What is suprising abt Milind's reactions?

Sorry for another post, But I needed to put it up as a reply for all the post

Ok, I fail to understand what is it about Milind that upset many here😕? By the way the director focused on him through and through it was to drive in the fact that Milind is the casualty in this whole circus. What else will u make out of Neev confessing his heart out and the camera is busy catching Milind's reaction… they didn't even give Neev a decent footage for his confession. Prachi doesn't react to Neev's confession as much as she is worried about Milind's heart breaking. And when Rohan was talking about seeing love for Prachi, Neev's side of the screen was blurred and they focused on Milind's eyes. And then the song shot him… it is clear the story wants u react to Milind as the casualty.

And what did Milind do?Feel Hurt to hear another man confess love to His wife and that is Wrong? He isnt supposed to be hurt because he knew it from the beginning? That is ridiculous. Then why is Neev's pain understandable when he sees Michi so much in love? He knows they are married and in love… but that doesn't stop him from feeling the pain, does it?

And what is so surprising about Milind feeling bad? Are you all forgetting this is the same Milind Mishra, who when he claimed he hated Prachi and this wedding was a farce created a huge ruckus in the party because he saw Prachi talking to Neev and with the sms issue was hounding him? How did u forget that this was the same Milind who showed up drunk and went 'My wife is busy' that night? And he made his hurt evident when he believed Prachi was in partnership with Neev and had stolen from him to give it to Neev.

When A guy who claimed to hate his wife could be so disturbed at something happening behind his back… u expect him to be calm and cool when Neev makes that confession in front of so many people? If u expected him to be calm & collected… Then u don't know Milind Mishra! This Milind Mishra is hopelessly in love with his wife, has his marriage on track and has proved Prachi is more important to him than his own life…. His world came crashing down when he heard that confession. Inspite of everything that happened adding to his own misery was the fact that he understood Neev's pain at that point.

Neev made a statement which caught Milind's imagination 'Tumne kabhi kissi se pyar kiya hoga, us pyar ka vasta Prachi ko CHOD DE' I will bet on anything… Milind took that line personally😡… because they didn't show Neev's face at all… just Milind's and 'Chod de..' had kind of an echo.

And coming to Milind not allowing Prachi to explain to him. One way to look at it is that Milind doesn't need an explanation… because he trusts Prachi. another reason would be Because Prachi wasn't going to talk abt the gun point ka episode… she was going to say about she having nothing to do with Neev. What he is thinking is completely different from what Prachi wanted to talk about. The Duffer is on his qurbani mode… all that 'I am not worth Prachi' & the 'Mera Prachi par koi haq nahi hai' and Neev's confession will come crashing down on him and he will move to set Prachi free😡. Until he gets a tight slap from Prachi, he isnt coming into senses anytime soon😡.

And Prachi's words were meant to comfort him… and this guy will resist it, because for him it is an ego issue to take support from someone else. Call him a fussy baby, immature or a brat that is the way he is. You have to be persistent with him till he relents… esp with Prachi he gets even more fussy. He wants to see if Prachi cares for him to persist even after he refuses her comfort and when Prachi fusses around him, he is happy and feels taken care about. Be it insisting on drinking, or refusing to take his medicines or kicking off his blanket or refusing to eat or rip off all his buttons…. he wants Prachi to pamper him.

Coming to him being Prachi's comfort zone…He is Prachi's comfort zone he knows it. What is troubling him as of now is if he has the right to be her comfort. Milind knows how to protect his wife he doesn't need anyone's help. Don't get me wrong I am not belittling Neev's help today…. agar Neev nahi hota, ya circumstances kuch aur hote or this kidnapping stuff had prolonged…Milind would have taken control anytime. If Milind stayed quiet and allowed Neev to carry on, it was because Neev was able to strike a chord with Rohan and it was going pretty well… nothing was more important to Milind than Prachi's safety… nothing ever will be a priority over Prachi's happiness. If Milind was angry and refused to understand the density of the situation or held Neev wrong for saying such a thing for his wife… he would have walked off after Rohan fell down and Neev rushed to hold a fainted Prachi. No, he stood right there and didn't move towards Prachi… Prachi walked upto him.

