is for Michi lovers and Michi fanatics, But this is Neevs place, for his fans to mourn his loss in the show. Not to talk bad about him. But if you DID feel annoyed with that, then it would've been better for you to refute her than make the comment about jay having already left 😛 i dont think so.1st better go n confront her.whts wrong with u???😕 Well see personally I think of it this way: We are getting our way. We are getting to see Michi, we are getting to see Milind-Prachi romancing for possibly 2 years down the line. She's the one suffering, For her she has to see Neev acting depressed or other people bashing Neev, Neev being without Prachi. She's already losing, right? So basically this way I have an unfair advantage over her (aka getting to watch Michi and being re-affirmed of the fact that Michi is the MAIN couple of the show)? Would you like to fight a fight in which you have an unfair advantage? Not me, I can't be mean to someone who is at a disadvantage. I'm getting to enjoy Michi, she's having to endure her fav character leaving the show. I wouldn't insult Neev or make her more depressed by commenting on the fact that Jay has already left. And no I wont attack her, coz ultimately, I'm getting to watch Michi and thats what matters. Plus why should I? She has not bashed Michi in any way(calling Milsi a hairy dude), she just doesn't like them. She has just expressed her opinion, without being mean to anybody.
u never came to post in latest michi argument.Thats because there are enough people over here who argue eloquently and excellently in case of Michi, and so I feel my words hold no value. However if you feel that Michi has no defenders, feel free to PM me or direct me into that thread. I assure you I'll be ready to defend Michi. In case of Neev, he has no defenders, so why I'm always defending him!😛.....btw i cant put salt inside the pc n i cant see anyone so dont see any wound???😆..btw if we put salt in a wound wont it pain more???i never heard putting salt in a wound....i put salt in cooking.😆😆 Umm its an expression. Its an idiom. An expression. Example:
rub salt in/into the wound
to make a difficult situation even worse for someone. Losing was bad enough, having to watch them receiving the trophy just rubbed salt into the wound.
I felt that for her the situation is already difficult. She can't watch Neev anymore, now the best way to relate to her is to imagine yourself in her shoes.Iimagine how YOU would feel if Shabbir left this show, and the show reverted to Neev-Prachi. Depressed? right. Probably a little angry at the producers and Neechi itself. Would you like someone to then gleefully come and rub it in your face that "Shabbir has already left. He is done with the show" with a huge grin smiley implying that someone is very ecstatic at him leaving, and who keeps on entering his fanclub, a place for his fans to praise him and love him, asking about "When is he gonna leave. Why can't he just leave soon, he's irritating me". And so she is feeling the same way. So by telling her that he has already left is making it even worse for her. Its not gonna help in anyway. It was not a good thing IMO.😛