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Posted: 18 years ago
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Is love marriage? OK i had made a post a few days ago that sins of the father are sins of the daughter and that since Ayesha's mom didnot deserve the life and her daughter did not deserve being abandoned... but a few people said Ayesha's Ma broke up the marriage so she deserved it....she should have gone with a single man....

So thats why i am bringing up some Qs..... What is love? Can it happen only before marriage? If you are married to someone who is a childhood friend but you dont love them and then love comes in your life do you reject it? But if it came into your life before your marriage you would accept it?
If your marriage is already broken but you were in denial until your first love came along would that be an affair if you want to tell your wife the truth and end the relationship?

Keep in mind while thinking about these Qs that this is Ekta's show..... so it is highly improbable that Neev Prachi will get married so soon...then they will get married to different people and then will marry each other... Now after marriage when they come close will that be an affair? Why not because they loved each other before marriage....

Guys remember marriage is like sealing the deal... but the deal is love.... so without love if you sign on some papers it doesnt make sense.....

Inder's affair did not come out as a surprise.... his wife didnot find him cheating.. he was going to tell her... because he never really loved her... she was his friend...and their marriage was already broken when Ayesha's Mom came into his life......she did not break their home.....

I mean Inder and Premlata werent the happy loving couple whom Ayesha's Ma broke up while pretending to be a vamp....she cant be blamed for this.....

Inder should be blamed he should not have left Ayesha and her Ma...I mean there are so many divorced parents whose children get the love of both parents and besides its not like Premlata is in "love" with Inder... and she would not have been a bitter ex if Inder would have told her the truth....

I mean doesnt the idiot(no offense to his fans!!but too late i think) realise that the truth is going to come out some day - i mean there is a 5ft 4inches(guessing) living evidence of his deed - its not going to disappear!!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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👏well said👏

i would only say one word...love is blind it can happen anywhere anytime....it can be before marriage or after marriage we can't really stop it...thats what happened to inder

but seriously his mother has ruined all the happiness in his life

1)he wanted to be a painter but she rejects his decisions and ask him to be a businessman

2)she makes him married the women whom he never loved and he thought he will stay with her all life but she did not give him any love

3)because of her he could not give name to his another daughter which was his love symbol and now when she grown up she hates him

4)and now he wants to shower love with his 2nd daughter gives all the love needed and but don't let her know that she is his daughter his mother don't want that to happen

seriously his mother ruined all the happiness in his life that now he is suffocating within inside.....and torn between two women and two daughter in his lives

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Posted: 18 years ago
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um technically he is not torn between the 2 women as he clearly loves Ayeshas Ma but he is torn between the two daughters....
Man i hate Dadi for what she is doing!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i agree luv is blind.....1 secound ure friends and the next thing u noe ure in luv wid tht person.....luv is something tht some ppl dunt get while others r lucky enough 2 get luv.....in this seriel-im guessing tht both neev and prachi will marry some1 else, and while they r married 2 the 2 other ppl they will understand wht luv is and how much they luv each other....and i bet in the ending theyre goin 2 end up wid each other.....this whole entire drama is based around the fact tht it takes some time 2 realise ure in luv....
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: winnie7500

i agree luv is blind.....1 secound ure friends and the next thing u noe ure in luv wid tht person.....luv is something tht some ppl dunt get while others r lucky enough 2 get luv.....in this seriel-im guessing tht both neev and prachi will marry some1 else, and while they r married 2 the 2 other ppl they will understand wht luv is and how much they luv each other....and i bet in the ending theyre goin 2 end up wid each other.....this whole entire drama is based around the fact tht it takes some time 2 realise ure in luv....

but yaar they are already in love and have confess to each other they love each other so much can't live without each other.....yap that will be true knowing ekta records of breaking couples they will maybe married someone else but still they will love each other kayamath tak...thats what it means i think

but still i hope that neev-prachi gets married and face obstacles together

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

but yaar they are already in love and have confess to each other they love each other so much can't live without each other.....yap that will be true knowing ekta records of breaking couples they will maybe married someone else but still they will love each other kayamath tak...thats what it means i think

but still i hope that neev-prachi gets married and face obstacles together



well... i guess n-p will get married at some point on kayamath! but hopefully it will be soon enough.. or else by seeing the situation looks like there is a big chance of ayesha and neev to be together and prachi-milind to be together! hope that ekta does somethin different this time... atleast n-p can have a baby together... well i guess will just have to wait and watch
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think what Dadi is doing is right. Already inder has ruined Ayesha's life and there's not really much he can do abt it but if he isnt stopped then both his daughter's lives will be ruined.

Its better for 1 to suffer than both.


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Posted: 18 years ago
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i don't agree that love is blind
u just can't love some1 cax they r cute or watever
u have to no the person so u fall in love
love can happen any time
u can fall in love after marraige before marraige when u r in hihg school as i said u can fall in love any time
love is a feelin that u have for a person cax u like the way he is
u love everything about that person
his attitude the way he talks , his personality,
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I BELIEVE LOVE JST HAPPENS! 😉 the person doesn't need to look beutiful phisically but must have an intriguing personality 😉 . Physical beauty only attracts the other person to come near u, but once he notices u are snob or not a nice person, nothing can hold him to u 🤢 . In love, there should be compassion and understanding. Thats the same case with Inder...he fell in love with a person who understood him, when no one else did 😊 . But when he got married, he made a promise to his wfe that there shall not be anyone other than u, WHICH HE BROKE .

I think in few ways he is right and in many ways hes correct. He needed someone to love him. How many days can we go on without loving one another? We all need someone to love us, understand us, and hold us! 😳

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