And btw all aside, why was Neev guilty when he saw Milind and stood with his head down? So obviously Neev did know he overstepped his right over Prachi. When Neev is guilty there is obviously something not right in his actions and Milind is not supposed to react to it?😕

All my sympathies are with Neev, I am sad he lost his love. But that isnt a reason for Michi to give up their relationship or hold their happiness wrong just because Neev is in pain. Michi have worked to get to where they are, they deserve to be together not only because they are married but are in Love! And Neev's heartbreak is evident to everyone… but what about Milind's? The situation he is in today is if not more is twice as worse as Neev. Neev has lost his childhood love, Milind has lost his childhood love too and is in the verge of losing his current one as well (or so he thinks😡) in a short span of time.How would it feel to be hurt yet again in the same place just when the prev woundhas been healed and this time the pain is like a many more times intense. Atleast Neev, Prachi & Ayesha had a chance to make a decision of letting go of their love and Milind was forced to accept that decision and he did, He took time…but he surely DID! His life is all messed up, he wants revenge but soon fell for the beauty of Prachi's soul. Now he wants to make his marriage work and make his wife the happiest and he is well on his way and this is what he has to face. Milind has stepped into a new life a life which revolves around Prachi… and suddenly he witnesses something which makes him question his right over his own wife. And you think someone in such a circumstance will be calm and collected?

Forget Milind misunderstanding someone… he is undoubtedly the Misunderstood Genius on this Forum. I feel sad for the guy, because he is the easiest to understand. He has the cleanest heart, what you see is what you will get! I am glad he reacted the way he did… There is no other way he could have reacted. For me that reaction to proved how much Prachi means to him and How much he loves her. Milind, Prachi belongs to you and she always will🤗

yep i really want michi to unite as soon as possible 😭 😭 😭

Ryka dear, wonderful post yaar... dont take all these things into heart.. Its just tat NP fans are hurt to see Neev hurt even wen its not his mistake.... We very well understand their pain, Dont we?? 😉

And abt today's eppy, i didnt say anything in the eppy disc. thread... I really think tat Neev's outburst was not necessary in tat scene... There was no need to tell Rohan tat dialogue "Tumne kabhi kissi se pyar kiya hoga, us pyar ka vasta Prachi ko CHOD DE" I agree with u on this tat it was put only to emphasize on wat M will go thro after hearing tat dialogue.....

Its like, It was included just to put M in some confusion and make him feel bad... They kept it only to convince M tat he made a mistake marrying P.... And i felt ki, this dialogue was put not to show how Neev feels for P... But it is to show how M will react to this... May be, becos of this, M might actually realize his feelings for P..

I hope they clear this misunderstanding soooon....

Lekin, wat a brilliant actors we got yaar in these serials especially male leads.... M didnt even speak a word in the gun point scene but conveyed his feelings soooo clearly... I felt very bad wen tears actually fell down his cheeks wen P came to him leaving N..... Wen i realized tat M didnt speak a word in today's eppy until the last minute, it reminded me of Robbie [remember He also didnt speak for 2 days continously]... but these guys made it loook sooo real and painful..... they made it looook so heart breaking just with their eyes.... 👏 👏 👏

Hats off to them and I will definitely praise Ekta for this... Amazing selelction 👏

Krishi

Bingo my dear friend! Bingo ! Couldnt have said it better! Main ek lamba chauda post type kar rahi thi and now its not needed! Aapne justice kardi! 😊 You've echoed my thoughts! 😊

I think most members r more upset that he didnt give her a chance to speak..I may b wrong but after watching the eps I was upset abt it too...but soon gained my cool n realised that Miland was never upset wid Neev confessing..He realised the depths of Neevs feelings n sumhow cud relate his n Neevs pain...Wat troubled him was I guess he wanted to lessen Neevs pain but that wud mean loosing Prachi...

I knw...one heartbreak is way too much..one wud want to die at the thought of a second one...

Talking for myself only, I dont want Michi to forget their love n relationship for Neevs pain, even Neev wudnt gain any happiness out of separating MP n getting P while her heart is wid Miland? only thing that upsets me is Prachi dear ignores Neev like he never existed..I understand her hubby is very easy to misunderstand sumone n she doesnt want to give anyone a chance to create any such thought in Milands mind but Prachi shud help Neev or at least encourage him...giving him silence will do no good...even Miland had that smart talk wid Ayesha...Prachi needs to as well...

Also, I understand Milands pain...but for me Neevs pain hurt me the most...Miland sumhow has Prachi...a wife who cares n loves him...but who does Neev have?? A wife who is called a wife for name sake? who makes it clear she never wants to b touched by him? who claims to love another guy? who is more worried abt how others marriage is working out? least concerned wat he does, wat he goes through, wat he feels? Parents who r after money? A dad who is a murderer? A Sister who doesnt bother to ask how he is? In all this mess, its Neevs life who is missing evrything...In the end, Miland will get Prachi n she will fill in all he lost...She will give him so much love n happiness his sorrows will seem nothing...but Neev? He lost his love...The girl he loved deeply! Evrything.....

Nice post Ryka 😊

Ryka.. you've basically said eveything that i wast to say..! brilliant post..! I have no idea why people would question the way Milind reacted..! in fact if he had carried on as if the events of the night meant nothing to him.. that would have really pissed me off..! and now he better not go into mahatma mode and decide to step aside..! And even if he does Prachi shouldn't and wouldn't let him..!

