Neev's stone analogy

Neev made a reference to three types of stones in monday's episode:

- the stone that can be melted with love - Milind

- the stone that is kicked around - himself and

- the stone that breaks others but in the process gets broken - Ayesha

Looks like Ayesha just proved him right in yesterday's episode when she was shattered seeing Michi together. She tried to break them apart and in the end was broken herself. Hope Neev stops pitying himself and do something for himself and his wife so that they try to make a life for themselves. But seeing him smirk at Ayesha in yesterday's episode when she was ranting and raving, doubt whether a NA track (if there is one) will take off!

Agree.....the person who disappointed me yesterday the most was Neev....for once in his life he got a chance to the amn...to take action...and what does he do..smirk...and wallow in self pity...his favourite pass time....

I so wanted him to be the one to comfort Ayesha...to be the one to control her...support her.....

Not as a hubby..but maybe as a human being....but...alas

Only god knows..if there ever will be NA....

Originally posted by: Magno

I too agree. It was Neev's chance to actually do something for Ayesha, and it seems he has decided to throw that chance away. And I so agree, Krishna, how in the world Neev didn't support Ayesha, simply as a human being? Granted he doesn't care about her but she's his wife nonetheless.

Considering Neev's stone analogy, for me the only truly correct analogy is his own part. He is that stone. For others it's not truly correct to me. Milind was not really a stone that melts with love, he's kind and loving and more like a dry sponge, completely dry because of Ayesha's betrayal. He then filled himself with Prachi's love but pretended to be dry outside. Then at one point the love brims and sips over, and he can't contain it to himself anymore.

Completley agree dear...the stone analogy for Milli did not agree with it....either...though...the ones for himself and Ayesha are true...

And I think the first stone is actually Ayesha. She is one hard stone but she might melt with love. Okay the broken stone analogy seems on target, too, but now I want a chance for her. Milind's love might not be enough for her, because maybe what she's craving for was parents and family's love. Anyway I just want to see some non romantic love to be sent her way and she melts because of it:(

And agree again...the first stone is Ayesha...also...who needs the love that was missing from her life...the love of parents...the love a family......but...dear...Premlata...Prachis mom...tried her best ...so did....Prachi...but.....:(

Lets see...what really melts her....am not at all for Prachi scraficing Mi...or Mi..being overly sympathetic....either...

Originally posted by: optimist

I dont agree with the point that first stone suits Ayesha. As Krishna said, Prachi and PM did try to give love. She is too self centered to accept love (from any body). Many in this world are deprived of parental love. That does not mean they turn up as demented as this character. Sorry I am too angry with Ayesha to sympathise with her. She has wreaked havoc for the supposed wrong doings of people. As Prachi had told Milsi on their wedding night, one cannot be sure whether one gets love in turn for the love given. But one can certainly not hope to reduce one's pain by giving pain to others. Happiness cannot be obtained by inflicting pain on others. 'As you sow, so you may reap'. So no sympathy from me, dears.

Originally posted by: optimist

I dont agree with the point that first stone suits Ayesha. As Krishna said, Prachi and PM did try to give love. She is too self centered to accept love (from any body). Many in this world are deprived of parental love. That does not mean they turn up as demented as this character. Sorry I am too angry with Ayesha to sympathise with her. She has wreaked havoc for the supposed wrong doings of people. As Prachi had told Milsi on their wedding night, one cannot be sure whether one gets love in turn for the love given. But one can certainly not hope to reduce one's pain by giving pain to others. Happiness cannot be obtained by inflicting pain on others. 'As you sow, so you may reap'. So no sympathy from me, dears.

Magno, the sponge analogy is excellent for Milsi dear. And what a sponge he is, soaking up all the love from his wife and squeezing out as much love in return!

Completley agree dear...and yes...you always reap..what you sow.....but I do feel sorry for Ayesha...I do....but in doing so I do not over look her mistakes...she coudl have made the right choices...but she did not....she was instrumental in digging up her own grave.....and Alaap😡...that jerk...was the catalyst in pusing her there.....

Originally posted by: Magno

@Krishna: Glad you like the sponge analogy, it came when I type and only there because I was trying to state the point that Neev's the only correct stone😃 I'm super disappointed at Neev, Krishna...😭 You're right about Prachi and PL trying, it's not really their fault and we know the misunderstanding was necessary to move the story, but even before I thought they didn't try hard enough. Ayesha simply doesn't believe that they were sincere, thanks to super Alaap whom I despise.

Hum.....true...amybe they needed to try harder...but with the frame of mind Ayesha was in...she would have rejected it anywyas and would have labled all of it an act...anyways...

Originally posted by: Magno

Yup dear Optimist I can understand fully why you're not sympathizing with Ayesha. I wish I don't sympathize, too! But I really really and very very do😭 Yes the first stone analogy might suit her, but again, even if it's only the cracks of the shattered stones I want to see her melt. Agree we're all responsible for our choices in life, but sometimes people simply need help. Current Ayesha do need the help... Glad you like the sponge thing too😃

I know what you mean Magno...I feel for her too....but one can not over look the fact...that she was instrumental in digging her own grave....though...Alaap was indeed the catalyst.....that jerk...😡

And yes she does need help..but the best person to give it to her ...wont be Prachi or Milli...but Neev...as he is so similar to her....in both of them losing their love....

Neev last chance to step up as a Man and Human being....😡