Can you forgive Ayesha?

After watching Prachi's interaction with Ayesha yesterday, it is very clear that Prachi will forgive her anyday (at least as things are currently) given that Ayesha moves on in her life away from Milind.

So i was wondering how forgiving Michi fans or Neev fans will be towards Aeysha if she decides to take her marriage to Neev seriously one fine day.

As for me, I was a fan of Ayesha before Prachi. I am a feminist and i cannot stand girls who portray themselves as helpless especially compared to men. I admire the woman who knows and displays her strength. Therefore Prachi in the begining used to annoy me to no extent and when she met Ayesha and started to come out of her father's and Neev's shadow, i really loved Ayesha for that. She was a role model of sorts. The way she took care of her mother and herself...she was always a fighter. She fought all odds that life has thrown at her. So today if she still fights destiny with the same spirit, can we really blame her. That is what she has done all her life. She refused to let circumstances bring her down. She fought for her right to live and today she is fighting for her right to a happy life, which in her opinion is only with Milind. It is a mind block that she has that unfortunately doesn't allow her to see the possiblities she has with Neev and Neev too is to blame for that. He keeps swinging like a pendulum. One day he is happy for Michi and yells at Ayesha for trying to break them up and the next day he is shedding tears at their union. If Ayesha even has to consider a life with Neev, Neev has to first let her know that he is over Prachi and ready for a life with her. Till then it is useless blaming Ayesha for clinging to the only person who has ever been a solace to her and seems to be the only person that genuinely cares for her today.

In Tuesday's episode when Prachi and PL were having a mother daughter moment and PL was happy at her daughter's joy, and Ayesha showed up behind them, immediately PL's expression changed and she taunted Ayesha. I felt a pang for Ayesha at that moment because Prachi has her mother to revel in her happiness and to support her in her sorrow..but Ayesha who is so heartbroken has not one that she can hug and cry her heart out to. No one to put a hand on her head and give her a lap to sleep on. At such a point in your life when one has no hope a mother's touch is probably the most soothing balm to anyone. And Ayesha doesn't have that luxury, she almost never had that luxury. That could possibly be the source of my sympathy for her today...and i can say that if she turns around from here for the better, i will forgive her for all the pain she caused everyone.

JC

Jaan, great post👏👏👏 Yday I felt really bad for Ayesha... actually na whenever she is alone and she seems resigned... my heart goes out to her immediately😭 I have been feeling bad for Ayesha from the time I saw her sitting in the dark... and Yday was tough too. So i for one was really happy and proud of Michi to have taken that step to comfort her and make her feel this is not the end of the world.... She needs to move on for her good and theirs... and I am happy they did that.

As far as Ayesha goes... the ppl she has wronged are Michi and Neev... Michi will readily forgive her & Neev will too if Ayesha decides to move on with him. I know it is asking a lot from Neev, may be unfair as well... but he seems to understand and relate to her pain the most, i would like to see him approach that connection and understanding with compassion, than coldness(which is justified in its place) I think these 3 forgive her... there is no reason to hold anything against her😊 So hopefully we will see some change on Ayesha's front now... and hoping it will be positive😃

[quote]One day he is happy for Michi and yells at Ayesha for trying to break them up and the next day he is shedding tears at their union.[/quote]

JC, your post was lovely, but I disagree with the above line.

True that Neev has accepted MICHI's union, but this doesn't imply that he has no right to feel bad about it. Neev is happy for PRACHI, but definitely feels bad for HIMSELF. He doesn't let his sorrow become a barrier between MICHI, but is definitely pining for his lost love. I can most definitely not blame him for this.

I was in love with a guy for 5 years (one-sided), and although I was happy for him when he got married, there were innumerable moments when I shed tears...

