Originally posted by: michifanreal
I find it contradicting that on one hand BT tries to show us holding up traditional Indian family values (showing a sacrificing Patni and a family that believes so much in rituals and traditions, values marriage etc..) but on the other hand most kids grow up with unhappy, fake of problem-ridden homes. One of the importnat aims of a family is to bring up children with healthy minds.
Look at Ayesha, she had a bad childhood without the name of a father and that explained her insecurities and wrong deeds.
And even Prachi, Aalaap, Bobby and Soumya all had to live with the fact that their dad had an illegetimate daughter too.
Even Milsi and Suk didn't have a mother right?
Only Neev had parents.. but then.. did his dad turn out to be a killer (if I am not wrong?).
MFR even Prachi, Alaap, Bobby and Souwmya had parents... it was only after Inders death did they find out that their dad had an illegetimate daughter... otherwise they were living a quite stable and sheltered life... Both PL and Inder loved them to bits...
Neev had parents but they weren't true parents... His mom Niharika was a selfish greedy woman who cared more about money than her son, and his dad a murderar....Simply put nobody cared a damn about him... Infact this is why Neev hanged out with the Shah family and considered PL to be his true mother so in a way he had security too....
Milinds mom died, I dunno when.... this part was never elaborated on, but I assume its from a young age, and not child birth as Suku was born after Milsi... Milind lived in the chawl and he was pretty poor, and Mishraji while loving had some of his own principles which contradicted with Milinds... though I think both took care of the household... So Milind had a troubled childhood, but his father and sister were affectionate, the problem was when situations arised where they depended on him...
Worst family ofcourse Ayesha's.... no father, she too lived in the chawl and was pretty poor, and infact instead of being taken care off, she had to be the one to take care of her mother from childhood... because of which she had to mature quicker than most children... and was deprived of a normal childhood and parents love....
Honestly, this show has never showed a proper mother and father and son/daughter pure bond... I mean looking @ the list, I would say Prachi/Alaap/Bobby etc had the best parents... but really doesn't that say a lot, when the characters who have the best parents concerns a father who is illegetimate???
Its annoying to see children deprived of their real parents love for some reason or the other!!!
Edited by meteora_smt - 17 years ago