Kayamath Episode Discussion Part 4 - Page 66

Blind Horizon: Well, ok, but if you were his wife, you may not have put up with his extreme tempers or his baseless accusations BEFORE consummating the relationship, would you? Cause, if you did, that would make you an angel - aka Prachi 😛 😃 😆

[quote]f I am not mistaken, it is that self sacrificing nature of hers that attracted Milsi to her in the first place. Just as she has accepted Milsi with all his flaws, it is high time Milsi learns to accept her with her flaws.[/quote]

Exactly what I am saying

Kits, It is simply that I trust Prachi's impact on Milind and Baba... Postive or Negative.... they dont see beyond her. I ask if Sukruti's family had turned against her... and if Prachi is that strong willed to cover up for Sukruti... cant she get atleast Milind to go soft on Sukruti, he likes it or not? You think she cant get him emotional on Sukruti's front by making him realise he is the mother in Sukruti's life and a mother cant turn away from a child? Milind would have been upset/angry... but if Prachi would have been on his side... the guy would have come to calmed down and taken the situation into hand. It isnt as if Milind hasnt stood by Sukruti before... he has been her only unconditional support at the time Alaap fiasco... and this situation is just an extension of the same... he is going to be more hurt about being lied to than the truth itself. Now you have Ritwik in person... do you think Milind or Baba will be able to hate that kid? Or wish that kid never existed for the sake of their family honour at this point in time? No... what will hurt everyone is that they have been lied to... the worst casuality is going to be Saket... the more he is kept in dark... the more spiteful his reaction is going to be and rightfully so.

Yes, we tolerate Milind's temper tantrums... but we also know that stems form Prachi's over angelic virtues... the saddest thing about these angelic virtues is that they seem to be unflattered even when problems are dangerously mounting and there is devastation at every step... HOW much more disaster can we afford now? As for me... I am not ready to pay such a huge price and I fear we arent done yet... and the same will go with Milind aswell... the day he will end up ruining or putting at stake so many lives for the Good or the Bad at once, I wont take it.

I am sure all of us will accept Prachi, because nothing matter more than Michi... but in the current situation all we need is Prachi to STOP and realise she is doing more harm than the Good she is thinking she is doing and if it comes at the cost of Sukruti's truth being unveiled... then so be it!

The question out here isnt about Milind accepting Prachi with all her flaws... I am sure he will and curse himself... but WHO is accountable to Neev, Saket and most importantly Ritwik? I am sure if she had managed to carry off this track without harming or hurting other lives... we would have been just fine. It is the amount of destruction we have faced and headed towards due to this raaz that is unacceptable!

I agree Kitty. That is my POV too. But come to think of it, when it came to making her marriage work, it was only Prachi who was suffering. And maybe indirectly Ayesha (but who cares). Whereas now what she is doing is in best intension of everyone but is a poorly planned out plan. She needs to realize the flaw in her approach. She is not thinking currently. She is only reacting to whatever is presented at the moment. With making her marriage work, it was a determined, systematic approach. That is why that worked and this is not working.

But one thing is true, Milsi needs to accept this Prachi with all that she comes with. He better because she deserves his unconditional love.

Originally posted by: kubare

But what really gets to me...is that...fine she accepted Ritwik as her child in front of everyone...but once alone with her hubby...she could have just told him...that she can't tell him the truth right now as its not her place to say...but please trust her....

I bet if she even said that to Milli in private ...he wouldn't have bugged her for the truth....but would have supported her in her cause....

I doubt that seriously Krishna. Milsi had already assumed the worst by the time she found him at the chawl the next morning. He would have thought that it was another one of her dramas. The last time she could have revealed the truth was on the night of Ritwik's birthday party when Milsi told her that he reposed full faith in her even more than he trusted himself. Instead of feeling guilty for hiding the secret she could have told him that she is indeed concealing a secret about Ritwik from him but is not in a position to reveal it since it is not hers to reveal but in due course he will come to know. She could have then waited for Suki to come and reveal it to her brother herself as by then she came to know Ayesha was not on her heels and the truth would come out anyway.

But, Ryka, Sukruti knows how much her brother loves her; she knows that he is aware of her affair with Alaap - why then didn't SHE reveal this truth to Milind. Because SHE is afraid that her Bhaiya will not accept her then. If, despite being loved by him for 24 years or so, she still fears his reaction, why do we expect Prachi to feel secure about his reaction?

Also, again, Prachi is not thinking like Prachi...she is thinking like Sukruti...."Oh, what if Milind kicks her out. Oh, what if Milind admonishes her, and never speaks to her for life" Prachi is erring on the side of caution here

Sukruti is afraid that Bhaiya will not tolerate the baby, and therefore Prachi Ma'm is also afraid for Sukruti....therefore, bam, she keeps shut! That's who Prachi is!

All I am saying is we need to accept Prachi as a whole, and wait these rough waters out

Originally posted by: jinc118

I agree Kitty. That is my POV too. But come to think of it, when it came to making her marriage work, it was only Prachi who was suffering. And maybe indirectly Ayesha (but who cares). Whereas now what she is doing is in best intension of everyone but is a poorly planned out plan. She needs to realize the flaw in her approach. She is not thinking currently. She is only reacting to whatever is presented at the moment. With making her marriage work, it was a determined, systematic approach. That is why that worked and this is not working.

But one thing is true, Milsi needs to accept this Prachi with all that she comes with. He better because she deserves his unconditional love.

Exactly Jaan, the plan is poor... no one is questioning her intentions... it is damn actions that all of us have a problem with. and given more than a month into this track... i can confidently say Prachi cant get any good out of it... infact it is only more problem and dangerous ones at that... and she needs to STOP! Which is what all of us want... want her to STOP... it isnt a question of accepting or rejecting now... it is a question of putting this madness to an end before further disaster strikes... and I am afraid that will happen only with Prachi obliges

Originally posted by: chituku

ok i hav this theory the goons say that prachi hired them kidnap ritwik millu will get furious listening this and blast prachi in front of everyone that she is the one behind this kidnapping and how can she kidnap her own kid and our mam start saying jaise aap soch rahi waisa and i want millu to giv her tight ones left and right then our suki mam open her mouth saying bhayya ritwik mera baccha hai

Nice prediction, but I don't want to see Milsi slapping Prachi...but yes I want Suk to open her trap/mouth 😡

Originally posted by: krangara

Blind Horizon: Well, ok, but if you were his wife, you may not have put up with his extreme tempers or his baseless accusations BEFORE consummating the relationship, would you? Cause, if you did, that would make you an angel - aka Prachi 😛 😃 😆

Krangara dear lying about stealing money and having an affair prior to marraige would still very much be there as these are trivial issues compared to owning a baby without informing my husband. I'm sure if the situation arose yes I would've covered up for Suki for the money since back then even Prachi didn't know about the baby and had considered it a temporary issue as for baseless accusations regarding Neev I'm pretty sure Milind's wrath would've prevailed whether I professed my love for him in public, on tv or got it run in the morning paper.His trust on me would've come with time and so would've the stop to the abuse and accusations. It's not that I'm against Prachi or her angelic nature it's just that sometimes her actions are illogical and she keeps everyother person above her husband which really gets to me because a marraige is not just physical bonding you should be able to confide in your spouse and know how to handle him. Besides the kind of love Milind possesses for her I'm pretty sure he would've adjusted to the truth in time, if the guy can trail her to the kidnappers considering her unfaithful knowing the truth I'm sure he'd have stood by her her in all troubled times.