Originally posted by: Opti
I dont think that Ayesha was a very consistent character. She started off as a regular girl but slowly the greys got darker till she was pretty black by the time she drove the car and hit Milind with a view to kill Prachi. She is supposed to have loved Milind to the point of obsession for her to be driven to this extent but if this is the case, then why did she marry Neev? Was a revenge against the Shahs, particularly Prachi more important than being with the man she claims to love? Did she for a minute think what effect if would have on Milind? OK let us assume that her desire for revenge was more than her love for Milind at the time and she later realised her mistake. How did she react to it? As Milind once said to her, "It is not wrong to love someone but it is wrong to hurt someone to get that love." And time and time again she hurt the very person (Milind) she claimed to love. She instigated Suki to elope knowing that Milind's father was a heart patient and Milind himself will be heart broken if something happens to his father. The heights was when she told Neev on the night of Suki's wedding that she may leave Milind for her reasons but she will never allow him to become anyone else's implying his happiness does not count but only hers does. I dont think that can be called love by any stretch of imagination. What is worse she even indulged in kidnapping a one year old inorder to blacken Prachi. What if the kidnappers had done something to harm the child?
Coming to the part where she hits Milind, after trying to find him first she then escapes from the accident site when the police arrive as she is more interested in protecting her hide rather than finding Milind. She never returned to the forrest to search for him but presumed he is dead, dramatically burning down the saree he had bought for her. Her brain was pretty active despite all the grieve for she even goes and burns down her car so as to not leave behind any evidence.
To me she was very much a vamp (not as bad as Malli but a vamp nevertheless) who never was a true friend or lover to Milind till they showed her sudden unbelievable transformation at the end of the PA track. It was disappointing that they did not devote more time into showing how that transformation came about.
I hated Ayesha but I loved Sanju. She was excellent in her role. Agree that Neev was one person who understood Ayesha well. Pity they did not explore a Neesha track. It would have been great and would have ensured that the show remained gripping instead of slipping as it did because of over concentration on repeated tracks of Michi union and seperation.
very good points Opti akka. compared to you i hardly know of her apart from the scenes ive watched here and there,,,and a few of the episodes from the early days of kayamath.
my thoughts...
from what i have seen so far, i felt the girl didnt know what love meant. she didnt have a proper family or the loving surroundings......the little attention she got was from Milind so when that was lost, she didnt care about anything else...so much that she didnt care abt Milind's feelings too. her character oozes selfishness...so self centered she was...but i kind of pity coz i feel she didnt even realize that her actions wud hurt her aswell in the process, very much, along with others she was hell bent to hurt. she wasnt happy when she got married to neev...
she sure made other's life hell but she sufferred too. she doesnt know how to love....she doesnt know what love is...what family and relationships mean and i dont blame her completely fro that. Yes if she were good and sensible she wudve gotten the love from teh Shah family but Ayesha being Ayesha...didnt want it from the Shahs of all people.
she didnt think about Milind's feelings but she very much wanted him to sulk over her...😕 after Michi's first wedding, she goes "kyun kiya tumne aisa Milind" and i was like...well wat the heck did YOU do lady....???😆but still,
yea AYesha had nothing in life....she never had anything.......inder aswell as Ayesha are to be blamed...but Ayesha grew up by herself...she never had anyone taking care of her or telling her wats right and wats wrong, showing her the right path...she certainly is much better than Alaap who had wonderful parents /childhood. compared to him Ayesha turned out much better.....and she isnt as bad as the vamps from other shows , gosh they are just total psychos....liek say Meera from Kasamh se...or the vamps from KZK etc..😆 Ayesha reasons for becoming so.....are more acceptable for me than the reasons provided for those other vamps for being so insane...
she did it for love and not for revenge or anything else. Milidn is her only family and so she was hell bent to get it 100%, not just as a beest frind but teh complete package...even if it hurt him. she didnt care. she wanted a family and that is him acc to her.
Anyways i dont know of her as much as you do...i havent seen her...heard her dialogues...so yea...
and ...neesha wudve been good may be...coz i love their chemistry. but i personally like how it ended. both, well atleast Neev, stuck to his love until teh very end. but nothing had the sighest of impact on michi's love. i see it that way. yes they mustve showed neev n ayesha move on...that wud infact move the story forward....but i guess im happy that Kayamath is abt Michi. it remained as a michi love story...and only Michi's.