Can't really understand Milind's behavior

Milind himself told Prachi their marriage is only for namesake and he married her for revenge. Except for Prachi's mother, Milind treats everyone else badly in her family. But it still affects him really badly when he thinks Prachi does something against him. He was hurt when he found out about Prachi taking the money and he thinks that Prachi loves Neev after her marriage to him, but he is happily day dreaming about Ayesha. So y is Milind behaving like this? I can find only two reasons.

1. Like every chauvinist husband, he wants his wife to only think about him, no matter how he treats her.

2. Milind always thought Prachi was bad,(Sukriti issue and all when Prachi tried helping them, he kept accusing her for hidden intentions), but on their first night when he told her that, he was using her for revenge he expected her to accuse him and cry and all, but she didn't do anything and continued performing her duties as his wife and he started thinking tht maybe he was wrong in judging her, then when she went to jail to save him, he started thinking that she was really nice and she got a place in his heart. But when he thought that Prachi was cheating him, he was hurt but he cudn't just continue hating her like he did in the beginning, no matter wht happens he can't just throw her out of his heart now.

What do u think is the reason for Milind's behavior?

i think he is too much hurt in love..its affecting all other relations as well..
he doesnt love praachi..but without knowing he cares for praachi i feel 😕

well according to me its cuz of both teh reasons which u hav given .....firstly ...typical MCP who wants tht their wife be only with them ....doesent matter if u r with her or not ......secondly ...expectation n trust. he never luved prachi but post marriage cuz of her gandhigiri and her decision of going to jail affected him a lot. he strted trusting prachi but it broke soon after reading tht meassage ....he got hurt tht he had been such a fool to trust her nautanki of helping him and treating him as her hubby. He gets irritated tht on one side she acts like sati savitri and fulfil all teh duties of teh wife and on the otehr hand she is using him to meet his aashiq and he is juss helpless bout it cuz he chose to marry her!

I wouldnt call Milind a MCP, but cant deny his behaviour is coming across like one and he himself isnt aware what he is doing. He is too confused and vulnerable at this stage.

I dont agree that he is day dreaming about Ayesha. No, def NO! It is more of past memories hautnting him... just like the way it haunts the others. Lets not forget that Prachi-Neev-Ayesha have had a lot more time to accept the situation than Milind has had. Milind hasnt had the time to get over his past... and then there is his wife who despite his efforts of not letting her influence his life to such an extent has made her way into his heart. He feels that change in him... but isnt ready to acknowledge it, because for him it is simple their marriage is a compromise for them.

But despite everything both of them unknowingly acknowledge a natural bond between them and it shows in the most unexpected places...how would u explain Prachi going against her father and Neev for the 1st time for Milind, How will u explain Milind trusting her so much even when her family is against her? Milind feels the need to protect Prachi from big bad world out there... That has contributed to his 'She is Mine' kind of an attitude... u can make that from his language... MERI Patni, MERI Prachi, MY darling wife.

Then there is Prachi with her Sati Savitri behaviour and Gandhigiri... he cant figure out her emotions behind it. And then he reads the Sms. Given his vulnerable state because he has just faced a heartbreak he cant turn blind to it... but at the same time he cant seem to overlook the trust he has on his wife... so it is all one big confusion for him.

And if u see him reacting to Neev-Parchi... he isnt fighting that presumed affair... it is more of accepting it with a heavy heart. He isnt passing moral judgements on them. Somewhere he understands their position(the way he thinks) That is why he says 'Kambakth Ishq bulaye nahi bulta.' And which is why he hasnt taken any concrete action against Neev-Prachi. But still it hurts him some where beyond understanding because the way Prachi takes care of him he feels she genuienly cares him and for him alone.

Milind is going to continue acting in an irrational manner till he realises he is in love and Prachi stops driving him up the wall with her Gandhigiri😡

Originally posted by: Ryka

I wouldnt call Milind a MCP, but cant deny his behaviour is coming across like one and he himself isnt aware what he is doing. He is too confused and vulnerable at this stage.

I dont agree that he is day dreaming about Ayesha. No, def NO! It is more of past memories hautnting him... just like the way it haunts the others. Lets not forget that Prachi-Neev-Ayesha have had a lot more time to accept the situation than Milind has had. Milind hasnt had the time to get over his past... and then there is his wife who despite his efforts of not letting her influence his life to such an extent has made her way into his heart. He feels that change in him... but isnt ready to acknowledge it, because for him it is simple their marriage is a compromise for them.

