why can' premlata advise neev to move on

i am seeing premlata giving long advises to prachi and milind on moving on in their marriage and some extend ayesha but thats on deaf ears she will never care a damn of being married to neev

she should advise neev on moving on in life forgetting her daughter who can only give him pain now...makes his first step on marriage so that ayesha can understand relationships more better and makes all her bitterness of life in love....

making dhoklas and caring only for MP does not make neev to move on...and no point advising ayesha since she will never listen...its only talking to neev...neev can be happy

neev is really stuck with his past...he needs to forget prachi now who will never care for him...

premlata must advise neev to move on he will listen to his mother...i can't see neev so sad and craving for love surrounding him...he is a darling needs all love...he is so alone even though everybody surrounded him

yhh actually, she is neva really advising neev to move on
which at this moment could be da most usefull cuz milind n prachi r already moved on n ayesha won't listen 2 any1.......
so since she is wastin her breath, she mite as well waste it on some1 to which it won't go to waste 😃 😃 😃

well to me she does not need to tell Neev to move on be4 he know that he need to move on,I mean can't he see that Prachi has already move on in her life,he should know that him to need to move on I don't see why he needed to be told on what do with his life the way I see it it's his life,if he like he can move on or stay there cause if he wanted to happy he would have let that Ayesha go he does not need to stay with her,cause I do what make me happy not what make others happy,I can't stay with somebody who does not make me happy no never cause at the end of day it my life so I'ill do what make me happy he need to find someone new in his life but no he want to be unhappy then let him be.

I don't think it'll make any difference to him. He really loves Prachi from all his heart and soul, so what other people say won't make any difference to him. He'll go on loving her and giving pain to himself.

^^ Then Prachi is one lucky duck... She has two men doting her ... with their heart and soul! But alas ... ways of life... only one gets to share their life with her!

As far as Premlatha advicing Neev is concerned, well I dont think she sees a need to do so.. or rather not as yet ..

Correct me if I am wrong here, but she advised Ayesha abt leaving her past and moving on, and that Shaadi waala message when she saw Ayesha was interfering in the marraige of M-P , but with Neev, he has been sulking and the man has been doing good job of sulking alone in pain and not showing everyone... so may be because he is not letting his emotions harm M-P, Premlatha didnt see a need to talk to him abt it..

We may a see bit of it , PL advising Neev, though, if Neev ever turns negetive or a grey shade character!

Originally posted by: luv_eijaz_anita

Yeah i agree..He should really move on...Prem Lata should advice him to move on...And he should just move on cuase there now no going back to the past...

Ditto...I think the same....

Till when will we keep blaming others & finding excuses for the state Neev is in? Why blame Prachi or someone else for Neev's decisions in life? He is a grown up guy, he decided to get married on his own will...Prachi didnt force him in to it, nor did Premlata... he himself made that decision... he should stand by his decison and make it work. I will stand by him if he makes an effort himself to move on in life or atleast attempts to take control of it. He allows himself to be a puppet in hands of others and expects others to understand his point of view... no one is going to appreciate or understand it... because they have their own lives to take care of...which has been equally messed like Neev's.

Premlata isnt obligated to advise him on his life... it would be nice if she does because she is a maternal influence in his life. But advise or no advise, the ultimate decision is going to have to be Neev's. Prachi didnt move because her mom said so, Prachi decided to move on herself, So did Milind. Ayesha is being stubborn... how sure can 1 be that premlata's words will change Neev's emotions?

It is not that no one cares for Neev, they do. At this point Ironically, the one who seems most concerned abt Neev's well being(directly or indirectly) is Milind. But Milind's actions would never turn fruitfull, because Milind's concern is more for Prachi and it is a matter of time he will realise he is Prachi's happiness end his qurbani run.

I wont sympathise with Neev because i hold him in enough regard(if not more) to believe he capable to come out a winner in life on his own terms...I want to believe he has inner strength to stand by his decisions in life and make them work. But what saddens me as of now, is that he hasnt made a single step towards it... and instead he drowning in self misery. If there is someone who can help Neev, then it is Neev himself... and I hope to see him help himself... the 1st step will be to move out of the house.