Diff factors defining Michi relationship - Page 3

Originally posted by: candyfloss

RYKA dear i'm disappointed.You shud have written longer.I just love READING YOUR posts.Excellent!
Long time ago i've mentioned milind-inder similarity but cudnt explain clearly.
Not only MICHI buh uve defined all characters.
You should write daily updates instead of others.SERIOUSLY!
Your write-ups is superb.Your updates shud be in the sticky topic.

Originally posted by: jinc118

Baap re!!!! I can't believe i read the whole thing. I am supposed to be studying. *Ahem* newho...I didn't mind reading tho dear. It was simply superb. I love the way your brain works. I think this is the thrid time i am telling you that you and I we have one brain.
Sorry to prove u wrong about my existing brains by asking this question...when was the prev 2 times😕 in Michi's context ya apna Rockstar?😕 Anyway lets rejoice... we do have a brain and we can put it to use to figure out a Balaji serial 😃

If only i had to time to put my thoughts into words like yours...and the kind of writing skill that you have. 😃 😃 😃 Imagine me and you knew each other personally and we could sit and talk about Michi over coffee...that coffee would never finish. 😆 Silly me!
You bet dear... Your doll and my baby...we will be acting like parents gushing about their kids happiness😆 and Michi ka topic katam hua then we can think what to do with our Rockstar aswell😊

As for replying to your post...I do see your point about similarities between Milind and Inder in terms of their priorities in life. But i am also glad that Inder and Milsi are different both in personality and temperment. I love my hot headed fool. 😳 Like you said Milind does have a volcano of a fury but he doesn't have a short fuse. He doesn't get angry at small, trivial matters but also doesn't take nonsense from anyone. So i would totally be ok with a man like him in my life. But he is still not perfect. His humanity is what draws me more to him. I am tired of seeing heroes who are portrayed to be super-human and beyond trivial emotions of life. Even Inder i loved as a father. His inability to let go of his daughter's hand and the way he cutely found excuses not to let her go out...(altho very annoying to any daughter) it was just too real. And altho i don't agree with his affair with Amrita, i still was glad to see a strong character who was shown to be living in a dilemma his whole life with a confusion as to whom he was wronging more...his all forgiving and trusting wife who believed that she could not have a better husband and the daughter who looked up at him with pride as if he was her God or the woman who lost her mental balance waiting for him and the daughter who never got the love and protection she needed and deserved.

You know me dont like Inder in totality... I will always hold him responsible for the trouble he caused in his children's lives...but thankfully atleast one has taken hold of their lives along with the family. I really hope the other takes care of themselves... They dont even have to have the responsibility...just look after eachother. Milind is far more gutsy than Inder... I dont think Milind will ever be such a coward and lead a two lives. I draw reference only in terms of their influence on the Shah family and Prachi and their priorities.

He wasn't the perfect man/father/husband but unlike many other K-serial dads he held his family together and sheltered them from the bad things of the world (not just his daughter) as long as he was alive. He did fail in his duty toward Ayesha but that was the need of the story. Milind is definitely not the perfect man/husband but he also has the same effect that Inder had. I am sure even after knowing what Inder did to her PL still might have wished that "if only he were alive" things for her family would not have gone so bad (during Ayesha's revenge spree). Just like that Milsi is needed in that family. Without him things will go from bad to worse. And you are right Milsi needs Prachi by his side to give him the calm and peace of mind. But without Milsi, Prachi's self sacrifacing acts will not only ruin her but the many people she loves also will go thru hell. And Milind's presence in her life curbs her self destructive acts. If you have noticed..Milind is the only issue over which Prachi gets selfish. He is the only one, whom she can't let go of even if she tells herself a million times she will do it. Every time she had thoughts of "i am gonna leave his life because he wants to be with Ayesha" i have felt like her soul was screeching from inside saying "but i want to hold on to him like dear life"

Seeing Prachi's misadventures i hope Milind could do an Inder act and keep a track of what his wife is upto. But I think the most striking difference is that Milind doesnt restrict her and she can do anything she wants as long as it isnt wrong. And Prachi better be selfish for Milind... else i will whack her😡

Thanx for the wonderful post. I don't want to say its your best one...cause i love all your posts... 😊 But if it wasn't for you i would have not wasted 1 hr of my study time...*runs to the library*

Now lets see a scenario of Michi not married and not even Neev-Ayesha. The story takes off after Inder's death.

Do you all have any idea what would have happened if Milind had fought Ayesha's war😕?

[quote]Coming to how Michi fans can support an 'Abusive' relationship…

....... I agree Milind tends to go over board when he is angry and can be technically termed off as 'Abusive' But why and when does Milind behave in such a manner😕. The matters he reacts to like that aren't trivial matters like 'there is too much salt in the food.' They are issues that threaten the very basis of their relationship, of their family. He has an abusive tongue, but his actions (by that I don't mean pulling, pushing) and intensions aren't abusive in nature. If the guy had stuck to his initial plan of seeking revenge… the Shahs would have been history! Milind reacts in a negatively fierce manner not because he doesn't understand but because his facts are wrong! Facts are Facts… interpretation of those facts is what is called Understanding. Now Facts are wrong by themselves… where is the question of understanding😕?[/quote]

Glad you're explaining it. I did read the question but couldn't collect thoughts properly to answer. I did want to say that if Milind is abusive, then most people on the planet are abusive. For real what people do to thieves and betrayer? And life-threatener? Much worse, I think. His facts were indeed wrong and it might be correct to say that he shouldn't have had those facts in the first place, yet with the same facts he didn't act at all like an abusive person, IMO. Rather he acted like a perfectly normal person. Btw love the example of too much salt in the food, I do think that's the sign of real abusive people, especially husbands:(

[quote] And before you can ask 'WHAT has Milind done to deserve Prachi?' Pause for a minute, turn around and see the happy faces of the Shah family, Ramu Kaka included and the serene glow on Prachi's face… He is responsible for the peace and happiness on their faces after Inder left them devastated. Milind might not have given Prachi's the love of a husband in the beginning…but he surely honoured his commitments towards her priorities.[/quote]

*giggles* That's true, even when they hardly show properly what he's done for the poor family😆 Hats off dear, I couldn't come up with anything reading the same question😃

Sigh after yesterday's episode anyone can say anything about Milind doesn't belong with Prachi... I for one is totally secure about it now like you, Dear Ryka 😊

Searched down this thread, and read it all over again😆 Ryka sis, again awesome post. 👏👏👏 Sis, am missing your analysis and long write-ups on MICHI😳