But despite everything both of them unknowingly acknowledge a natural bond between them and it shows in the most unexpected places...how would u explain Prachi going against her father and Neev for the 1st time for Milind, How will u explain Milind trusting her so much even when her family is against her? Milind feels the need to protect Prachi from big bad world out there... That has contributed to his 'She is Mine' kind of an attitude... u can make that from his language... MERI Patni, MERI Prachi, MY darling wife.

Then there is Prachi with her Sati Savitri behaviour and Gandhigiri... he cant figure out her emotions behind it. And then he reads the Sms. Given his vulnerable state because he has just faced a heartbreak he cant turn blind to it... but at the same time he cant seem to overlook the trust he has on his wife... so it is all one big confusion for him.

And if u see him reacting to Neev-Parchi... he isnt fighting that presumed affair... it is more of accepting it with a heavy heart. He isnt passing moral judgements on them. Somewhere he understands their position(the way he thinks) That is why he says 'Kambakth Ishq bulaye nahi bulta.' And which is why he hasnt taken any concrete action against Neev-Prachi. But still it hurts him some where beyond understanding because the way Prachi takes care of him he feels she genuienly cares him and for him alone.

Milind is going to continue acting in an irrational manner till he realises he is in love and Prachi stops driving him up the wall with her Gandhigiri😡

u did make sense😛

Well..Milind is i donna knw wt kinda person..hes sumtimes gud nd sumetimes bad..u cannot guess his beagviour at all..its jus like kinda split perso..but im saying..Wen NP nd MA luv each other , toh yeh sab kyun or kiske liye ho raha hai??? 😕

Originally posted by: Ryka

I wouldnt call Milind a MCP, but cant deny his behaviour is coming across like one and he himself isnt aware what he is doing. He is too confused and vulnerable at this stage.

I dont agree that he is day dreaming about Ayesha. No, def NO! It is more of past memories hautnting him... just like the way it haunts the others. Lets not forget that Prachi-Neev-Ayesha have had a lot more time to accept the situation than Milind has had. Milind hasnt had the time to get over his past... and then there is his wife who despite his efforts of not letting her influence his life to such an extent has made her way into his heart. He feels that change in him... but isnt ready to acknowledge it, because for him it is simple their marriage is a compromise for them.

But despite everything both of them unknowingly acknowledge a natural bond between them and it shows in the most unexpected places...how would u explain Prachi going against her father and Neev for the 1st time for Milind, How will u explain Milind trusting her so much even when her family is against her? Milind feels the need to protect Prachi from big bad world out there... That has contributed to his 'She is Mine' kind of an attitude... u can make that from his language... MERI Patni, MERI Prachi, MY darling wife.

Then there is Prachi with her Sati Savitri behaviour and Gandhigiri... he cant figure out her emotions behind it. And then he reads the Sms. Given his vulnerable state because he has just faced a heartbreak he cant turn blind to it... but at the same time he cant seem to overlook the trust he has on his wife... so it is all one big confusion for him.

And if u see him reacting to Neev-Parchi... he isnt fighting that presumed affair... it is more of accepting it with a heavy heart. He isnt passing moral judgements on them. Somewhere he understands their position(the way he thinks) That is why he says 'Kambakth Ishq bulaye nahi bulta.' And which is why he hasnt taken any concrete action against Neev-Prachi. But still it hurts him some where beyond understanding because the way Prachi takes care of him he feels she genuienly cares him and for him alone.

Milind is going to continue acting in an irrational manner till he realises he is in love and Prachi stops driving him up the wall with her Gandhigiri😡

wow!!....u seem to be reading Milind's mind...i feel like milind is just explaining his state😉

Originally posted by: samera143

wow!!....u seem to be reading Milind's mind...i feel like milind is just explaining his state😉

That is so sweet, Thank u and I am glad u liked it😊

even me too can't understand his behaviour...
i guess ekta herself is confuse herself....

i don't know about prachi
but milind-ayesha-neev haven't really gotten out of their past love....but milind-neev does have some caring feelings for their wives although they hate them....so this caring nature makes them into split personality