In fact, I blame PRachi and Milind for not even trying to reach out to this guy, especially Prachi. Why can't she console him too, advising him to move on in life, or is she scared that her hubby will once again mistake her? If Milind can take time out of the party to advise his friend, Prachi has every right to and MUST do the same. She didn't even have the courtesy to apologize to him. 😕

[quote] If Ayesha even has to consider a life with Neev, Neev has to first let her know that he is over Prachi and ready for a life with her.[/quote]

And why can't Ayesha do the same? How do you expect Neev to take the first step when she doesn't even LOOK at him? Taali ek haath se nahin bajti - if she, at least, shows signs of accepting MICHI as a couple, Neev might become friends with her, and later even fall in love with her. But, until she acts crazy about her past, you cannot expect him to make any move

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I agree that Ayesha was one of the most likable characters of Kayamath, and all of us cheered for her when she avenged her mom's honor by defeating Alaap in his own game. BUT, if she truly loved MILIND, how could she not even let him know about her plans? How could she just get married to someone to cause someone else misery, and not even call Milind ONCE? The day she set sights on Neev is the day I started hating her -if she was hell-bent on rewriting her 'destiny' for the wrong reasons, then she better accept that Milind was never her destiny, and that she has NO RIGHTS over him. Worse, she blames others for her follies!

I can never forgive her completely, but will stop hating her if she becomes a better person

I will forgive her. Because she is stupid and is blinded not knowing the truth. So I will leave her. In the beginning I could see her pain when she was marrying Neev and loved Milind. She put herself in hell. So now if she changes and accepts her marriage I will forgive her whole heartedly.

KITs i don't agree with you...but will give you my arguements when i come back latter. Gotta take my mom to the doc and will miss the episode too. 😭 Stupid docs takes forever. 😡

no I don't feel any sorry for her at all,so no never,GOD how much I used 2 love her befor but not anymore and never will I ever be again

I know it's the requirement of the story but I always felt sad that Prachi didn't really try to clear the misunderstanding between her and Ayesha. It's just... for me personally when somebody didn't make that effort or stopped short then they simply didn't care enough. I know that's not the case for Prachi but couldn't help feeling disappointed. I'm not saying Prachi is at fault for Ayesha's conducts, of course not, it's just I find it a natural thing for Prachi to forgive Ayesha anytime, because she knows Ayesha gets her facts wrong and part of these facts were planted by Prachi herself.

As for Milind hmmm actually I kinda think if Milind knows Ayesha already knew about Sukreti and about other things she did to separate Michi it would take him sometime and effort to forgive her 😕 Milind could be mean, there's this tendency in him. But with Prachi's encouragement he will forgive Ayesha fast I think. Anything Prachi ma'am says😆

About Neev, if later he falls in love with her then forgiveness won't be an issue. Love conquers all.

And the real question of this topic is about me😆. Well I would forgive Ayesha anyday because just like Milind there's a scared child in her so I can't stand seeing her purely sad. I can't even stand seeing Sukreti being ignored by Milind 😭. I'm weeeaaakkkk.

[quote] Prachi to forgive Ayesha anytime, because she knows Ayesha gets her facts wrong and part of these facts were planted by Prachi herself. [/quote]

a. Prachi had nothing to do with Alaap's misconduct with Ayesha's mom, and although she tried reasoning with Ayesha, the latter wasn't ready to accept her pleas

b. Granted, Ayesha's initial misunderstanding about the baby was because Prachi let everyone assume that the baby was hers, but why couldn't A have understood P's sacrifice for her SIL after knowing the truth - instead, in her twisted mind, P is 'SHAANI' for supporting Sukruti! lolz

I will not my angel be blamed for this witch's actions 😭

Originally posted by: krangara

[quote] Prachi to forgive Ayesha anytime, because she knows Ayesha gets her facts wrong and part of these facts were planted by Prachi herself. [/quote]

a. Prachi had nothing to do with Alaap's misconduct with Ayesha's mom, and although she tried reasoning with Ayesha, the latter wasn't ready to accept her pleas

b. Granted, Ayesha's initial misunderstanding about the baby was because Prachi let everyone assume that the baby was hers, but why couldn't A have understood P's sacrifice for her SIL after knowing the truth - instead, in her twisted mind, P is 'SHAANI' for supporting Sukruti! lolz

I will not my angel be blamed for this witch's actions 😭

I wasn't talking about those two events, Kit. Ayesha was indeed furious and refused to trust her. But that time when Prachi decided Neev should be with Ayesha she herself showed Ayesha that Ayesha's accusations for her was true so that Ayesha would be more encouraged to steal Neev from her. That moment I saw that Ayesha somewhat still had liiil hope that she was wrong about Prachi. After that there's no stopping Ayesha.

I may be able to forgive in future providing the resident witch Ayesha changes her ways and turns positive which is highly doubtful, once a vamp in BT serials always a vamp. But definately will never forget esp her spiteful words to Prachi. Am not in a forgiving mood.