Ryka dear,

Fantastic post indeed, and you said all that one wanted to say in defnese of Milland👏👏👏.

Though I beleive he did not need any defending at all.😃

I just hope my darling baby😳😛 deos not do soemthing drastic without listening to his wife and Prachi better do something fast.

And as for Neev, he need to move on with his life.

Love

Krishna

yyh i also want michi 2 unite 😃 😃
n i think dat whole scene was mainly of milind's heart breakin aybe thats why they focused on that n thats probably why prachi was more concerned of milind's heart breakin than neev confessin his luv..........
so now it just feels lyk da whole thing is bout milind n prachi 😃

Wonderful post Ryak dear 😃 Couldnt have said it better... 😛

I think NPs fans are upset with P ignoring Ns feelings and M doesnt give P the chance to explain...

I think they made neev confess his love for P infront of M so things will be cleared out between Michi...its time for them to reconcile their feelings for each other and confess their love... 😉

@ Krishi - I got carried away asusual, U know me...Milind ho ya Robbie all my sense of Logic goes to the drain😛. Ok, I am calmer now...but couldnt say the same when I was seeing accusation flying left right center for nothing Milind did. Ya, the emphasis wasnt on Neev's confession but on how Milind will take a claim in the love of his wife. I dont endorse what Neev did yday, I am sure there would have been another way to talk to Rohan than scream out his love for Prachi. And that didnt go well with Prachi either, I wont be surprised if she repremands Neev for it. But at the same time, I dont want to cricufy Neev either... I maintain what he did and say was unneccessary. Cant agree more on Ekta's choice of actors...She surely has hit jackpot with Shabbo and Jay fitting their characters to the T.

@Sareeta - Thank u for your support everytime... It eases out a lot of apprehensions😛

@rajeev4aamna - Coming to Milind not listening to Prachi...when has he listened in the 1st go😆? Most of the time when he cuts Prachi's explanation... he has got her message LOUD & CLEAR. Remember when she asked him for help with Inder's murder he refused only to come back for help later though he said he had his own agenda behind it. After the jail fiasco when he asked Prachi for an explanation he cut her midway having understood and went off mumbling 'Arre yaar es ladki ke sath rahunga tho pagal ho jaunga' and When Prachi reasoned with him abt Neev's innocence he again snubbed her saying he knows what to do... He never took any action against Neev despite promising he would make that guy rot in hell who dared to sent his wife behind bars. And more recently when Prchi was ill, she kept trying to tell him something and he went 'Shhhh' stuffing medicine and juices into her mouth. U try to talk to him straight when he pre occupied, he will make all the excuses in the world to snub u.. u have to find another way out to make him listen and Prachi is a master in that by now... she will handle him.

And coming Prachi ignoring Neev... I dont think Milind alone is the reason for that. Prachi has avoided Neev right from the time he has been married. And what will she talk to him? He is always taunting her about one thing or the other. She surely doesnt appreciate the fact that Neev shows no respect to Milind, the Man in whose house he stays! And see Milind is not the only one who will have problems with that, Ayesha spits venom when she sees Prachi with Neev and Neev does nothing to defend Prachi... it is only Milind who came to her rescue before and after Marriage. They parted on a bitter note... and Prachi doesnt want complications in her family... as simple as that.
Yes, Prachi needs to have a talk with Neev and ask him to move on and I am sure she will. Milind had that talk with Ayesha when she made her obsession for Milind infront of everyone at the party and Milind refused to react and backed his wife right on him which made Prachi dance in joy. Milind went through the same emotions of having to see someone else claim love for his wife... and he needs to be reassured just the way Milind did. Prachi is going to talk to Neev and tell him to move on, because forget reciprocating his feeling, she cant even hold it in dignity because it is causing havoc to her marriage. I wont be surprised if she asks Neev to leave the house. I hope Neev does before he is told to
I do feel bad for Neev, but not at the cost of Michi's Happiness & their Love.

@candyfloss - I really hope Neev makes his marriage work because yday he must have got the message loud and clear that Prachi wouldnt care abt his love as much as she would about the impact that will have on her relationship with Milind. I see Prachi being selfish when it comes to Milind and fair enough. Neev-Ayesha should move on, to begin with out of the Michi's Home... unless they want to stay back and baby sit Michi's brats running around the house😳

@ Swetha - U bet Milind gets into Mahatma mode... he will face hell not only from Prachi but us aswell😆 He better be the good boy and do nothing more than sulk and sulk and sullk till Prachi manages to do away with that mood of his.

@Krishna - U r so right, Milind didnt need to be defended... which is exactly why I said forget it... But then just felt he was being misunderstood when the entire problem with Milind yday was that he Understood, he understood much more than he would have been comfortable understanding.

@ Sharmin - You are right, Milind was in the main focus yday... His reaction is what will decide the future of this story... and I am sure it will go in Michi's favour😃