When Love Hurts.... - Page 2

Originally posted by: pippa

Nice post. You know, opt, when u mentioned Mils' jealousy, I can't help thinking that that is his charcter flaw.

Remember how he used to react to ayesha in a similar jealous manner when he was in love with her. I hate to say this, but no matter who the girl is, he'd show the same degree of jealousy.

Hope that doesn't cause his downfall later.

Please, someone, disabuse me of this fact...I hate the thought of him having this flaw.

Sorry can't disabuse you of it, Pippa😆 But I actually for me it's not so bad a flaw... Still acceptable. Adorable. Especially because I really don't think it was his jealousy that really put them into their current situation though it helped.

Optimist if I remember correctly you've opened very similar thread before hehehe.

Originally posted by: optimist

Yes Tweety dear, Prachi is suffering but she is still stubbornly holding on to her pervious little secret and misleading Suki into believing she told him everything! Now if the truth comes out, which I think it will, it will be in public and bring more shame to Milsi (which is not what she wanted in the first place). So wnat good does it do to anyone?

I just hope that the truth being out in the open doesnt make Milind hate Prachi even more [although he is far from hating her!]..Although that's technically the right thing to do....! But we Michi fans have had so much nonsense that we just want a happy reunion thats it!

Originally posted by: pippa

Nice post. You know, opt, when u mentioned Mils' jealousy, I can't help thinking that that is his charcter flaw.

Remember how he used to react to ayesha in a similar jealous manner when he was in love with her. I hate to say this, but no matter who the girl is, he'd show the same degree of jealousy.

Hope that doesn't cause his downfall later.

Please, someone, disabuse me of this fact...I hate the thought of him having this flaw.

As for prachi, she'll always live for others. Even when they do get together, I don't think their inherent natures are going to change.

Pippa, the basic flaws as you put it of Milsi (jealousy) and Prachi ( living for others), are by themselves not flaws if they are within limits.

In fact I love seeing Milsi possessive but not jealous. For me being possessive is taking pride in your spouse. You may question the integrity of any guy who acts familiar with her but not question the character of the one you love. Therefore you can be possessive yet repose cent percent faith in your wife.

As to Prachi's sacrifices, it is a commendable quality to constantly think of others rather than self. But she needs to learn where to draw the line. She needs to understand that she is expected to love the people around her as she would love herself not more than herself. She also needs to be made aware that her so-called sacrifices do not involve other lives. She cannot continue to take decisions for others just as others cannot take decisions for her.

What i also feel is that along with hurting Milind, she has caused a lot destruction to Neev and his reputation in Milind's eyes...She did all this to save Sukriti and her marriage-in other words, to ensure Milind's family's happiness-which ultimately rounds upto doing everything for Milind...
I agree she loves him and can do anything for him, but she shouldnt have dragged Neev's name in this...I feel bad for him here...And that apologetic stare that she gave him in court- well she should have done that long long ago! Never once in the last two moths did she apologise to Neev for having him humiliated, nor tried to explain to him why she was doing all this....He has suffered for no reason at all...Even when neev and Milind were engaged in serious business rivalry, she always stopped Neev from doing anything wrong because that would do him harm and also hurt Milind...She said that Neev would be hurt if he learnt the truth, right but she has hurt him much much more than she can even imagine...

Although i am a die-hard Michi fan, i do feel for neev at the same time...He is a very nice guy and definitely doesnt deserve Milind's wrath because of Prachi's stupidity!

I don't really know if Milind should apologise to Prachi right away, but he should apaolgise to Neev for all the beatings he inflicted on him! Plus Neev should also say sorry to Milind for having falsely implicated him in the drug's case.....Basically both should shed all inhibitions and hug each other like BROTHERS!!! Aww...would love to see them like that!!!

Originally posted by: optimist

Pippa, the basic flaws as you put it of Milsi (jealousy) and Prachi ( living for others), are by themselves not flaws if they are within limits.

In fact I love seeing Milsi possessive but not jealous. For me being possessive is taking pride in your spouse. You may question the integrity of any guy who acts familiar with her but not question the character of the one you love. Therefore you can be possessive yet repose cent percent faith in your wife.

As to Prachi's sacrifices, it is a commendable quality to constantly think of others rather than self. But she needs to learn where to draw the line. She needs to understand that she is expected to love the people around her as she would love herself not more than herself. She also needs to be made aware that her so-called sacrifices do not involve other lives. She cannot continue to take decisions for others just as others cannot take decisions for her.

Opti darling ......very well said indeed......👏 And completely agree....😃

Prachi should have been taught in school that excess of anything is bad! If she knew of this, then she wouldnt have let things go so far!! 😡

Yes, Tweety. I too feel more for Neev than for Milsi, for at the end of the day Prachi saved (or rather tried to save) his sister's honour but as far as Neev is concerned he got the rawest deal of all. One can argue that he should have tried to redeem his reputation by hunting for the truth more earnestly. But that still does not excuse the treatement meted out to him.

Neev does not deserve a girl like Prachi. In fact if I were in his place I would rather forgive Ayesha (who had never claimed to care for him, infact the opposite) than Prachi (who was his childhoold friend, ex-lover and current well wisher and yet who did not think twice about hurting him both reputation wise as well as in business deals).

That is why an NP track is plain nonsense to me. How can Neev ever want to get back with Prachi after what she has done to him? She never had his well being in mind throughout this baby raaz fiasco. She needs to be punished for what she has done and as for him Milsi is his worst enemy right now, she needs to spend the rest of her life with that worst enemy!

Absolutely Opti, but do you think Neev is that strong a character to think of all this rationally? Is'nt he in a way also like Prachi who forgives and forgets easily? If that is so, then i must say that Neev is a very weak character...There is a limit to which anyone can take, and i think Neev has tolerated way too much,...Hope Ekta doesnt make Neev a weakling in front of Prachi..In a way that would ensure Michi being together 😊 , but at the same time, neev should ask for a valid explanation from prachi for treating him like that...This will make neev a much more realsitic character and i want to see this side of him...If he just gives into Prachi and still pines for her, then i'm sorry to say, he doesnt deserve to be called one of the male leads...A male lead has to be very strong character,just as Milind is, and this is the best time for him to prove himself...